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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 25-03-2011 07:44 PM
hmm not all behave that way...
tell her
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 25-03-2011 07:44 PM hmm not all behave that way... tell her
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 10:41 AM Quote from: harakiri on 28-03-2011 10:29 AM @Onyiis In respect to your comment, i beg to differ. . . Personally, i don't believe in marriage (that's my view point by the way) but i don't view cooking and tidying up as "chores". Matter of fact, i love to cook. It's a hobby to me and i don't view it as work. Same thing with keeping my environment clean. I do understand that our culture dictates that a woman should do these chores but my perspective is different. Even when i'm in a serious relationship with a woman, i still prefer to cook and believe it or not, there are very few women i know that can cook better than i do. I cook because i enjoy it and not because i have fallen mugu to a woman. Cheers.   you are right i know men that cook very well ..............my husband is a good example . My point is in talking of "double standard " How can a man be doing the same thing to two women at a time , one his legally married wife and the other ....i dont even know what to call her and the poster saw it as if its the women that is "doublestandading"? I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ Replybut @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman?
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no comments yet. i dey come ReplyI bet u, when u wan chop cake, na then u go knw say oven dey.
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:45 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 10:41 AM Quote from: harakiri on 28-03-2011 10:29 AM @Onyiis In respect to your comment, i beg to differ. . . Personally, i don't believe in marriage (that's my view point by the way) but i don't view cooking and tidying up as "chores". Matter of fact, i love to cook. It's a hobby to me and i don't view it as work. Same thing with keeping my environment clean. I do understand that our culture dictates that a woman should do these chores but my perspective is different. Even when i'm in a serious relationship with a woman, i still prefer to cook and believe it or not, there are very few women i know that can cook better than i do. I cook because i enjoy it and not because i have fallen mugu to a woman. Cheers. you are right i know men that cook very well ..............my husband is a good example . My point is in talking of "double standard " How can a man be doing the same thing to two women at a time , one his legally married wife and the other ....i dont even know what to call her and the poster saw it as if its the women that is "doublestandading"? sh complained e left her for that other woman ........THAT MEAS HE AS B SEIG THAT OME EVN efoe the divorce "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving. but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? That is the question "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:45 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 10:41 AM Quote from: harakiri on 28-03-2011 10:29 AM @Onyiis In respect to your comment, i beg to differ. . . Personally, i don't believe in marriage (that's my view point by the way) but i don't view cooking and tidying up as "chores". Matter of fact, i love to cook. It's a hobby to me and i don't view it as work. Same thing with keeping my environment clean. I do understand that our culture dictates that a woman should do these chores but my perspective is different. Even when i'm in a serious relationship with a woman, i still prefer to cook and believe it or not, there are very few women i know that can cook better than i do. I cook because i enjoy it and not because i have fallen mugu to a woman. Cheers. you are right i know men that cook very well ..............my husband is a good example . My point is in talking of "double standard " How can a man be doing the same thing to two women at a time , one his legally married wife and the other ....i dont even know what to call her and the poster saw it as if its the women that is "doublestandading"?
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:52 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:45 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 10:41 AM Quote from: harakiri on 28-03-2011 10:29 AM @Onyiis In respect to your comment, i beg to differ. . . Personally, i don't believe in marriage (that's my view point by the way) but i don't view cooking and tidying up as "chores". Matter of fact, i love to cook. It's a hobby to me and i don't view it as work. Same thing with keeping my environment clean. I do understand that our culture dictates that a woman should do these chores but my perspective is different. Even when i'm in a serious relationship with a woman, i still prefer to cook and believe it or not, there are very few women i know that can cook better than i do. I cook because i enjoy it and not because i have fallen mugu to a woman. Cheers. you are right i know men that cook very well ..............my husband is a good example . My point is in talking of "double standard " How can a man be doing the same thing to two women at a time , one his legally married wife and the other ....i dont even know what to call her and the poster saw it as if its the women that is "doublestandading"? sh complained e left her for that other woman ........THAT MEAS HE AS B SEIG THAT OME EVN efoe the divorce I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? That's rubbish! Because even here in Nigeria, a lot of people (especially the man's family) still view it as a taboo for the husband to engage in household chores...... whether the woman is black or white, the man's got to help! I believe it's simple jealousy on the part of the wife......what makes her think she's more special than the white woman? What makes her believe she's the one who only deserves the "caring" like she put it? In this respect, what's good for the black is also good for the white.........the woman's just looking for a way to spite her man (ex)......
