Will you Quit or Hang on (Page 3)

Date: 11-03-2011 11:47 am (13 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- Treasure2 at 11-03-2011 02:35 PM (13 years ago)
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- sobeit at 11-03-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 
it's not right for a wife to reply a hash word to her husband parents,no matter what.the best way is always disappear from the scene and report the matter to her Man..let the Man do the talking,if he's a responsible one..he knows what to do in such matter.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 02:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 11-03-2011 02:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 02:41 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 
it's not right for a wife to reply a hash word to her husband parents,no matter what.the best way is always disappear from the scene and report the matter to her Man..let the Man do the talking,if he's a responsible one..he knows what to do in such matter.

If d hubby is nt a respnble man (nt acting as xpected)  like u sd nd such keeps occurin, what happens? Is d woman in questn nt a human huh?
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- sobeit at 11-03-2011 03:09 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 11-03-2011 02:55 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 02:41 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 
it's not right for a wife to reply a hash word to her husband parents,no matter what.the best way is always disappear from the scene and report the matter to her Man..let the Man do the talking,if he's a responsible one..he knows what to do in such matter.

If d hubby is nt a respnble man (nt acting as xpected)  like u sd nd such keeps occurin, what happens? Is d woman in questn nt a human huh?
of course,she's definitely a human with feelings like anybody else..that's why i mention "responsible Man"..if the man isn't responsible then he will reap what he sow period!! no two ways about that..cuz at the end of the day he's the one that's going to get the whole embarrassment ,not the wife or parents..i know the part i come from and what such people do face in their daily activities."the way you made your bed,that's how u gotta lay in it".
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- dirtykid at 11-03-2011 03:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 03:09 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 11-03-2011 02:55 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 02:41 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 
it's not right for a wife to reply a hash word to her husband parents,no matter what.the best way is always disappear from the scene and report the matter to her Man..let the Man do the talking,if he's a responsible one..he knows what to do in such matter.

If d hubby is nt a respnble man (nt acting as xpected)  like u sd nd such keeps occurin, what happens? Is d woman in questn nt a human huh?
of course,she's definitely a human with feelings like anybody else..that's why i mention "responsible Man"..if the man isn't responsible then he will reap what he sow period!! no two ways about that..cuz at the end of the day he's the one that's going to get the whole embarrassment ,not the wife or parents..i know the part i come from and what such people do face in their daily activities."the way you made your bed,that's how u gotta lay in it".

@Pepesy.. I'm glad you see my side of point here and touched it more like i wanted to explain further.
@Sobeit..... Bro ! me and you knows this very well, is not all Men that knows how to stood their ground and speak up, especially when it comes to those types that are over spoiled by their parents, and all they do is rely on their parents views in and decisions even if is bad... they will never say No or caution them. Such people always make mistakes... when it comes to issue between their parents and their Wife. they will have no place to stand because they seems confused. Lack of balls !!

Remember the lady ( the wife/GF) is someone's daughter, she didn't fall from sky, even if she does, she still deserve some respect from the man's parents... if they will not respect her and she tried to endure for long, of course she will be reporting issues to the man which is normal and nothing is changing... listening Bro !! that lady will roar someday to let that man's parents understand that she is human and got to say something if the husband will not do so... So in that case.. the man shouldn't come out now to start growing balls in the name of quit.. common thats silly attitude from any man that will behave that way.
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- divineproject at 11-03-2011 03:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Reading and popping the corn................
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- mazi at 11-03-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago)
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u blame urself for bringing home a madwoman home.
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- bittersweet at 11-03-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- sobeit at 11-03-2011 03:38 PM (13 years ago)
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@Dk..i understand you Bro!! mummy and daddy boy is what i call such kind of Men..A Man who doesn't knows his responsibility as a man,is not worthy to call a Man cuz he's not Man enough..of course!!! like i pointed out b4 on my previous comments.she's human being and deserve some respect too.that's why its advisable for a Man to work hard and have his own place he called home..cuz things like this are always common when couples lives together with their parents.no matter what problem must emerge from somewhere one day..it's absolutely unavoidable.
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- princedafe at 11-03-2011 03:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 

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- dirtykid at 11-03-2011 03:54 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 03:38 PM
@Dk..i understand you Bro!! mummy and daddy boy is what i call such kind of Men..A Man who doesn't knows his responsibility as a man,is not worthy to call a Man cuz he's not Man enough..of course!!! like i pointed out b4 on my previous comments.she's human being and deserve some respect too.that's why its advisable for a Man to work hard and have his own place he called home..cuz things like this are always common when couples lives together with their parents.no matter what problem must emerge from somewhere one day..it's absolutely unavoidable.


Exactly Bro !! You got the points now!! you made some great points & contribution on this as well.

