![-]( "sobeit") sobeit at 28-03-2011 12:11 PM (13 years ago)  (m) Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........
but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman?
It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving. From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN I think she is............she views her husband doing house-hold chores for a white woman as being an enslavement of the man.....and this is not right good talk,that's how discussing should be,than some people trying to be double stand ard and bias.. | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 28-03-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) (f) My arguement is using that sentece "he left her for another woman" and what it really means
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 28-03-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) (f) Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........
but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman?
It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving. From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN Did you read other people's comments on here about Nigerian men being enslaved to white women... How many times have you heard that Nigerian men are enslaved to nigerian women. Like i said earlier it is the mentality. Thats from poeples comment and maybe another topic ...........am drawing my comment from the initial post/topic Beliieve me she is. Again it's all in the head. am not doubting her mentallilty or claiming it does not exist but i am saying no woman will be happy seeing his husband doing the same thing he does for her for another woman despite her comour or race ..................unless she doen not love him
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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My arguement is using that sentece "he left her for another woman" and what it really means
and i am telling you that the fact she said it doesn't make it true. Why would you believe anything a woman who couldn't hide her hatred for her ex's new love say.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........
but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman?
It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving. From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN Did you read other people's comments on here about Nigerian men being enslaved to white women... How many times have you heard that Nigerian men are enslaved to nigerian women. Like i said earlier it is the mentality. Thats from poeples comment and maybe another topic ...........am drawing my comment from the initial post/topic Beliieve me she is. Again it's all in the head. am not doubting her mentallilty or claiming it does not exist but i am saying no woman will be happy seeing his husband doing the same thing he does for her for another woman despite her comour or race ..................unless she doen not love him I am going to say this again and for the last time. HER EX-HUSBAND. So what he does for her is none of her business.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 28-03-2011 12:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) @Poster I know what you're getting at but you're barking up the wrong tree. Your post should be "Women and their double standards" and not Nigerian women alone. These same issues you've brought about concerning Nigerian women is also perpetrated by ALL women round the world...the only difference is their mentality and manner of presentation when it comes to discussing issues PERIOD!!! An adult lady who was taken out of Nigeria at the age of 5 will NOT have the same mentality as one who left this country as a teenager or an adult. The social strata plays a crucial role in forming their minds and perception of the world at large (i don't need to go into boring details describing how messed up this country is). That being said, women will always be women irrespective of race or nationality. If you want to talk about double standards, what do you have to say about women in the western hemisphere who believe they are "entitled" to be compensated for bearing children and raising THEIR OWN KIDS? ? ? This is very common place in a society that has totally biased divorce settlement laws that are aimed at giving a man next to zero change of fairness in the court of law. Even if the wife cheats on him, brings home STD's plus another man's child, the soon to be ex-husband stands NO CHANCE court. The illogical conclusion would be that she cheated on him because her "needs" weren't being met in the marriage but if the man cheats on her, then he is labelled as an unrepentant he-goat who didn't put his family first before he made a "bad" decision and the court judge will make sure he hands him down the harshest spousal/child support ruling obtainable within the laws of the state. So much for fairness and equality. Back to the topic of discussion. . . I think it's safe to say that women generally having disgruntled emotions when they get dumped. It doesn't matter if they express themselves differently. In one way or the other, they will still make some utterances that will make your jaw drop and you'll wonder if there's actually a brain in that skull of their's (no