jasonbod at 11-04-2011 09:42 AM (13 years ago) (m) no mind him ur body is okay
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Since she is not ur girlfriend and u re not willing to marry her, let her get rid of d pregnancy b4 she deliver and start suffering with d baby...but ask for forgiveness, next time condom is very cheap, if u can't affort those 350naira for pack, i think u can afford d 1 of 40naira for pack... Posted: at 11-04-2011 09:49 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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I bet u, when u wan chop cake, na then u go knw say oven dey. Posted: at 11-04-2011 10:05 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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hmmmmm Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:08 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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marcmer at 11-04-2011 12:22 PM (13 years ago) (f) why should you both undergo or practice unprotected sex,why didn't you both play save or abstain from it, now you've seen the result,it's not easy to be a mother,it's a very big responsibilty especially without financial support,unwanted pregnancy can destroy your dreams of becoming great in future so i dnt blame her for taking that decision,i only blame her for stupidly going into that act without taking precaution,she is not a bay,she suld ve known it Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:22 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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sophiebaby at 11-04-2011 12:28 PM (13 years ago) (f) she is not ur Gf i guess any way dont just say she is adamant as long as that pregnancy is concern is sin that both of u guys comited together if she abort it u have ur own chear of the sin so try as much as u can to make her not to abort the baby
She argues that it was only casual sex and that she had no intentions of ending up with a baby. I begged her not to abort, but she won't listen. allow her naaaaaaaaaa
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:28 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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ugochuks at 11-04-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
I suppose u don't need us to tell u that what u've done was totally irresponsible, right? Now,the child!Let's say u would succeed convincing her to keep it!What next? Are u ready to take that responsibility? And I mean, a lifetime responsibility, not just for a while! Irresponsible how? Cos we had unprotected sex? I guess you have a point there, but it's already happened. I wish I could turn back the clock.my guy na lie!!! u no wish to turn back the hand of anything,,, if given a chance u will do the same to another girl jor! even as we dey talk now u still dey toast another CHAP AND FIXING DATE AND STUFFS LIKE THAT,,ABEG JOR!!!!!
I MISS U WHEN I KNOW U RE MISSIN ME Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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foukidrem at 11-04-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) (m) @JASONBOD TELL THAT YOUR GIRL THAT IF SHE ABORT THAT PREGNANCY SHE WILL DIE, I FORSEE THINGS... AND YOU YOUR RESPONSIBILTY IS TO TAKE CARE OF THAT CHILD BOTH FINANCIALLY AND WHAT EVER MAY COME UP....IF YOU LIKE YOU TAKE THE CHILD TO YOUR FAMILY BUT DONT LET THAT CHILD END UP IN OFFERNAGE HOME OR ELSE UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU... HE MIGHT BE THE NEXT PRESIDENT OF NIGERIA OR THE NEXT ANINI/DERICO..IS IN YOUR HANDS..... Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ugochuks at 11-04-2011 12:47 PM (13 years ago) (m) @JASONBOD TELL THAT YOUR GIRL THAT IF SHE ABORT THAT PREGNANCY SHE WILL DIE, I FORSEE THINGS... AND YOU YOUR RESPONSIBILTY IS TO TAKE CARE OF THAT CHILD BOTH FINANCIALLY AND WHAT EVER MAY COME UP....IF YOU LIKE YOU TAKE THE CHILD TO YOUR FAMILY BUT DONT LET THAT CHILD END UP IN OFFERNAGE HOME OR ELSE UUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU... HE MIGHT BE THE NEXT PRESIDENT OF NIGERIA OR THE NEXT ANINI/DERICO..IS IN YOUR HANDS.....
NA WAH OO,, BROS AW FAR NOW? HOPE SAY U WELL SHA,, HMMM.....ABEG U GET LIGHTER?
