Six Things Men Really Want In Bed

Published On: April 21, 2011, 9:51 am (9 years ago)
Author: uduak Sophia Monday
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Recently(yesterday), I sat down with six middle-aged married women to discuss new things they could do in bed. All had been married a long time, and they all admitted their sex lives if they still had one had fallen into a rut. They wanted my advice based on research I had done for the book I wrote about sexuality.

I started by suggesting they needed some basic equipment. Every woman has a make-up brush, I said. And if you dont happen to have a foot or two of red satin just lying around the house, you can substitute other things you already own, like a scarf, or even your brassiere. Then I told the wives the six things, Ive learned, that they needed to do to their husbands in bed. Heres the list:

Take charge. Men find it thrilling when they dont have to be the one to initiate sexual action. They enjoy, for brief interludes, being submissive. It is very freeing to give yourself over to another persons wishes.

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples. Women arent the only ones who are pleasured by the teasing of these erogenous zones. You can use that little brush around them, too.

Soul kiss. Remember soul kissing, the kind of kissing you did when you were a virgin? Engage your partner in an old fashioned, protracted make out session like you had as a teen. Re-experience the thrill of kissing when it was your only sexual outlet.

Roll around. Men really enjoy rolling around-the full-body, mostly undressed, full-frontal make out. Actual intercourse doesn't even have to come into play, although nibbling, nuzzling, even grabbing should definitely happen. The idea is to keep moving, not to stay too long in any one position. What men like about this rolling around is because its energetic and very physical.

Talk a little sexy, but not too much. Men love it when a woman says something hot, but not so much when their wives talk major smut. Thats not who they married, plus it also makes them wonder where she picked such language up. A little hot talk, though, can go a long way. Tell him what you want him to do, and where you want him to do it.



Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 09:51 AM | Addicted Hero
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 09:51 AM
Recently(yesterday), I sat down with six middle-aged married women to discuss new things they could do in bed. All had been married a long time, and they all admitted their sex lives if they still had one had fallen into a rut. They wanted my advice based on research I had done for the book i wrote about sexuality.

I started by suggesting they needed some basic equipment. Every woman has a make-up brush, I said. And if you dont happen to have a foot or two of red satin just lying around the house, you can substitute other things you already own, like a scarf, or even your brassiere. Then I told the wives the six things, Ive learned, that they needed to do to their husbands in bed. Heres the list:

Take charge. Men find it thrilling when they dont have to be the one to initiate sexual action. They enjoy, for brief interludes, being submissive. It is very freeing to give yourself over to another persons wishes.

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples. Women arent the only ones who are pleasured by the teasing of these erogenous zones. You can use that little brush around them, too.

Soul kiss. Remember soul kissing, the kind of kissing you did when you were a virgin? Engage your partner in an old fashioned, protracted make out session like you had as a teen. Re-experience the thrill of kissing when it was your only sexual outlet.

Roll around. Men really enjoy rolling around-the full-body, mostly undressed, full-frontal make out. Actual intercourse doesn't even have to come into play, although nibbling, nuzzling, even grabbing should definitely happen. The idea is to keep moving, not to stay too long in any one position. What men like about this rolling around is because its energetic and very physical.

Talk a little sexy, but not too much. Men love it when a woman says something hot, but not so much when their wives talk major smut. Thats not who they married, plus it also makes them wonder where she picked such language up. A little hot talk, though, can go a long way. Tell him what you want him to do, and where you want him to do it.


oh,u wrote a book on sexuality hmmmmm interesting,can i have a link to it...with those words like BLINDFOLDED,USE A BRUSH and PINCH the nipples..is like we have have a female love doctor in the house. la lolo
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 09:58 AM | Gistmaniac
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sophie< u don spoil finish..........lol

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 09:59 AM | Addicted Hero
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Waiting 4 d men 2 come and confirm this

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:00 AM | Gistmaniac
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I award you Phd for sex education- no love making!
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:03 AM | Gistmaniac
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Wow!
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:04 AM | Gistmaniac
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Quote from: sobeit on 21-04-2011 09:58 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 09:51 AM
Recently(yesterday), I sat down with six middle-aged married women to discuss new things they could do in bed. All had been married a long time, and they all admitted their sex lives if they still had one had fallen into a rut. They wanted my advice based on research I had done for the book i wrote about sexuality.

I started by suggesting they needed some basic equipment. Every woman has a make-up brush, I said. And if you dont happen to have a foot or two of red satin just lying around the house, you can substitute other things you already own, like a scarf, or even your brassiere. Then I told the wives the six things, Ive learned, that they needed to do to their husbands in bed. Heres the list:

Take charge. Men find it thrilling when they dont have to be the one to initiate sexual action. They enjoy, for brief interludes, being submissive. It is very freeing to give yourself over to another persons wishes.

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples. Women arent the only ones who are pleasured by the teasing of these erogenous zones. You can use that little brush around them, too.

Soul kiss. Remember soul kissing, the kind of kissing you did when you were a virgin? Engage your partner in an old fashioned, protracted make out session like you had as a teen. Re-experience the thrill of kissing when it was your only sexual outlet.

Roll around. Men really enjoy rolling around-the full-body, mostly undressed, full-frontal make out. Actual intercourse doesn't even have to come into play, although nibbling, nuzzling, even grabbing should definitely happen. The idea is to keep moving, not to stay too long in any one position. What men like about this rolling around is because its energetic and very physical.

Talk a little sexy, but not too much. Men love it when a woman says something hot, but not so much when their wives talk major smut. Thats not who they married, plus it also makes them wonder where she picked such language up. A little hot talk, though, can go a long way. Tell him what you want him to do, and where you want him to do it.


oh,u wrote a book on sexuality hmmmmm interesting,can i have a link to it...with those words like BLINDFOLDED,USE A BRUSH and PINCH the nipples..is like we have have a female love doctor in the house. la lolo

yeah..Na buy you go buy am, whn i launch am Smiley

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:14 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: Skypon2002 on 21-04-2011 09:59 AM
sophie< u don spoil finish..........lol

How?

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:16 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 21-04-2011 10:03 AM
I award you Phd for sex education- no love making!

 Huh?

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:17 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: pholake on 21-04-2011 10:04 AM
Wow!

 Kiss Kiss

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:18 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 10:14 AM
Quote from: sobeit on 21-04-2011 09:58 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 09:51 AM
Recently(yesterday), I sat down with six middle-aged married women to discuss new things they could do in bed. All had been married a long time, and they all admitted their sex lives if they still had one had fallen into a rut. They wanted my advice based on research I had done for the book i wrote about sexuality.

I started by suggesting they needed some basic equipment. Every woman has a make-up brush, I said. And if you dont happen to have a foot or two of red satin just lying around the house, you can substitute other things you already own, like a scarf, or even your brassiere. Then I told the wives the six things, Ive learned, that they needed to do to their husbands in bed. Heres the list:

Take charge. Men find it thrilling when they dont have to be the one to initiate sexual action. They enjoy, for brief interludes, being submissive. It is very freeing to give yourself over to another persons wishes.

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples. Women arent the only ones who are pleasured by the teasing of these erogenous zones. You can use that little brush around them, too.

Soul kiss. Remember soul kissing, the kind of kissing you did when you were a virgin? Engage your partner in an old fashioned, protracted make out session like you had as a teen. Re-experience the thrill of kissing when it was your only sexual outlet.

Roll around. Men really enjoy rolling around-the full-body, mostly undressed, full-frontal make out. Actual intercourse doesn't even have to come into play, although nibbling, nuzzling, even grabbing should definitely happen. The idea is to keep moving, not to stay too long in any one position. What men like about this rolling around is because its energetic and very physical.

Talk a little sexy, but not too much. Men love it when a woman says something hot, but not so much when their wives talk major smut. Thats not who they married, plus it also makes them wonder where she picked such language up. A little hot talk, though, can go a long way. Tell him what you want him to do, and where you want him to do it.


oh,u wrote a book on sexuality hmmmmm interesting,can i have a link to it...with those words like BLINDFOLDED,USE A BRUSH and PINCH the nipples..is like we have have a female love doctor in the house. la lolo

yeah..Na buy you go buy am, whn i launch am Smiley

aha! so wen u wan launch am and i hope say e fit reach my hand i mean the copy.
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:34 AM | Gistmaniac
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Oh yeah!! You hitting the nail on the head Sophie. I award you Phd, Msc, Cpc, Sme for this points.  Grin Grin Grin

Take charge and been submissive turns most of us Men on.

Blindfold: Personally i don't play this tricks, is like hide and seek thing, (child's play) Men like to see all you wanna do with them, Dance a little bit naked on him, tease him, if you have cuff, cuff him on that bed and make him beg you to start off. No blindfold time

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples: Oh yeah !! Bring this on and on, I bet you, You're waking up the great anaconda from sleep. Men like this, they like to be nippled, You don't need brush for that, make use of yr tongue, lick him around there like u're licking ice cream  Cheesy Cheesy

Soul kiss: Some like that, but majority prefer some frenchie or Gabon kiss  Cheesy Cheesy

Roll around: Of course, we love this, Do it while nakedly on top, Men like when u ride them like Bull and roll those supported documents on them.

Yeah... Talk dirty, not little sexy..  Grin Grin

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:48 AM | Hero
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Quote from: sobeit on 21-04-2011 10:34 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 10:14 AM
Quote from: sobeit on 21-04-2011 09:58 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 09:51 AM
Recently(yesterday), I sat down with six middle-aged married women to discuss new things they could do in bed. All had been married a long time, and they all admitted their sex lives if they still had one had fallen into a rut. They wanted my advice based on research I had done for the book i wrote about sexuality.

I started by suggesting they needed some basic equipment. Every woman has a make-up brush, I said. And if you dont happen to have a foot or two of red satin just lying around the house, you can substitute other things you already own, like a scarf, or even your brassiere. Then I told the wives the six things, Ive learned, that they needed to do to their husbands in bed. Heres the list:

Take charge. Men find it thrilling when they dont have to be the one to initiate sexual action. They enjoy, for brief interludes, being submissive. It is very freeing to give yourself over to another persons wishes.

Blindfold your partner. Covering his eyes will make him hyper-aware of his other senses.

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples. Women arent the only ones who are pleasured by the teasing of these erogenous zones. You can use that little brush around them, too.

Soul kiss. Remember soul kissing, the kind of kissing you did when you were a virgin? Engage your partner in an old fashioned, protracted make out session like you had as a teen. Re-experience the thrill of kissing when it was your only sexual outlet.

Roll around. Men really enjoy rolling around-the full-body, mostly undressed, full-frontal make out. Actual intercourse doesn't even have to come into play, although nibbling, nuzzling, even grabbing should definitely happen. The idea is to keep moving, not to stay too long in any one position. What men like about this rolling around is because its energetic and very physical.

Talk a little sexy, but not too much. Men love it when a woman says something hot, but not so much when their wives talk major smut. Thats not who they married, plus it also makes them wonder where she picked such language up. A little hot talk, though, can go a long way. Tell him what you want him to do, and where you want him to do it.


oh,u wrote a book on sexuality hmmmmm interesting,can i have a link to it...with those words like BLINDFOLDED,USE A BRUSH and PINCH the nipples..is like we have have a female love doctor in the house. la lolo

yeah..Na buy you go buy am, whn i launch am Smiley

aha! so wen u wan launch am and i hope say e fit reach my hand i mean the copy.

if only you'll be a witness on that day. Cheesy

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:49 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: dirtykid on 21-04-2011 10:48 AM
Oh yeah!! You hitting the nail on the head Sophie. I award you Phd, Msc, Cpc, Sme for this points.  Grin Grin Grin

Take charge and been submissive turns most of us Men on.

Blindfold: Personally i don't play this tricks, is like hide and seek thing, (child's play) Men like to see all you wanna do with them, Dance a little bit naked on him, tease him, if you have cuff, cuff him on that bed and make him beg you to start off. No blindfold time

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples: Oh yeah !! Bring this on and on, I bet you, You're waking up the great anaconda from sleep. Men like this, they like to be nippled, You don't need brush for that, make use of yr tongue, lick him around there like u're licking ice cream  Cheesy Cheesy

Soul kiss: Some like that, but majority prefer some frenchie or Gabon kiss  Cheesy Cheesy

Roll around: Of course, we love this, Do it while nakedly on top, Men like when u ride them like Bull and roll those supported documents on them.

Yeah... Talk dirty, not little sexy..  Grin Grin


thanks Dk Kiss Kiss thats why Diplo no gree leave u for anoda man Grin

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:53 AM | Addicted Hero
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tando tando (f)
what about saying, hey babes, i want to kill you tonight with my honeypot cake?
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 10:55 AM | Gistmaniac
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Quote from: tando on 21-04-2011 10:55 AM
what about saying, hey babes, i want to kill you tonight with my honeypot cake?

lol

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 11:10 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 21-04-2011 10:53 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on 21-04-2011 10:48 AM
Oh yeah!! You hitting the nail on the head Sophie. I award you Phd, Msc, Cpc, Sme for this points.  Grin Grin Grin

Take charge and been submissive turns most of us Men on.

Blindfold: Personally i don't play this tricks, is like hide and seek thing, (child's play) Men like to see all you wanna do with them, Dance a little bit naked on him, tease him, if you have cuff, cuff him on that bed and make him beg you to start off. No blindfold time

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples: Oh yeah !! Bring this on and on, I bet you, You're waking up the great anaconda from sleep. Men like this, they like to be nippled, You don't need brush for that, make use of yr tongue, lick him around there like u're licking ice cream  Cheesy Cheesy

Soul kiss: Some like that, but majority prefer some frenchie or Gabon kiss  Cheesy Cheesy

Roll around: Of course, we love this, Do it while nakedly on top, Men like when u ride them like Bull and roll those supported documents on them.

Yeah... Talk dirty, not little sexy..  Grin Grin


thanks Dk Kiss Kiss thats why Diplo no gree leave u for anoda man Grin

You're most welcome!
My Sweetie Diplo, Rocks !! she knows how to rough handle me well well  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 11:11 AM | Hero
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a few half truths...
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 11:22 AM | Newbie
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 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 11:24 AM | Addicted Hero
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Quote from: dirtykid on 21-04-2011 10:48 AM
Oh yeah!! You hitting the nail on the head Sophie. I award you Phd, Msc, Cpc, Sme for this points.  Grin Grin Grin

Take charge and been submissive turns most of us Men on.

Blindfold: Personally i don't play this tricks, is like hide and seek thing, (child's play) Men like to see all you wanna do with them, Dance a little bit naked on him, tease him, if you have cuff, cuff him on that bed and make him beg you to start off. No blindfold time

Lightly pinch and tug on your partners nipples: Oh yeah !! Bring this on and on, I bet you, You're waking up the great anaconda from sleep. Men like this, they like to be nippled, You don't need brush for that, make use of yr tongue, lick him around there like u're licking ice cream  Cheesy Cheesy

Soul kiss: Some like that, but majority prefer some frenchie or Gabon kiss  Cheesy Cheesy

Roll around: Of course, we love this, Do it while nakedly on top, Men like when u ride them like Bull and roll those supported documents on them.

Yeah... Talk dirty, not little sexy..  Grin Grin

Grin Grin cheii!!! dirty pikin in the house,the house is on fire right now..but wait ooo i haven't heard of Gabon kiss b4 ooo  Huh? Cheesy Cheesy


@sophie..i hear u  Cheesy
Posted: (9 years ago) on 21-04-2011 11:48 AM | Gistmaniac
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