insult intended to the ladies). Like you said, a white lady might get jealous and bitter that she's lost a rare gem (she probably did things to make him go away for starters such as nagging him to death or cheating on him) while a typical Nigerian lady might claim that the new woman in his life hooked him with voodoo ( YES! I know our women very well...lol  ). It all boils down to an expression of bitterness and regret and it's not limited to race or nationality. It's time you modified your post Mr. Nuff said! I think my post points out exactly what I meant by Nigerian women's double standard. And just like you said it's about the mentality and that is the reason i specifically narrowed this behavior down to affecting NIGERIAN Women. The mentality is that when a Nigerian man hooks up with a White woman or better yet marries her, it is definitely for papers and he will be her slave until he gets his papers. You and I could agree on this. So I knew exactly what I posted and the Subject I chose for the post is perfect for the content of this post. thank you Mr. for your one cent. For someone who's presenting himself as being "civil and ethical", i would have expected you to get your reply across without the smart alec remarks. What do you mean by my "one cent"? I previously thought i was talking to someone who was at least a bit decent and enlightened but nonetheless, i will not condescend to your level of using curt remarks. From this recent post of yours, it's pretty clear that you're not speaking from a rational/objective point of view but rather you have a completely biased perspective. First of all, ALL women display different forms of irrational behavior when they are either hurt or emotional distraught. I don't know where you're from but i do know that you're a black man and if you're a black man in some part of the western hemisphere, there's a great possibility that your forefathers who were carried away as slaves were from this geographical entity called Nigeria. Most of the slaves came from HERE! (Unless you're originally from another African country). That being said, what's with this cheap remark of yours concerning "Nigerian men hooking up with white women for papers"? I know very well that a lot of Nigerians do it and so do other nationalities so what's with the "holier than thou" attitude? Do you think every Nigerian man is desperate to travel to the west? The fact that some Nigerian men are forced to go after white women is due to the economic hardship of the country they are from and if you spend only 2 weeks in Nigeria, you'll understand why. Furthermore, the same Nigerian women you're painting black are the same women white men dump their women for. More and more western white men are turning to black women and believe it or not, NIGERIAN WOMEN MAKE UP THE GREATER MAJORITY!!! The same white women you probably hold in high esteem are looked down upon as being sadistic ingrates by their white males. What do you aim to achieve by coming to a Nigerian forum to paint Nigerian women black?
This thread of yours and your recent comment is really disappointing. It's really sad to see a black man pulling other blacks down. Do you think that makes you look better than others? Do you think the white man will congratulate you for a job "well done"? Really sad.   ride on bro  give it to that loudmouth slave  his on fire now tell that jerk lol........................ his not only a disapointment but also a big disgrace to manhood 
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:34 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 28-03-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago) (f) What proof do you have. You wish i checked out your profile. I have no business with old ladies with grey bushy c*@t hairs. stop checking me out slave ...................... foolish stinking man frot!!
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Fasholalag") Fasholalag at 28-03-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago) (m) hey hw re u? u like dat i wanna talk to u,re u free to talk nw. | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:38 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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MUTED.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 28-03-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) (f) Personally speaking: cooking and some other house-hold chores by a man shouldn't be viewed as a weakness on the man's part any longer at this age....but frankly speaking, it is the sorry fact that we're still tied to some stupid traditions that's d main problem here.....and that is why polygamy still thrives ....... we are made to take it forcefully (otherwise u're viewed as being antagonistic to traditions and as less than a woman) that the man is the Lord of the house and should be treated as such...........but I believe this view is changing; people in relationships (not necessarily marriage0 should help each other....we should stop viewing financing as the man's sole responsibility and house-hold chores as a no-go area for men........
but @ poster: what is really the point here? Is it that the woman is generally opposed to handling house-chores by men OR that she's opposed to her husband doing it for another woman?
