What Does A Candle Lose When It............???

Date: 06-06-2011 12:38 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Obiajunwa
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- at 6-06-2011 12:38 PM (12 years ago)
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What does a candle lose when it lights another candle?

This place is called Naijapals, in other words Nigerian Friends.  On this very forum, we have discussed what a true friend is.  This site is meant for friends and friends are supposed to uplift friends and not bring them down.  Friends are supposed to motivate friends and not give them reasons to feel bad.

Unfortunately I (am sure you too)have watched some people on this site do all in their power to bring others down with their posts and comments (without any apology whatsoever). That got me wondering, what does such person(s) gain from trying to condemn others while claiming saint?

I am saying that before you bring anyone down with your posts and comments, please read Romans 2:1-4 and Romans 3:9-12.  Let the fighting stop on NP, let one candle light another because I cant still see what a candle would lose when it lights another.

Or what does a candle lose when it lights another candle?


Posted: at 6-06-2011 12:38 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
- dirtykid at 6-06-2011 12:55 PM (12 years ago)
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A word !!

Left for the wise to understand the meaning !! Some people always come up here as if they're dragging the Local Govt chairman post with another. Too many curses, abusive words, ugly names and so on.. I ask again here Maka why is all that happening? Why would somebody just log in here to abuse another for no reason. It doesn't represent a good NP family or A true Naija we're suppose to show to others.

We should learn to practice what we preach !!

Posted: at 6-06-2011 12:55 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 6-06-2011 01:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Some people are born haters!
How else can one explain lashing out at others for no just cause???
It's just so unfair....
Would it hurt 2 give a sincere compliment once in a while?
DP,I just tire!

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:01 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 6-06-2011 01:07 PM (12 years ago)
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I dont know oo......but Light someone's candle today, it wont reduce your own candle........because a single act of generosity (kind words included) is like a pebble thrown into a pond that creates widening wave of goodness for ourselves and others Cool

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:07 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- shaoyang at 6-06-2011 01:09 PM (12 years ago)
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Great post and wonderful comments as well....... but u see this is a society where u can obtain different characters
Its an internet world and sometimes these guys that insult each other might get to make good friends in the real world
For me i don't insult but i enjoy reading the fight comments, find it interesting & funny so let the fight continue Kiss
Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:09 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 6-06-2011 01:10 PM (12 years ago)
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Me i wida ooooooo

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- waco at 6-06-2011 01:11 PM (12 years ago)
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I wish everyone here will reason over this post
and make amend.
Thanks divinep for this!

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:11 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 6-06-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Good DP,
Honestly some persons do so for the fun of it. Someone may take names which do not truely reflect them.
Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 6-06-2011 01:19 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: shaoyang on  6-06-2011 01:09 PM
Great post and wonderful comments as well....... but u see this is a society where u can obtain different characters
Its an internet world and sometimes these guys that insult each other might get to make good friends in the real world
For me i don't insult but i enjoy reading the fight comments, find it interesting & funny so let the fight continue Kiss


Bia nwa nnaa, I go wound ooo.....which fight you dey talk about?

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:19 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- shaoyang at 6-06-2011 01:20 PM (12 years ago)
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I think it would be boring if everyone here should be peacemaker..don't try to scare away my great dudes here abegg una
Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 6-06-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-06-2011 12:38 PM
What does a candle lose when it lights another candle?

This place is called Naijapals, in other words Nigerian Friends.  On this very forum, we have discussed what a true friend is.  This site is meant for friends and friends are supposed to uplift friends and not bring them down.  Friends are supposed to motivate friends and not give them reasons to feel bad.

Unfortunately I (am sure you too)have watched some people on this site do all in their power to bring others down with their posts and comments (without any apology whatsoever). That got me wondering, what does such person(s) gain from trying to condemn others while claiming saint?


I am saying that before you bring anyone down with your posts and comments, please read Romans 2:1-4 and Romans 3:9-12.  Let the fighting stop on NP, let one candle light another because I cant still see what a candle would lose when it lights another.

Or what does a candle lose when it lights another candle?


WORD!! the best post ever DP thanks for your concern...........i love this  Cool Cool

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 6-06-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago)
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To add little to Divinest Project words !!

