Is it wise to discuss your past life with a new partner?

Date: 17-03-2011 7:06 pm (13 years ago) | Author: BRIGHT CHUKWUDI IFUNANYACHI ES
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- at 17-03-2011 07:06 PM (13 years ago)
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ladies and gentlemen, do you think it will be wise for two partners to tell each other stories about their past life both the good and bad side of it....to me, i think its wise so that in case a bad story is been heard from an outsider, it will not be a problem which might result to a breakup...ur opinions plsss


Posted: at 17-03-2011 07:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
- SNYPER at 17-03-2011 07:12 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 17-03-2011 07:06 PM
ladies and gentlemen, do you think it will be wise for two partners to tell each other stories about their past life both the good and bad side of it....to me, i think its wise so that in case a bad story is been heard from an outsider, it will not be a problem which might result to a breakup...ur opinions plsss
u 've said it all...but depending on d personalities involved sha.
Posted: at 17-03-2011 07:12 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 17-03-2011 07:15 PM (13 years ago)
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its good u tell on the earlier  stage of the relationship wethere good or bad
Posted: at 17-03-2011 07:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 17-03-2011 07:26 PM (13 years ago)
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yes i said that only to my hubby ofcourse  i normally dont have secrets
Posted: at 17-03-2011 07:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 17-03-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Yu Should tell but not Mainly Becos yu Wanno Avoid Break up... Just a matter of knowing yurselves well

Posted: at 17-03-2011 07:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- gimac at 17-03-2011 07:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: esonu on 17-03-2011 07:06 PM
ladies and gentlemen, do you think it will be wise for two partners to tell each other stories about their past life both the good and bad side of it....to me, i think its wise so that in case a bad story is been heard from an outsider, it will not be a problem which might result to a breakup...ur opinions plsss

that is the best thing to do,to build a trust and future problem
Posted: at 17-03-2011 07:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 17-03-2011 08:47 PM (13 years ago)
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trecking

Posted: at 17-03-2011 08:47 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xter at 17-03-2011 09:05 PM (13 years ago)
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I will tell her some and keep lots of it to myself



If I had been an assassin would I tell her? Definitely no! If we break up she will be d one to hand me over to d cops

Posted: at 17-03-2011 09:05 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 17-03-2011 09:28 PM (13 years ago)
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yeah but don't tell all

Posted: at 17-03-2011 09:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Diamond4u at 17-03-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago)
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I WILL NOT TELL ALL
Posted: at 17-03-2011 10:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ladyjayrita at 17-03-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago)
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ofcause na,  abi u want make breaking of heart come out first bef u tell, early is the bette. na me dey tell all. if time come na he say ar dont kno u finsh, na me dey tell, na the new one still dey, story kno dey finsh ooooooooooooh
Posted: at 17-03-2011 10:33 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- oohio2007 at 17-03-2011 10:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 17-03-2011 09:28 PM
yeah but don't tell all
Surpose your partner eventually finds out all the aspect of yourself you refuse to disclose?

Posted: at 17-03-2011 10:35 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Larrykingomoj at 17-03-2011 11:19 PM (13 years ago)
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Sometimes it works sometimes it does not worl, it really depends on the undertstand of the individual involve because human minds are very trickish, becareful on what say because it may boomerang against you. You must say the truth doesn't mean that all truth must be said. Be very careful.
Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Youngstoriez at 17-03-2011 11:21 PM (13 years ago)
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.....its not wise at all....d past is d past!!
Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:21 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mallorca at 17-03-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: xter on 17-03-2011 09:05 PM
I will tell her some and keep lots of it to myself



If I had been an assassin would I tell her? Definitely no! If we break up she will be d one to hand me over to d cops
word of wisdom

Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:23 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 17-03-2011 11:28 PM (13 years ago)
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You can discuss past relationships / dates... it doesn't matter.. qui cera, cera !!

Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:28 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 17-03-2011 11:43 PM (13 years ago)
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oh jeh!!

Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Youngstoriez at 17-03-2011 11:45 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 17-03-2011 11:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- williams100 at 18-03-2011 01:15 AM (13 years ago)
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ITS REALLY NO BIG DEAL.
Posted: at 18-03-2011 01:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- massaquoi28 at 18-03-2011 04:12 AM (13 years ago)
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I think for you to build a strong relationship and trust level build too...you shall split out all the bad and good...early so that she or him can know you more and not doubt you...It helpful to a strong relationship....but if you know it just a night stand and not mean to go far you shall not tell him/she because it won't matter at all...
Posted: at 18-03-2011 04:12 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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