is it too much to protect ur life , how much is a life worth a life is priceless we got just one life once lost can never be gotten back , unless your life is not sooo important to you den its no problem staying, cos my fear is he might get u by surprise, and no matter how many karate u learn a man is stronger than a woman, someone dat knows when u go out and come in,when u eat drink and go to toilet, can be very dangerous or should i say is deadly,the police cant be much of a help, dis guy knows where u stay and got his eyes over u i mean he sees all u do knows all u do
you get it right.probably Bs value her house more than her own life, which is priceless. @Bs..what do you want to hear again?.all the best suggestion have been giving to you by some pals. people advice you to call the cope..you say No! relocate to another city..you said NO! go for training of self defense ..you said NO! i even go to an extra length in narrating you a true life story of a victim. well.you decide.
Those are,all, extreme solutions na!
And for someone who is dealing with a dangerous and unknown stalker,then yes,they are good solutions, and thx
everybody for their contributions!
U didn't understand, I was looking for a different thing, but it's ok!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 10-04-2011 03:15 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 10-04-2011 05:01 PM (14 years ago)  (f) is it too much to protect ur life , how much is a life worth a life is priceless we got just one life once lost can never be gotten back , unless your life is not sooo important to you den its no problem staying, cos my fear is he might get u by surprise, and no matter how many karate u learn a man is stronger than a woman, someone dat knows when u go out and come in,when u eat drink and go to toilet, can be very dangerous or should i say is deadly,the police cant be much of a help, dis guy knows where u stay and got his eyes over u i mean he sees all u do knows all u do
In those cases when u don't know who u're dealing with (or know for sure that he's dangerous! ),then yes,it would be a good idea,though I don't think I would run away ,not even in that case!I know how to deal with such a person in a harsh way!
But what u didn't understand, it's that I was looking for a nicer solution, because I wasn't referring to a life threatening situation!
Hope you got me now,sweetie!  i see u think everything is a kind of joke, a stalker is deadly either familiar or unfamiliar , infact the one dat knows u can kill u more easily than the one that doesnt know you , thats why u have to start taking it seriously | Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "truenaija2") truenaija2 at 10-04-2011 05:03 PM (14 years ago) (f) or better still go back to him and tell him the breakup was a joke then u will have your peace and not have to go through all the stress of relocating etc | Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:03 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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is it too much to protect ur life , how much is a life worth a life is priceless we got just one life once lost can never be gotten back , unless your life is not sooo important to you den its no problem staying, cos my fear is he might get u by surprise, and no matter how many karate u learn a man is stronger than a woman, someone dat knows when u go out and come in,when u eat drink and go to toilet, can be very dangerous or should i say is deadly,the police cant be much of a help, dis guy knows where u stay and got his eyes over u i mean he sees all u do knows all u do
In those cases when u don't know who u're dealing with (or know for sure that he's dangerous! ),then yes,it would be a good idea,though I don't think I would run away ,not even in that case!I know how to deal with such a person in a harsh way!
But what u didn't understand, it's that I was looking for a nicer solution, because I wasn't referring to a life threatening situation!
Hope you got me now,sweetie! i see u think everything is a kind of joke, a stalker is deadly either familiar or unfamiliar , infact the one dat knows u can kill u more easily than the one that doesnt know you , thats why u have to start taking it seriously  What on earth meant that? Did you ever see me around taking the things in other way than seriously? I hope u realize that u made a total senseless statement!
Look,it's obvious that u didn't understand me at all,though I explained it several times, but that's ok,lets let it so,a topic
which could be helpful for those who need it,a general one, not about me,and, looking at things from a general point of view,
all the ideas given by u guys were great!
Thx again!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:17 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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reading | Posted: at 10-04-2011 06:56 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "uzjosh") uzjosh at 11-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) (m) I dnt understand........... the post | Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:17 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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I dnt understand........... the post
Have you read it attentively?
Live and let live! | Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:18 PM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 11-04-2011 01:51 PM (14 years ago) (f) The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
uhggg.. hiding and ducking..its no way to live mehn..... i had to get my cousins to help
u've seen me right?  i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either  , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool  | Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:51 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "bukikiss") bukikiss at 14-04-2011 10:54 AM (14 years ago) (f) tell him or her that you are HIV/AIDS positive. | Posted: at 14-04-2011 10:54 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie | |
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 Okkkkk
Live and let live! | Posted: at 14-04-2011 10:58 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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The thing that separates a stalker from a silly moonstruck pest intent on following u around ,is that the stalker is firmly fixated on u, whether out of a perverted kind of love or out of hatred for u.He may be a former intimate partner or he may be an erotomaniac, but either way,he believes that he is hopelessly in love with u (yes, he: there are four times as many male stalkers as females; 8% of all women will, at sometime in their lives, be stalked by a male, whereas only 2% of men will be stalked by a women). And,even worse, he believes that, if u are not already in love with him, it is inevitable that u will fall in love with him.
Have u ever been in such a situation and how can u get rid of such a person, in a nice way(no police)?
uhggg.. hiding and ducking..its no way to live mehn..... i had to get my cousins to help 
Live and let live! | Posted: at 14-04-2011 10:59 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "diplomatik") diplomatik at 15-04-2011 04:53 AM (14 years ago) (f) oh yeah..... 
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool | Posted: at 15-04-2011 04:53 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Live and let live! | Posted: at 15-04-2011 09:49 AM (14 years ago) | Hero | |
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Just shoot am Flymama says so | Posted: at 17-06-2012 10:18 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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