Is it wrong to correct your spouse? (Page 2)

Date: 18-04-2011 3:58 am (13 years ago) | Author: Okpreze O. David
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- Kennee at 18-04-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dhowafe on 18-04-2011 03:58 AM
There is this friend of mine that is not back home in nigeria bt has a seriouse relationship with a girl back home in nigeria, he is in the same flat with me, believe me, this guy tries his best to keep their affair alive not minding the distance bt any time he tries correcting his girl on things that are nt helpin him where he is, she feels the guy is been un-necessarily complaining.. This girl only likes calling frm 2-3a.m midnite, nw this guy has told her hw her timing disrupt his plans 4 d day when ever she calls that late, gave her all his timings and the time difference frm where he is and nigerian, so that she will knw wen to call, all that fell on deaf ears, she continued the same thing,, nw he can't afford nt to take her calls cos he feels it's bad and that she may feel sad, and considering d distance she is calling frm; My guy is a master student who's classes are 8a.m in the morning, and after classes will go do something to keep him self up. my pals, i must tell u that even me, i'm feed up wit all the nite disturbance, and i was forced to ask him 1 day "Na only midnite this ur girl dey call self"? i feel his pain, even after telling her that after her midnite calls, he can't sleep again and that day will be useless for him, she keeps on doin it, two days back, he told her that he can't continue with this anymore, that she is been in-sensitive and the next thing the girl said was " i knw it will be like this, u don't luv me, u never luved me, u hv seen white girls nw, so, i'm nothing to u again" nw my guy is confused, asking me "is it wrong 4 a man to correct his girl"? this is the same girl he spends nothing less than 6000  nigerian naira to call when ever he call her, even tellin her to always visit his family  house, so that his parent will be seeing her around, cos he plans to marry her as soon as he get's back home (naija).

Nw,  Is it wrong to correct your spouse?

Now that's a Very Sick and Stupid Girl

Posted: at 18-04-2011 03:06 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- esonu at 18-04-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago)
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nothing wrong

Posted: at 18-04-2011 03:17 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- macgreat at 18-04-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago)
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No is not wrong. . .

Posted: at 18-04-2011 03:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 18-04-2011 05:00 PM (13 years ago)
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he should tell her he lives with his roomate and it disturbs the room mate whenever she calls cos he might be sleeping
Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 18-04-2011 05:12 PM (13 years ago)
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make i bring correction fluid to corect am

Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:12 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Kennee at 18-04-2011 05:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 18-04-2011 05:00 PM
he should tell her he lives with his roomate and it disturbs the room mate whenever she calls cos he might be sleeping

He already gave her a Very Sensible reason of him needing to sleep and face his studies early in Class

She's Sick... Why Can't She Call during her own Sleeping Hours??? Hissssssssssssssssssss  Angry

Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:39 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 18-04-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:40 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- truenaija2 at 18-04-2011 05:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 18-04-2011 05:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 18-04-2011 05:00 PM
he should tell her he lives with his roomate and it disturbs the room mate whenever she calls cos he might be sleeping

He already gave her a Very Sensible reason of him needing to sleep and face his studies early in Class

She's Sick... Why Can't She Call during her own Sleeping Hours??? Hissssssssssssssssssss  Angry

i wonder ooh the girl dey fear say oyinbo girls better pass her or say hin dey jand and she dey naija so hin class don high pass her own, na hin make she dey call to see if the guy no go pick , so she go say i talk am he don leave me bcos he dey obodo oyinbo he don see fine white chick , dump me, nah pure low selfesteem dey worry her , let her work on her self esteem , or mayb nah her friends dey give her dat nonsense advice make she dey call the guy anytime she want
Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:44 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 18-04-2011 05:48 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin

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- diplomatik at 18-04-2011 05:49 PM (13 years ago)
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that guy got a numb skull for a gf Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Grin


Posted: at 18-04-2011 05:49 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 18-04-2011 05:52 PM (13 years ago)
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well the gal is a pure mumu........

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- oohio2007 at 18-04-2011 06:01 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dhowafe on 18-04-2011 03:58 AM
There is this friend of mine that is not back home in nigeria bt has a seriouse relationship with a girl back home in nigeria, he is in the same flat with me, believe me, this guy tries his best to keep their affair alive not minding the distance bt any time he tries correcting his girl on things that are nt helpin him where he is, she feels the guy is been un-necessarily complaining.. This girl only likes calling frm 2-3a.m midnite, nw this guy has told her hw her timing disrupt his plans 4 d day when ever she calls that late, gave her all his timings and the time difference frm where he is and nigerian, so that she will knw wen to call, all that fell on deaf ears, she continued the same thing,, nw he can't afford nt to take her calls cos he feels it's bad and that she may feel sad, and considering d distance she is calling frm; My guy is a master student who's classes are 8a.m in the morning, and after classes will go do something to keep him self up. my pals, i must tell u that even me, i'm feed up wit all the nite disturbance, and i was forced to ask him 1 day "Na only midnite this ur girl dey call self"? i feel his pain, even after telling her that after her midnite calls, he can't sleep again and that day will be useless for him, she keeps on doin it, two days back, he told her that he can't continue with this anymore, that she is been in-sensitive and the next thing the girl said was " i knw it will be like this, u don't luv me, u never luved me, u hv seen white girls nw, so, i'm nothing to u again" nw my guy is confused, asking me "is it wrong 4 a man to correct his girl"? this is the same girl he spends nothing less than 6000  nigerian naira to call when ever he call her, even tellin her to always visit his family  house, so that his parent will be seeing her around, cos he plans to marry her as soon as he get's back home (naija).

