Is it a crime for one to live with his/her parents no matter the age?
I tire oo o o o o o o it is not a crime but it is shameful though. Unless you are the first Son. Especially in Nigeria where the first son automatically owns most of the fathers properties. It is good to have your own place as that same father has his own place...unless your dad still lives in your grandfather's house.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 2-04-2011 06:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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this is nt a matter of ajebutter life, it seems there is something wrong wit the mother, to cage a grown up man of 40yrs, dats too bad. even a child dats of dat kind of age dat dey dont cage, they do pray 4 him t get married on time. i think at ds juntn we shld ask d mother why she's treating d son in such manner. if after dat has be done, d woman refuse t change, i think d man is old enough t decide 4 himself. : otanx
more greese t d elbow of d sender. Posted: at 2-04-2011 06:54 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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this is nt a matter of ajebutter life, it seems there is something wrong wit the mother, to cage a grown up man of 40yrs, dats too bad. even a child dats of dat kind of age dat dey dont cage, they do pray 4 him t get married on time. i think at ds juntn we shld ask d mother why she's treating d son in such manner. if after dat has be done, d woman refuse t change, i think d man is old enough t decide 4 himself. : otanx
more greese t d elbow of d sender. The problem shouldn't even be the mother. The 40 year old himself has a lot of problems for not even atleast scolding the mother for such behavior. I understand that parents should not be talked to in a disrespectful way but sometimes they need to be scolded when they do something wrong... I always advice to talk to them first before it gets to the scolding stage. I am the 4th son, 27 years old, married, a great carer, have my own houses and investments and scolds my parents respectfully when they prove stubborn sometimes and most of the times that is the only language to make em really understand how serious and mature you are. Believe me, some parents want to see that in the children. That's how they know that you're REALLY grown and can run things on your own.
I'M THA MAN IN MY CITY YO!!! Posted: at 2-04-2011 07:01 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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aliaaz at 2-04-2011 09:26 PM (13 years ago) (m) k
They closed the door but that ain't stop me from coming in ;) Posted: at 2-04-2011 09:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ceejay58 at 2-04-2011 10:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) NONSENSE!!! can't believe this is real... or is he an imbecile? doesn't he have a mind of his own? oya na let him mama begin marry am... this is foolishness of the highest order. Posted: at 2-04-2011 10:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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ceejay58 at 2-04-2011 10:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) @ 40?........ look closely dear, there must be something else going on between him and his mum. Posted: at 2-04-2011 10:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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dirtykid at 2-04-2011 11:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) A fool at 40yrs, is a fool for ................. can someone help me complete it
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !! Posted: at 2-04-2011 11:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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A fool at 40yrs, is a fool for ................. can someone help me complete it
Yes, surely a fool for ever.
Who Jah Blessed, No Man Cursed...... Posted: at 3-04-2011 01:17 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I LEFT MY PARENTS WHEN I WAS JUST 17 YEARS OLD THEN AFTER 5 YEARS WHEN I CAME BACK TO NIGERIA FOR THE FIRST TIME, I WAS A DIFFERENT PERSON TO MY PARENTS. MY FATHER WAS TALKING TO ME MAN TO MAN WHILE WE WERE SIPPING DRINKS AND MY FOODS ALWAYS BE PASS BEFORE ME. I GREW UP FASTER FOR LIVING ALONE AT MY EARLIER YEARS AND I WAS TAKING CARE OF THINGS BOTH HOME AND HERE. IN U.S. ONCE YOUR 18YRS YOUR PARENTS WILL TRY TO PUSH YOU OUT OF THEIR HOUSE. YOU BECOME A MAN EASILY ONCE YOU'RE LIVING ON YOUR OWN AND TAKING CARE OF YOUR BILLS AND OTHER THINGS. I DONT CARE HOW OLD YOU'RE, ONCE YOUR STILL LIVING WITH YOUR PARENTS, THEY'LL STILL TALK TO YOU AS A BABY..
P.S DON'T HATE ME BCOZ OF WHAT COMES OUT OF MY MOUTH, I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT MYSELF, SO phyukOFF.. Posted: at 3-04-2011 06:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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donuche at 4-04-2011 02:51 AM (13 years ago) (m) the guy should simply let her mother see reasons why he should be left alone but at the same time the mother is doing all that out of love and need not to be hostile at because that would amount to hurting her feelings. let the guy take things easy with the mother and liberate himself tactically or diplomatically. up till today my mother always want to know where i go when i am home just because she cares but she doesnt tell me the kind of ladies and guys that i would hang out with but will always tel me to be careful when she saw me with some kind of friends that she doesnt like and that is a mother to you. that guy need to take things easy with his mother. she is just being a good mother but i think it is becoming too much and too much of every thing is bad. Posted: at 4-04-2011 02:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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auju at 4-04-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) (f) OBI IS A BOY @40.................... Men u need a Pastor....... Posted: at 4-04-2011 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:45 PM (13 years ago) (f) Running away is nt d best option,bt did u say 40??? He let his mum live his life 4 him 4 40years??? He should've addressed d issue b4 nw.......confronted her and let her knw he's nt d baby she used 2 knw.....meanwhile,where is his father? And what has he been saying about dis issue?
is like d father don change address i wonder o my sister! All together but he is a bit subtle ...............the mother is more outspoken
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago) (f) What happened to her husband, why isnt she spending time with her husband dont she have other things to preoccupy her time with than worrying about her son she is only using her son as a companion,.... anyways..... that is what usually happen when some single women dont have husbands at home that is what "usually" happens when you have children out of wedlock, the mother of the children start to relate to their children as friends.....nonsense I know some single mothers that do this.
lolz .she is not a single mother .......................but i dont know how he spends his holidays
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:49 PM (13 years ago) (f) hahahah,well who feels it knows it,who ever wears a shoe knows where it pains him, the mother nd son relationships,well son be very caring to her, just tell her that u need ur life, dont run away from her but explain to her u need a life,just have urself a gulfriend n bring her to ur mother, let her know u re no more a kid,just let her know
That is what her mother failed to understand
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) (f) Did it happened to she or he? because i couldn't understand from she to him lol
huh ?
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f) Is it a crime for one to live with his/her parents no matter the age?
heheheheeeeeeeeeeee
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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onyiis at 5-04-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago) (f) I think it's a kind of passion from some mothers to their children. It happened to me as well, but I took my decision when I was 24yrs. Even at that 24yrs of age, she still pick up the tooth brush with toothpaste and brush my teeth. One day, my dad said michro has become a grown up man, so let him do what he is supposed to do for himself as he walked towards her and dragged the toothbrush from her. My mum belived u're still a child as long as u're not married, regardless of ur age. So, I left my hometown for another western state and lived for about six yrs b4 I went back home. She told me it took her more than two yrs to get over the emotional pain. My elder brother was away from home for more than 13 yrs. My fear now is how my two younger ones will as well escape.
there are really situations like that
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 5-04-2011 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Jhayeahsam at 6-04-2011 02:52 AM (13 years ago) (m) We v to conduct powerful deliveranc service 4 dz your brodaa Posted: at 6-04-2011 02:52 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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If you want to break away... Just get your own apartment/house and live more than 8 hours away from your parents.
That is moving to another part of the country. Have you considered his work arrangement? Even in a different part of the city will work wonders to getting him off her vicegrip. Posted: at 7-04-2011 11:30 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Ogun gidi leleyi oooooooooo, God forbid Posted: at 8-04-2011 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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