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:59 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:59 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN I think she is............she views her husband doing house-hold chores for a white woman as being an enslavement of the man.....and this is not right
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:58 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:52 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:45 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 10:41 AM Quote from: harakiri on 28-03-2011 10:29 AM @Onyiis In respect to your comment, i beg to differ. . . Personally, i don't believe in marriage (that's my view point by the way) but i don't view cooking and tidying up as "chores". Matter of fact, i love to cook. It's a hobby to me and i don't view it as work. Same thing with keeping my environment clean. I do understand that our culture dictates that a woman should do these chores but my perspective is different. Even when i'm in a serious relationship with a woman, i still prefer to cook and believe it or not, there are very few women i know that can cook better than i do. I cook because i enjoy it and not because i have fallen mugu to a woman. Cheers. you are right i know men that cook very well ..............my husband is a good example . My point is in talking of "double standard " How can a man be doing the same thing to two women at a time , one his legally married wife and the other ....i dont even know what to call her and the poster saw it as if its the women that is "doublestandading"? sh complained e left her for that other woman ........THAT MEAS HE AS B SEIG THAT OME EVN efoe the divorce Then the story was not well contructd Tha he left her for another woman means the other woman was already in his life before the divorse Then she would have said now, he is datig or ............ "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 12:00 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? That's rubbish! Because even here in Nigeria, a lot of people (especially the man's family) still view it as a taboo for the husband to engage in household chores...... whether the woman is black or white, the man's got to help! I believe it's simple jealousy on the part of the wife......what makes her think she's more special than the white woman? What makes her believe she's the one who only deserves the "caring" like she put it? In this respect, what's good for the black is also good for the white.........the woman's just looking for a way to spite her man (ex)...... I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 12:02 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:59 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN Thats from poeples comment and maybe another topic ...........am drawing my comment from the initial post/topic "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 12:05 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:58 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:52 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:45 AM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 10:41 AM Quote from: harakiri on 28-03-2011 10:29 AM @Onyiis In respect to your comment, i beg to differ. . . Personally, i don't believe in marriage (that's my view point by the way) but i don't view cooking and tidying up as "chores". Matter of fact, i love to cook. It's a hobby to me and i don't view it as work. Same thing with keeping my environment clean. I do understand that our culture dictates that a woman should do these chores but my perspective is different. Even when i'm in a serious relationship with a woman, i still prefer to cook and believe it or not, there are very few women i know that can cook better than i do. I cook because i enjoy it and not because i have fallen mugu to a woman. Cheers. you are right i know men that cook very well ..............my husband is a good example . My point is in talking of "double standard " How can a man be doing the same thing to two women at a time , one his legally married wife and the other ....i dont even know what to call her and the poster saw it as if its the women that is "doublestandading"? sh complained e left her for that other woman ........THAT MEAS HE AS B SEIG THAT OME EVN efoe the divorce Then the story was not well contructd Tha he left her for another woman means the other woman was already in his life before the divorse Then she would have said now, he is datig or ............ I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 12:03 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:59 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN I think she is............she views her husband doing house-hold chores for a white woman as being an enslavement of the man.....and this is not right well i dont see it that way like i said i understood the topic as that he left her for the other woman so its the man that is playing a double standard "Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
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Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 12:03 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:59 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN I think she is............she views her husband doing house-hold chores for a white woman as being an enslavement of the man.....and this is not right
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Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 12:06 PM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 12:02 PM Quote from: onyiis on 28-03-2011 11:59 AM Quote from: typicalman84 on 28-03-2011 11:54 AM Quote from: pholake on 28-03-2011 11:49 AM Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........ It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving.but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman? From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN Thats from poeples comment and maybe another topic ...........am drawing my comment from the initial post/topic I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!!
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