It is about her mentality that he is doing it for a white woman... The mentality that any nigerian man dating/married to a white woman is enslaved to the white woman. but if the man does all these other stuff for the Nigerian woman, he is called caring and loving. From the story i dont think the woman is Particular abaut the other womans colour.....................if he ws doing ito a lck om hile they ar maried ......HE WILL STLL COMPLAIN Did you read other people's comments on here about Nigerian men being enslaved to white women... How many times have you heard that Nigerian men are enslaved to nigerian women. Like i said earlier it is the mentality. Thats from poeples comment and maybe another topic ...........am drawing my comment from the initial post/topic Beliieve me she is. Again it's all in the head. am not doubting her mentallilty or claiming it does not exist but i am saying no woman will be happy seeing his husband doing the same thing he does for her for another woman despite her comour or race ..................unless she doen not love him I am going to say this again and for the last time. HER EX-HUSBAND. So what he does for her is none of her business. My take is this: after parting with ur man/woman, what he/she does to his/her new partner/spouse is NOT my business......If he's doing things to the new woman which he was not doing to his ex-wife, that's rather unfortunate but none of the ex-wife's headache! Since they've parted, the wife should concentrate on building another relationship and making it a success BUT not poking her nose into her ex's new r/ship! Afterall, they're divorced and she must have either agreed to the divorce b4 it was granted or she must have been grossly at fault! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 28-03-2011 12:43 PM (13 years ago) (f) Reply |
![-]( "pholake") pholake at 28-03-2011 12:43 PM (13 years ago) (f) Meanwhile, I think the poster shouldn't generalize.....it's the same problem we're having....some Nigerian women are still liberal-minded. | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 28-03-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago) (f) hahahhahahhahaa typecal a no honeypot getting nigga..still get the balls to say shit on here..oy old man..what the fcuk is your muthafcuking problem?[sonofabitch]like i have said go and look for a dry honeypot to suck..nigga..when u done with that shit u can come on here and battle words with me..i am to fly to be fighting with a deadbeat like u..dickhead..geezer..i will talk u with soon.brb..
Redundancy is a disease my dear. we know ur type.u are the type that hardly feed back home b4 coming to western world and after hocking up to one white woman that manage to give u money for a job well done if only u know what l mean slavery to be preside.u start running ur mounth.wait in the next five years ur language will change.i f only u still have ur brain intact.lazy man.ur mate are making it back home and abroad still proud of where they come from and their women u are here insulting ur mother and sisters cos the moment u said nigerian women u have automatically invilve them.from the begining of ur post u start by atacking nayone woman that coment on ur topic that did.nt pls u.no single respect.u said the so call woman u used as an example was ur friend.and some times she will tell u that her man was a nice man and all those good thing she said u didn,t see to comment on but at the end u lebel her a bitch at the end .that is to say u are the hypocrite man or friend to her.don,t worry u will surely meet ur waterloo in this ur slavery that u are. big time slave when real men re busy making real cash his bragging abt his slavery ........ dump arse
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Meanwhile, I think the poster shouldn't generalize.....it's the same problem we're having....some Nigerian women are still liberal-minded.
And this is why in the post, it reads " Most if not all nigerian women have gone bunkers"
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 28-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) My arguement is using that sentece "he left her for another woman" and what it really means
and i am telling you that the fact she said it doesn't make it true. Why would you believe anything a woman who couldn't hide her hatred for her ex's new love say. not really what she said but how you put it down in the text
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 28-03-2011 12:52 PM (13 years ago) (f) Meanwhile, I think the poster shouldn't generalize.....it's the same problem we're having....some Nigerian women are still liberal-minded.
And this is why in the post, it reads " Most if not all nigerian women have gone bunkers" hheheheheeeeeeeeee !!! some and not most
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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@phloake... you could use the reply from some of these women to really see what my post is all about.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Meanwhile, I think the poster shouldn't generalize.....it's the same problem we're having....some Nigerian women are still liberal-minded.
And this is why in the post, it reads " Most if not all nigerian women have gone bunkers" hheheheheeeeeeeeee !!! some and not most LOL. Actually most.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 28-03-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago) (f) Meanwhile, I think the poster shouldn't generalize.....it's the same problem we're having....some Nigerian women are still liberal-minded.
And this is why in the post, it reads " Most if not all nigerian women have gone bunkers" hheheheheeeeeeeeee !!! some and not most Yeah, some Nigerian women and not most Nigerian women.....we have these issues in some other countries too....every ethnicity has got its strengths and weaknesses | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:55 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "pholake") pholake at 28-03-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago) (f) @phloake... you could use the reply from some of these women to really see what my post is all about.
Well......@ times, u can't use what u read here to judge people's real personality.....just my thought | Posted: at 28-03-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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