I MISS U WHEN I KNOW U RE MISSIN ME Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:47 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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diplomatik at 11-04-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago) (f) I got a girl pregnant last month. No, she wasn't my girlfriend. We only had sex on two occasions. But she didn't want to keep the baby. It looks like I don't have a say...it's her body, and she's adamant. What is your opinion? What would you do in my position?
u can't do much man the deed has been done..i hope next time u will wise ...pray that she has a chaNge of heart
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool Posted: at 11-04-2011 12:56 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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blessedme at 11-04-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago) (f) poster u look fine that y d babe rush u like dat cos a girl wif her senses will not succum to a one night stand on a first day of meeting and then still come d ff morning for another stand if she is not a call girl.....buh atleast u should have protected urself to save ur self d stress naaaa anyways i salute ur courage of acceptance cos most guys will never accept d pregnancy in d first place...... Now ma advice for u.....is that if u truely know that in ur heart u need d child take her for test to be sure its not more than a month cos she could actually be pretending she wants an abortion to see ur reaction and actually force someone's pregnancy on u if u insist on her keeping d child if d child is truely urs and u want d child...then u have every rit to sue her to keep d baby....unless u want otherwise Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Bros. u dey take risk oo fornication is a sin so go first and ask 4 4giveness of sin then sit her down and let her understand the implication of wat she trying to do but if she insist wash ur hand off it. There is one adage that say "na the dog wey the see sheet 4 him mouth na him the chop sheet" who will cast the first stone Mr. & Mrs innocent. Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie | |
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jasonbod at 11-04-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago) (m) poster u look fine that y d babe rush u like dat cos a girl wif her senses will not succum to a one night stand on a first day of meeting and then still come d ff morning for another stand if she is not a call girl.....buh atleast u should have protected urself to save ur self d stress naaaa
anyways i salute ur courage of acceptance cos most guys will never accept d pregnancy in d first place......
Now ma advice for u.....is that if u truely know that in ur heart u need d child take her for test to be sure its not more than a month cos she could actually be pretending she wants an abortion to see ur reaction and actually force someone's pregnancy on u if u insist on her keeping d child
if d child is truely urs and u want d child...then u have every rit to sue her to keep d baby....unless u want otherwise
Lol, thanks. But I'm not like oda guys. I accept my responsibility to her. And I'm glad u realize that. I've already been with her to test the pregnancy, it is my baby. The dates add up. However, I wouldn't want to sue her if she don't keep the baby (like u suggested) coz this could've been avoided. I can't blame her completely for this. I wanted to have unprotected sex with her and she agreed, I can't turn around now and sue her to keep the baby. It wouldn't be fair. Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Adikpe at 11-04-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) (m) sorry about it but bringing up a child is not an easy thing giving birth to a child no be mouth too , so let her do what she thinks is best for her cos thats her life her body and her future it will affect not necessarily yours , the woman carries the burden of child birth and rearing
It is nice to get a woman's perspective on this. Thank you. At the end of the day, yes, a woman carries the burden the most... because she would have to give birth and to look after the baby, even with my support in raising the kid, maybe it is not enough for her. I think she's not ready for that, and we are not in love. We're just two people who chose to have sex together. She knew at the time that she could get pregnant but she took her chances. I wasn't aware of this. She hadn't warned me. Then what are you doing with her? Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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U try well well ... R u sure u r telling us d truth ?.. I kw how guy thinks when comes to dis issue ... Posted: at 11-04-2011 01:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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jasonbod at 11-04-2011 02:06 PM (13 years ago) (m) @goingwithyou Why don't you start by telling us what you think when it comes to such issues? Would you go..."It wasn't me?" Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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jasonbod at 11-04-2011 02:28 PM (13 years ago) (m) Since she is not ur girlfriend and u re not willing to marry her, let her get rid of d pregnancy b4 she deliver and start suffering with d baby...but ask for forgiveness, next time condom is very cheap, if u can't affort those 350naira for pack, i think u can afford d 1 of 40naira for pack...
Thanks for your advice. There were condoms in my friend's bedroom where I first had sex with the girl at the party, but I didn't want to use them. And she said it was OK if I didn't. The second day at my apartment, we had unprotected sex again. So really, it has nothing to do with the price of condoms. We both chose not to use condoms. Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:28 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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JzeeWiz at 11-04-2011 02:31 PM (13 years ago) (m) Mah guy u're damn lucky! As she said she dnt wanna hv d baby. Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:31 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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jasonbod at 11-04-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) (m) Mah guy u're damn lucky! As she said she dnt wanna hv d baby.
Do you really think so? Posted: at 11-04-2011 02:45 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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