Nw,  Is it wrong to correct your spouse?
I strongly think that the girl is highly suspicious.Owing to the fact that he is in europe while she is in nigeria.She might have this believe that the time frame given to her to put her calls through, coincides with the time his new girl friend is mostly around.That might be the reason she is paying deaf ears.It is quite obvious from her last statements about the white girls....e.t.c.OR what do you think?

Posted: at 18-04-2011 06:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dhowafe at 18-04-2011 06:36 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 18-04-2011 05:00 PM
he should tell her he lives with his roomate and it disturbs the room mate whenever she calls cos he might be sleeping

bros, my guy don tell her twice 4 my present say i no dey happy wit the nite calls...
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- bittersweet at 18-04-2011 06:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: dhowafe on 18-04-2011 11:07 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 18-04-2011 09:29 AM
This issue about night calls it's really annoying!
A person who does that despite she/he was been told not to, simply lacks common sense!


And the answer to your question is no,it's not wrong, as long as u see that it's a continual repetition of the nonsenses!


The worse problem is that she calls & say nothing meaningful, imagine her callin to ask, did u flash me? my guy nw asked her, hv i ever flashed u b4? if i want to talk to u, i will call u.. they both said gudnite to each other, after 10mins wen my guy was fighting to get back his sleep, she called back and all she said was "it was one of my friend that was flashin me" u culd feel tears frm my friend wen he asked her, and that is why u wake me at this time of the nite?

She definitely has issues!

Posted: at 18-04-2011 06:44 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dhowafe at 18-04-2011 06:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: oohio2007 on 18-04-2011 06:01 PM
Quote from: dhowafe on 18-04-2011 03:58 AM
There is this friend of mine that is not back home in nigeria bt has a seriouse relationship with a girl back home in nigeria, he is in the same flat with me, believe me, this guy tries his best to keep their affair alive not minding the distance bt any time he tries correcting his girl on things that are nt helpin him where he is, she feels the guy is been un-necessarily complaining.. This girl only likes calling frm 2-3a.m midnite, nw this guy has told her hw her timing disrupt his plans 4 d day when ever she calls that late, gave her all his timings and the time difference frm where he is and nigerian, so that she will knw wen to call, all that fell on deaf ears, she continued the same thing,, nw he can't afford nt to take her calls cos he feels it's bad and that she may feel sad, and considering d distance she is calling frm; My guy is a master student who's classes are 8a.m in the morning, and after classes will go do something to keep him self up. my pals, i must tell u that even me, i'm feed up wit all the nite disturbance, and i was forced to ask him 1 day "Na only midnite this ur girl dey call self"? i feel his pain, even after telling her that after her midnite calls, he can't sleep again and that day will be useless for him, she keeps on doin it, two days back, he told her that he can't continue with this anymore, that she is been in-sensitive and the next thing the girl said was " i knw it will be like this, u don't luv me, u never luved me, u hv seen white girls nw, so, i'm nothing to u again" nw my guy is confused, asking me "is it wrong 4 a man to correct his girl"? this is the same girl he spends nothing less than 6000  nigerian naira to call when ever he call her, even tellin her to always visit his family  house, so that his parent will be seeing her around, cos he plans to marry her as soon as he get's back home (naija).

Nw,  Is it wrong to correct your spouse?
I strongly think that the girl is highly suspicious.Owing to the fact that he is in europe while she is in nigeria.She might have this believe that the time frame given to her to put her calls through, coincides with the time his new girl friend is mostly around.That might be the reason she is paying deaf ears.It is quite obvious from her last statements about the white girls....e.t.c.OR what do you think?

 Bt there is never a day wen she don call and another person pick her calls not to talk of another girl... my guy luv this girl, e don even dey worry e family say e must go home this summer, and all na bcos of her nagging say d guy must come... so i no knw watin she want again..
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- kenolis at 19-04-2011 12:43 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 18-04-2011 05:12 PM
make i bring correction fluid to corect am

come make i give you i get
Posted: at 19-04-2011 12:43 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Allen-jones at 19-04-2011 03:43 AM (13 years ago)
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Two heads, they say, is better than one.
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- tando at 19-04-2011 08:15 AM (13 years ago)
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not wrong. the girl need to deal with her insecutiry and lack of trust.
Posted: at 19-04-2011 08:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 19-04-2011 08:33 AM (13 years ago)
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hmmm either lack of trust or she is doin somtin wrong hersef...
mayb she no get oda time to call him cos oda man dey around?

Anyway sha if d gal no wan hear simple tins like dis how on earth will d marriage succeed??
Anytime wen d husband go wan xplain somtin she go dey stubborn, do her own tin.

Make he just switch off his fone,, make she talk to voicemail.
Posted: at 19-04-2011 08:33 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dhowafe at 19-04-2011 10:16 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-04-2011 08:33 AM
hmmm either lack of trust or she is doin somtin wrong hersef...
mayb she no get oda time to call him cos oda man dey around?

Anyway sha if d gal no wan hear simple tins like dis how on earth will d marriage succeed??
Anytime wen d husband go wan xplain somtin she go dey stubborn, do her own tin.

Make he just switch off his fone,, make she talk to voicemail.


Flymama.... I dey even pray mk e no kill my guy wen them marry, cos my guy na the kind guy wen dey take evrything so easy and i dey think say that na why she dey behave like dat.. e jst pain me 4 her say she no knw watin she get...
Posted: at 19-04-2011 10:16 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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