We all should learn to encourage one another, Do you realize the power in the words !! If you do, then i'm sure your words are been heard and echo in some many people's life that read from this forum. You could change someone out there, someone who is lost in between things of this life, so many wants to change and be who they really dream to be. You shouldn't weigh them down with your words in black & white but encourage them, give them hope and reason to fight ahead towards the changing channel.  

The finest gift you can give to anyone is encouragement. Yet, almost no one gets the encouragement they need to grow to their full potential. If everyone received the encouragement they need to grow, the genius in most of us would blossom and the world would produce abundance beyond the wildest dreams. We would have countless great people in our society. Just through the power of words ! Do what you can, no matter where you are, give the best with what you have to one another here, don't discourage others, don't criticize them, no matter what ! be a shoulder they should lean on.  

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:22 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- divineproject at 6-06-2011 01:23 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on  6-06-2011 01:11 PM
I wish everyone here will reason over this post
and make amend.
Thanks divinep for this!

Thanks too Waco

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:23 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 6-06-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-06-2011 12:55 PM
A word !!

Left for the wise to understand the meaning !! Some people always come up here as if they're dragging the Local Govt chairman post with another. Too many curses, abusive words, ugly names and so on.. I ask again here Maka why is all that happening? Why would somebody just log in here to abuse another for no reason. It doesn't represent a good NP family or A true Naija we're suppose to show to others.

We should learn to practice what we preach !!

exactly am a victim..... Sad

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 6-06-2011 01:25 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on  6-06-2011 01:01 PM
Some people are born haters!
How else can one explain lashing out at others for no just cause???
It's just so unfair....
Would it hurt 2 give a sincere compliment once in a while?
DP,I just tire!

gbam! n' frustrated

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:25 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 6-06-2011 01:27 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on  6-06-2011 01:24 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-06-2011 12:55 PM
A word !!

Left for the wise to understand the meaning !! Some people always come up here as if they're dragging the Local Govt chairman post with another. Too many curses, abusive words, ugly names and so on.. I ask again here Maka why is all that happening? Why would somebody just log in here to abuse another for no reason. It doesn't represent a good NP family or A true Naija we're suppose to show to others.

We should learn to practice what we preach !!

exactly am a victim..... Sad

Oya bring your candle swtheart, Let me light it up for you. I have mine still shinning very bright, I'm sure it will light up yours  Wink

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sobeit at 6-06-2011 01:28 PM (12 years ago)
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well i have analysed it and come to the conclusion that some people on here find it joy to use abusive words to try and degrade others..but one thing they fail to understand is that,the number of people watching you here with those ugly words is directly proportional to the stupidity of your action..they need to grow up and behave like an adult i believe they are..but don't expect change, it's not going to happen bcuz it's in their Blood!!
Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- divineproject at 6-06-2011 01:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: shaoyang on  6-06-2011 01:20 PM
I think it would be boring if everyone here should be peacemaker..don't try to scare away my great dudes here abegg una

Come on........there are other ways to have fun without bringing people down.........There are people here who make this place a fun place to be without fighting or bringing others down......it is only SADIST that derive fun from other people's hurt......are you one?

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:29 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 6-06-2011 01:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  6-06-2011 01:27 PM
Quote from: kebella on  6-06-2011 01:24 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on  6-06-2011 12:55 PM
A word !!

Left for the wise to understand the meaning !! Some people always come up here as if they're dragging the Local Govt chairman post with another. Too many curses, abusive words, ugly names and so on.. I ask again here Maka why is all that happening? Why would somebody just log in here to abuse another for no reason. It doesn't represent a good NP family or A true Naija we're suppose to show to others.

We should learn to practice what we preach !!


exactly am a victim..... Sad


Oya bring your candle swtheart, Let me light it up for you. I have mine still shinning very bright, I'm sure it will light up yours  Wink


pls kip it burning  Cool

Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:29 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shaoyang at 6-06-2011 01:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on  6-06-2011 01:19 PM
Quote from: shaoyang on  6-06-2011 01:09 PM
Great post and wonderful comments as well....... but u see this is a society where u can obtain different characters
Its an internet world and sometimes these guys that insult each other might get to make good friends in the real world
For me i don't insult but i enjoy reading the fight comments, find it interesting & funny so let the fight continue Kiss


Bia nwa nnaa, I go wound ooo.....which fight you dey talk about?

Eh! Eh! Lekwanu Dp! Ichoro ka osetia nke mu na gi ebea kita Angry I don wear my glove in readiness sef
Posted: at 6-06-2011 01:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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