Six Things Men Really Want In Bed (Page 6)

Recently(yesterday), I sat down with six middle-aged married women to discuss new things they could do in bed. All had been married a long time, and they all admitted their sex lives if they still had one had fallen into a rut. They wanted my advice based on research I had done for the book I wrote about segxwality.

I started by suggesting they needed some basic equipment. Every woman has a make-up brush, I said. And if you dont happen to have a foot or two of red satin just lying around the house, you can substitute other things you already own, like a scarf, or even your brassiere. Then I told the wives the six things, Ive learned, that they needed to do to their husbands in bed. Heres the list:

Take charge. Men find it thrilling when they dont have to be the one to initiate segxwal action. They enjoy, for brief interludes, being submissive. It is very freeing to give yourself over to another persons wishes.

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples. Women arent the only ones who are pleasured by the teasing of these erogenous zones. You can use that little brush around them, too.

Soul kiss. Remember soul kissing, the kind of kissing you did when you were a virgin? Engage your partner in an old fashioned, protracted make out session like you had as a teen. Re-experience the thrill of kissing when it was your only segxwal outlet.

Roll around. Men really enjoy rolling around-the full-body, mostly undressed, full-frontal make out. Actual intercourse doesn't even have to come into play, although nibbling, nuzzling, even grabbing should definitely happen. The idea is to keep moving, not to stay too long in any one position. What men like about this rolling around is because its energetic and very physical.

Talk a little sexy, but not too much. Men love it when a woman says something hot, but not so much when their wives talk major smut. Thats not who they married, plus it also makes them wonder where she picked such language up. A little hot talk, though, can go a long way. Tell him what you want him to do, and where you want him to do it.

wow she must see this, i am inviteing her fast fast....

Oh yeah!! You hitting the nail on the head Sophie. I award you Phd, Msc, Cpc, Sme for this points.  

Take charge and been submissive turns most of us Men on.

Blindfold: Personally i don't play this tricks, is like hide and seek thing, (child's play) Men like to see all you wanna do with them, Dance a little bit naked on him, tease him, if you have cuff, cuff him on that bed and make him beg you to start off. No blindfold time

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples: Oh yeah !! Bring this on and on, I bet you, You're waking up the great anaconda from sleep. Men like this, they like to be nippled, You don't need brush for that, make use of yr tongue, lick him around there like u're licking ice cream  

Soul kiss: Some like that, but majority prefer some frenchie or Gabon kiss  

Roll around: Of course, we love this, Do it while nakedly on top, Men like when u ride them like Bull and roll those supported documents on them.

Yeah... Talk dirty, not little sexy..