I have this good child hood friend of my mine whom i will never in life like to seprate from. We still do hang out and do everything in common as we use to do during out child hood days. but recently i caught his wife twice cheating on him. I think its not lack of sex at home becouse my friend is a bull-dog when it comes to that. I will never like to see his marriage crumble. The wife is fully aware that i saw her twice cheating on him, she keep pleading with me not to tell him. please i need your advice on this. I don't want to see their marriage end nor do i want to keep secret from my friend.
Posted: at 1-04-2011 06:59 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
implication!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!guy,i no go talk oooooooo i wont even allow the wife to see me,cos make my frd find out himself,i no go break person marriage or come become loss my frd cos of the guy is good
Posted: at 1-04-2011 07:20 AM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
bittersweet at 1-04-2011 08:21 AM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: teebaz990 on 1-04-2011 06:59 AM
I have this good child hood friend of my mine whom i will never in life like to seprate from. We still do hang out and do everything in common as we use to do during out child hood days. but recently i caught his wife twice cheating on him. I think its not lack of sex at home becouse my friend is a bull-dog when it comes to that. I will never like to see his marriage crumble. The wife is fully aware that i saw her twice cheating on him, she keep pleading with me not to tell him. please i need your advice on this. I don't want to see their marriage end nor do i want to keep secret from my friend.
Don't tell him anything! It's better to stay away from issues like this,but...if u're totally sure she cheats on him, u can give him some subtle hints,but not referring at his marriage directly, but just some eyes opener words! He'll find out by himself eventually!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 1-04-2011 08:21 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
I have this good child hood friend of my mine whom i will never in life like to seprate from. We still do hang out and do everything in common as we use to do during out child hood days. but recently i caught his wife twice cheating on him. I think its not lack of sex at home becouse my friend is a bull-dog when it comes to that. I will never like to see his marriage crumble. The wife is fully aware that i saw her twice cheating on him, she keep pleading with me not to tell him. please i need your advice on this. I don't want to see their marriage end nor do i want to keep secret from my friend.
this is hard to chew,talk to the wife and let her know the implication,dont even mention these to the husband
Posted: at 1-04-2011 08:26 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
what a violent reaction u want him to shoot the wife... this man is asking advise and u want him to become a murderer Gimac ur sooo funny!
@poster, if u really care for ur friend, then talk to the wife and warn her..if she is still doing it then talk to your friend...better for them to settle down the issues before it become worst and end up a bloody scene.
Hope my smiles will touch my pals heart
Posted: at 1-04-2011 09:08 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
what a violent reaction u want him to shoot the wife... this man is asking advise and u want him to become a murderer Gimac ur sooo funny!
@poster, if u really care for ur friend, then talk to the wife and warn her..if she is still doing it then talk to your friend...better for them to settle down the issues before it become worst and end up a bloody scene.
for him to keep his childhood friend......the husband will be glad
Posted: at 1-04-2011 09:20 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Talk to the woman and find out what her problem is (why he is cheating on her man)................Then from there you can know if her reasons is what you can maturely discuss with your friend .
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing".
Posted: at 1-04-2011 09:42 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
Marriage issue is a very sensitive thing and one needs God's wisdom when handling such issues. You are kind of stuck in the middle. It is best to stay out of it if you can. You could have a chat with ur friend's wife, if she doesn't stop..... trust me her sin would find her out. It is just a matter of time.
Posted: at 1-04-2011 09:59 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
MissyBarbie at 1-04-2011 01:51 PM (14 years ago) (f)
Quote from: teebaz990 on 1-04-2011 06:59 AM
I have this good child hood friend of my mine whom i will never in life like to seprate from. We still do hang out and do everything in common as we use to do during out child hood days. but recently i caught his wife twice cheating on him. I think its not lack of sex at home becouse my friend is a bull-dog when it comes to that. I will never like to see his marriage crumble. The wife is fully aware that i saw her twice cheating on him, she keep pleading with me not to tell him. please i need your advice on this. I don't want to see their marriage end nor do i want to keep secret from my friend.
You want my advice? Just
Posted: at 1-04-2011 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
@ poster: u're in a delicate position for his wife to have seen u. It would've been easy to notify the husband anonymously had the wife not seen u but now, even if the husband finds out from other sources than urs, u're in for a war with her......the best advice had been given u. Advice her to desist with a promise not to disclose to the husband but find ways of distancing urself from the marriage.......on a lighter note, what were u urself doing where u caught her 2ce?
Posted: at 1-04-2011 01:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
what about if the lady decide to tell her husband that you are after her cos she feel,if u arenot distance from the husband,u will mistakingly tell him during ur driking together,this issue is very delicate,lets pray not to the woman at all,devil comot from my house
Posted: at 1-04-2011 02:07 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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