If we take a look at it very well, Those Daddy-mummy's kinda boy/man, should have so much respect for the lady and should do everything to protect her from such issue.. because is certain it will occur one day. For that lady to accept living with him under the same roof of his parents.. she got so much Love for him and i think she deserve allot of respect for that.
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- pholake at 11-03-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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I wouldn't date a man that lacks manners.........I'm not so patient when it comes to insults on my parents..........
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- esonu at 11-03-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady
i will act like a real man, try not to beat her up nor quit and at the same time apologise to my parents on her behalf after which i will call her to order........dat shouldn't call for a quit so long as i love her
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- MissyBarbie at 11-03-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago)
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Insult ma Parent in my presence?
E dey craze?
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- Pepesy at 11-03-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 03:18 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 03:09 PM
Quote from: Pepesy on 11-03-2011 02:55 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 02:41 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 01:16 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 11-03-2011 11:47 AM
your bf/fiance insult your parent in your presence
what will you do as a lady


Depends on what ground he/she insult the parents... what if the parents are the irritating type, that one even know what they could do at a particular time, huh? We all knew some parents can be so irritating no matter how much you respect them or do anything to please them.... Maybe my partner has been enduring and hold on for long, but this time she can't hold back than to show some human behavior in her.

If such thing happen, and is my parents fault, I will apologize to her even because of my parents attitude, she is human and deserve her own respect, because she got parents as well, so mine shouldn't disrespect her when they knew i am there. Then for my parents i will caution them quietly not to allow such thing happen again, I might still send my girl to go apologize to them for been harsh no matter what.

However, if is my girl that just insulted my parents when is not worth it... i will take harsh decision from that point. I don't need someone who can stand on my front and insult my parents, I wonder what she will do to me in future... You all know where it will end from that moment !! MEETING Over !!  Wink 
it's not right for a wife to reply a hash word to her husband parents,no matter what.the best way is always disappear from the scene and report the matter to her Man..let the Man do the talking,if he's a responsible one..he knows what to do in such matter.

If d hubby is nt a respnble man (nt acting as xpected)  like u sd nd such keeps occurin, what happens? Is d woman in questn nt a human huh?
of course,she's definitely a human with feelings like anybody else..that's why i mention "responsible Man"..if the man isn't responsible then he will reap what he sow period!! no two ways about that..cuz at the end of the day he's the one that's going to get the whole embarrassment ,not the wife or parents..i know the part i come from and what such people do face in their daily activities."the way you made your bed,that's how u gotta lay in it".

@Pepesy.. I'm glad you see my side of point here and touched it more like i wanted to explain further.
@Sobeit..... Bro ! me and you knows this very well, is not all Men that knows how to stood their ground and speak up, especially when it comes to those types that are over spoiled by their parents, and all they do is rely on their parents views in and decisions even if is bad... they will never say No or caution them. Such people always make mistakes... when it comes to issue between their parents and their Wife. they will have no place to stand because they seems confused. Lack of balls !!

Remember the lady ( the wife/GF) is someone's daughter, she didn't fall from sky, even if she does, she still deserve some respect from the man's parents... if they will not respect her and she tried to endure for long, of course she will be reporting issues to the man which is normal and nothing is changing... listening Bro !! that lady will roar someday to let that man's parents understand that she is human and got to say something if the husband will not do so... So in that case.. the man shouldn't come out now to start growing balls in the name of quit.. common thats silly attitude from any man that will behave that way.

Sounds so sweet nd interestin
If d way u sounds most tyms is real u,,,,, ur wify must b a lucky 1 u knw hahahah
Posted: at 11-03-2011 04:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- esonu at 11-03-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago)
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......... Grin
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- sobeit at 11-03-2011 04:02 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: pholake on 11-03-2011 03:55 PM
I wouldn't date a man that lacks manners.........I'm not so patient when it comes to insults on my parents..........
hmm noted  Cheesy
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- sobeit at 11-03-2011 04:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 03:54 PM
Quote from: sobeit on 11-03-2011 03:38 PM
@Dk..i understand you Bro!! mummy and daddy boy is what i call such kind of Men..A Man who doesn't knows his responsibility as a man,is not worthy to call a Man cuz he's not Man enough..of course!!! like i pointed out b4 on my previous comments.she's human being and deserve some respect too.that's why its advisable for a Man to work hard and have his own place he called home..cuz things like this are always common when couples lives together with their parents.no matter what problem must emerge from somewhere one day..it's absolutely unavoidable.


Exactly Bro !! You got the points now!! you made some great points & contribution on this as well.

If we take a look at it very well, Those Daddy-mummy's kinda boy/man, should have so much respect for the lady and should do everything to protect her from such issue.. because is certain it will occur one day. For that lady to accept living with him under the same roof of his parents.. she got so much Love for him and i think she deserve allot of respect for that.
yeah!if only they could learn...cuz learning in such stage needs totally commitment,it's not gonna be easy at all..u r right here,she's bcuz of love of course..personally i won't be in same roof cuz prevention is far better than cure..anything that will prompt such drama should be avoided right from the beginning..
Posted: at 11-03-2011 04:10 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- uikocha at 11-03-2011 04:25 PM (13 years ago)
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that guy is so stupid
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- Peter_Ade at 11-03-2011 04:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on 11-03-2011 02:22 PM
Alright !!


Just like Gaddaffi's son will want others to treat his father in a right way, but his father forgot that other people he's killing out there got fathers. The problem in our world today is, we don't stand our ground to call bad thing bad thing.... if my parents will ever misbehave and i know that, they're going the wrong way, I will be the first to throw in caution warnings on the air for them. I will not want them to embarrass me outside. Charity they say begins at home... and whatever we do in secret is waiting somewhere for us in the broad day light. 

dis is serious point ooo DK
wu dey give home training here na.
pikin or parents Huh?Huh??
Posted: at 11-03-2011 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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