A Mysterious Heartbreak (Page 4)

Quote from: mcena on 12-04-2011 09:42 AM

i advice everyone not to have a long tym relatiionship, 2 years at most becos anything further does not end well!

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Posted: at 12-04-2011 12:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I no fit enter shoe, make e remain me seeing myself in that shoe.

Posted: at 12-04-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

The girl made a huge mistake by compromising her wish to this guy. The guy didnt love this girl to mother his kids but was to hypotric to tell her. Its a lesson to learn that no matter what sacrices to make, a human being will always disappoint you. The lady failed to check the man's motive in their relationship. The damage is done now, she needs to seek forgiveness from God and move on. Its hard ubut time heals. She needs to find new interesting to do (watching movies, gym, active in church, going out with friend etc. Good luck to her

Posted: at 12-04-2011 02:50 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

not interested

Posted: at 12-04-2011 04:58 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

If u r going to make a sacrifice in a relationship, make sure it is not corse u expect sumthing bk in return cuz dat sht can drive crazy. Most women sacrifice so much like wealth, opportunities n in this case unborn babies n that will make breakup harder. Back to the topic, is ts a shame that somr women allows themselves become pawn in men's game. Lets say the first was a mistake shudnt she leArn frm dat n protect herself. Everything has consequences n this, N i think this is the list of her prb. She better pray that worse repercussion is not awaiting her.

Posted: at 12-04-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

This kind shoe no fit size me at all......so na long thing!

Posted: at 13-04-2011 03:58 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

God dont like ugly, dats all i can say, what goes around comes around, you know what maybe this is a blessing in disguise, how she take know whether while she dey born this guy pikin sef she go survive, maybe they do get married and what if she now, will he stick by her through sickness and health, you know what sometimes god gives us signs in mysterious ways and we ignore then.  First of all na the girl i blame, why date anyone for so long.... there were way too many signs that she refused to see, now he impregnates someone and wants the baby, i'm sorry, no man who says they love you will allow you destroy something of theirs (ready or not ready), no one is ever ready for a child, it comes when it comes.. i had somewhat similar story... had a baby (though my case is reversed, didnt want it because my parents would kill me, he wanted it becos he wanted to start a family), best decision i ever made, had my daughter and i have to say i am extremely happy, man who loves you will love you, cherish you and stay with you with one baby or two babies... that nigerian mentality where everyone likes to deceive themselves meanwhile dem don do like 10 different abortions, then turn their nose up on ppl who have kids outside wedlock is sooooo wrong.  i was woman enough, manned up gave birth to my baby and loving the hell out of her... so now there's a stronglikelihood that this girl might not be able to have any more babies bicos she was trying to please a man.... eya. Anyway, tell her to take heart and NOT DO ANYTHING DRASTIC. Do not even think of killing yourself or him or wateva. There is a man out there for you and remember WHAT GOES AROUND, DEFINITELY COMES AROUND....believe me GOD DONT LIKE UGLY.

Posted: at 13-04-2011 12:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

as in God dont like ugly what??

Posted: at 13-04-2011 01:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Long shit brb

Posted: at 13-04-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I refused to be in any of their shoes.
Truly speaking the guy is a wicked person. I found him as a play guy. There is no atom of love in that relationship. He only loves taking her to bed in order to satisfy his emotional segxwal urge.  He fancy the money the girl was spending on him since he has no job and can not afford anything for himself.  If he is a reasonable person, he would have accept the idea of his former girl by keeping the pregnancy since the girl welcomes it in gud faith to take care of it till things become normal for both of them. He is hit and run guy that is all. He definitely knows that there is no way he’s going to settle down with the girl. She is only good in bed for him and not good to marry.
If I were in his shoe I would have welcome the idea of she that love me not because of my money but just take me as I am, to take her as my beloved and cherished wife without involving myself in killing seven innocent children which no one knows what they will be in future. Young man may I ask you, if God pay you back with the coin you deserve how will you fill? Repent or else hellfire is waiting for you.
Young girl you believe with what people said about love being blind. My own love refused to be blind while dealing with devil incarnate. You were there claim that you are in love while water is carrying you. Both of you kill the first child in the name of none sense love; kill the second, till it reach seven times. You are there deceiving yourself, how do you think that such a man will cherish you for marriage? If I were in your shoe, I would have quite the relationship that first time he mentioned the pregnancy unwanted. My dear no child is unwanted; both of you agreed to play the game together and what ever gain that comes in between are your credits you have to enjoy together. My advice to everyone is the gift of God is not unwanted when it comes accept it, cherish it and give thanks to God. Well it has happened just gathered the pieces of your life together and return to God like the prodigal son and now make him friend, he will receive, forgive and decorate you with goodies that will add no sorrow in your life.

Posted: at 15-04-2011 01:05 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie