What Does A Candle Lose When It............??? (Page 6)

As I go through all kinds of feelings and experiences in my journey through life -- delight, surprise, chagrin, dismay -- I hold this question as a guiding light: What do I really need right now to be happy..... What I come to over and over again is that only qualities as vast and deep as love, connection and kindness will really make me happy in any sort of enduring way.

i use this opportunity to light up my frenemies candles they no themselves................ let there be light!!!

Listen my beloved friends !! is not all about showing candles and screaming light mine up and so on.. We should all ask ourselves this question. Do i really know how to begin to help one another, encourage them with as little as a word to put a smile or hope in another's life ?

The most important things to always consider, in order to encourage one another not to bring them down or make them feel like jack ass here !

How to understand people’s greatest needs via their post.
How to face your own fears & encourage yourself to say ''the truth'' to that person not in a way to hurt his/her feelings with your words with responding to their post. What you should never say to a friend, someone you consider as friend, allot of people here keep malice for years here for no reason. Maka why ??
Enjoy more friends than you can keep up with here on NP and out there in real,, Life is short, keep good track to be remembered with, no matter what.
Specific encouraging words to say, to a struggling friends, not abusive words or curses. try and put a smile to that sad face out there, you can't imagine how much hope and life you bring back to such heart.
We all should try to be Living with purpose and passion in your life put some fun it doesn't change or cost you a thing. Finally but not learn and apply how to genuinely care for others, show some love not hatred !!

If we can try to apply all this, it will help allot, to Break down the walls, Build mighty bridges to many passers, Heal allot of wounds and bring hope to many, as well as encouragement to the rest of us.

Task yourself to on NP to be a shoulder many could lean on, in some trouble time, But above all, Lets get things dirty  

What does a candle lose when it lights another candle?

This place is called Naijapals, in other words Nigerian Friends.  On this very forum, we have discussed what a true friend is.  This site is meant for friends and friends are supposed to uplift friends and not bring them down.  Friends are supposed to motivate friends and not give them reasons to feel bad.

Unfortunately I (am sure you too)have watched some people on this site do all in their power to bring others down with their posts and comments (without any apology whatsoever). That got me wondering, what does such person(s) gain from trying to condemn others while claiming saint?

I am saying that before you bring anyone down with your posts and comments, please read Romans 2:1-4 and Romans 3:9-12.  Let the fighting stop on NP, let one candle light another because I cant still see what a candle would lose when it lights another.

Or what does a candle lose when it lights another candle?