"I am 29 and I have four children but unlucky not to have a husband. This is not due to any bad behaviour from me because whenever I pack out, these men always regret it. I am confused and I need a comforter." What is your advice
Posted: at 16-04-2011 07:10 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Amarachi34 at 16-04-2011 07:53 AM (13 years ago) (f)
4 kids? without a husband? girl you are something else. I just hope they are all from same father or 4 different fathers? Anyways, why do u pack out so quick, you got to be patient and get to know them before you start moving in. Please when you meet the next one don't move in again, no rush you are to beautiful for that.
Posted: at 16-04-2011 07:53 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
jossy4reall at 16-04-2011 08:41 AM (13 years ago) (m)
I dont mean to offend u on dis comment but I have to say dis May b u are enduring enuf, may b u are not considerate enuf, may b u are not tolerating enuf, and most importantly may b u don't have a 4given heart and wit enuf understanding. If u posses dis few qualities or even more of d ones I did not mention here. I bet u wuld have not been living with four kids without a husband. Unless its a spiritual problem. But one more solutionnow is to go down 2 ur kneels and b more prayerful. God will tackle wat ever d course is.
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 16-04-2011 08:41 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 16-04-2011 09:25 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: babychictracy on 16-04-2011 07:10 AM
"I am 29 and I have four children but unlucky not to have a husband. This is not due to any bad behaviour from me because whenever I pack out, these men always regret it. I am confused and I need a comforter." What is your advice
Maybe u should stop sleeping around!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 16-04-2011 09:25 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
kerryniyi at 16-04-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: babychictracy on 16-04-2011 07:10 AM
"I am 29 and I have four children but unlucky not to have a husband. This is not due to any bad behaviour from me because whenever I pack out, these men always regret it. I am confused and I need a comforter." What is your advice
Four children 4 who? one man or four men?
Posted: at 16-04-2011 09:36 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
jossy4reall at 16-04-2011 10:26 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: jossy4reall on 16-04-2011 08:41 AM
I dont mean to offend u on dis comment but I have to say dis May b u are enduring enuf, may b u are not considerate enuf, may b u are not tolerating enuf, and most importantly may b u don't have a 4given heart and wit enuf understanding. If u posses dis few qualities or even more of d ones I did not mention here. I bet u wuld have not been living with four kids without a husband. Unless its a spiritual problem. But one more solutionnow is to go down 2 ur kneels and b more prayerful. God will tackle wat ever d course is.
I dont mean to offend u on dis comment but I have to say dis May b u are not enduring enuf, may b u are not considerate enuf, may b u are not tolerating enuf, and most importantly may b u don't have a 4given heart and wit enuf understanding. If u posses dis few qualities or even more of d ones I did not mention here. I bet u wuld have not been living with four kids without a husband. Unless its a spiritual problem. But one more solutionnow is to go down 2 ur kneels and b more prayerful. God will tackle wat ever d course is.
Love or Hate me its ur Biz, I have more important things to think abt since u never gonna change me
Posted: at 16-04-2011 10:26 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
hotchase at 16-04-2011 11:01 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Hey u guys are mistaken d poster for the actual person. Its someone's problem she is asking for advice here, that is why she put it in quotes, so stop visualizing the poster and just give your candid advice. Well, my advice is that the lady concerned shld put her life in order and know what she wants in a relationship. Making children is one thing, but getting married is another.
Posted: at 16-04-2011 11:01 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
truenaija2 at 16-04-2011 11:13 AM (13 years ago) (f)
@ poster see it is wrong to live with a man u r not married to and even go as far as having a child for him u already started it my dear that is the problem , men get tired of women easily but if he knows u r properly wedded he will behave so just stop living with men and take care of your kids , one day u might find someone that will marry u , but let that not be your priority, let your kids be your priority , men cant offer u anything, stay in your house with ur kids dats how to be responsible , uve made a mistake before by living with them and having kids for them correct by stopping that habit of living with men.
Posted: at 16-04-2011 11:13 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac