Telling my boyfriend the sex isn't good! how ?? (Page 2)

Date: 07-06-2011 10:45 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Johan Gomez
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- kizz4me at 7-06-2011 11:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:43 PM
Quote from: kizz4me on  7-06-2011 11:31 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:26 PM
Maybe it is not HIM... it could be you because I am sure another woman might think his Sex is da bomb... i think you should sit down and really think if he is the problem. Maybe your walls are no more? loose? Or maybe you expect him to do all the work and not participate? it takes two people to REALLY enjoy Sex... The man will do his thing and the woman should compliment his sex game by showing him your skillz too...


Your word sounds off point, I suggest you read the post all over again. i'm quite sure, i mention in the post about everything been absolutely perfect both emotional and both been attractive to each other.  what do you mean by "Walls are no more" what is walls  Huh? Huh?
I am talking about Sex-wise. you said if his sex isn't good. Walls are honeypotL WALLS. You know the one that open the first time a dick goes in. When a girl have too much sex with too many different sizes of penises, her walls are bound to become loose.


Ooops !! who gave you such impression at first place, Do you realize that, the same honeypot had to increase at least 10cm wide to be able to push out a baby ?? I don't quite agree with you that such issues occur in women, no matter how much that person think she can lay with a man, it doesn't have anything to do with such impression, don't forget that place is like elastic it suits in what soever you drop in there gently. But thats not the problem about the post. the problem is totally from the guy, he can't just stand it.. don't tell me you don't know is happening in most average men nowadays !! We're talking about you to approach men with such issues in order not to bring down their ego.  Smiley
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- typicalman84 at 7-06-2011 11:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:33 PM
Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:28 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:26 PM
Maybe it is not HIM... it could be you because I am sure another woman might think his Sex is da bomb... i think you should sit down and really think if he is the problem. Maybe your walls are no more? loose? Or maybe you expect him to do all the work and not participate? it takes two people to REALLY enjoy Sex... The man will do his thing and the woman should compliment his sex game by showing him your skillz too...

now thats jus nassty talk..............hw u doin tho??...
I am good but it could be true. Some women complain about how bad their men are in bed but they themselves do not do sh*t but lay on their backs and expect the man to keep pounding and sweating like a goat on heat... Enjoying sex is not just about that. You have to put in your own spice too to make the sexing enjoyable by both parties. How are you doing?

if the woman is worldwide..that is not enough put him off .....buh 3+yrs...mehn....I kinda with u on the ladies lying on their backs and counting  the strands on his head.................that I hate wit so much passion.............
Could be that she has just been laying on her back for those 3 years and has never ridden on her man before.Or changed position before.

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- preciouslyme at 7-06-2011 11:53 PM (12 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked well talk to your man period either way you say it, his ego might be wounded lol blank. wow this is a tough yet funny topic. If sex is going to cause a barrier in your relationship then truthfully its a conversation to have with him......after three years there should be no reason you cant freely talk to him.
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- thowbee at 7-06-2011 11:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:52 PM
Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:33 PM
Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:28 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:26 PM
Maybe it is not HIM... it could be you because I am sure another woman might think his Sex is da bomb... i think you should sit down and really think if he is the problem. Maybe your walls are no more? loose? Or maybe you expect him to do all the work and not participate? it takes two people to REALLY enjoy Sex... The man will do his thing and the woman should compliment his sex game by showing him your skillz too...

now thats jus nassty talk..............hw u doin tho??...
I am good but it could be true. Some women complain about how bad their men are in bed but they themselves do not do sh*t but lay on their backs and expect the man to keep pounding and sweating like a goat on heat... Enjoying sex is not just about that. You have to put in your own spice too to make the sexing enjoyable by both parties. How are you doing?

if the woman is worldwide..that is not enough put him off .....buh 3+yrs...mehn....I kinda with u on the ladies lying on their backs and counting  the strands on his head.................that I hate wit so much passion.............
Could be that she has just been laying on her back for those 3 years and has never ridden on her man before.Or changed position before.

c'mn.....u and I knw thats not the case....r u kidding me??...............
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- kizz4me at 7-06-2011 11:58 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: preciouslyme on  7-06-2011 11:53 PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked well talk to your man period either way you say it, his ego might be wounded lol blank. wow this is a tough yet funny topic. If sex is going to cause a barrier in your relationship then truthfully its a conversation to have with him......after three years there should be no reason you cant freely talk to him.


Of course both do talk about it indirectly that he has to be buying some special condom to still help, but he can't stand it as well, Should one go mad over it because in the first place Sex is not the top priority between both but still no woman want to gamble on that area. How will one engage in discussion without wounding his ego  Cheesy
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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:11 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kizz4me on  7-06-2011 11:49 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:43 PM
Quote from: kizz4me on  7-06-2011 11:31 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:26 PM
Maybe it is not HIM... it could be you because I am sure another woman might think his Sex is da bomb... i think you should sit down and really think if he is the problem. Maybe your walls are no more? loose? Or maybe you expect him to do all the work and not participate? it takes two people to REALLY enjoy Sex... The man will do his thing and the woman should compliment his sex game by showing him your skillz too...


Your word sounds off point, I suggest you read the post all over again. i'm quite sure, i mention in the post about everything been absolutely perfect both emotional and both been attractive to each other.  what do you mean by "Walls are no more" what is walls  Huh? Huh?
I am talking about Sex-wise. you said if his sex isn't good. Walls are honeypotL WALLS. You know the one that open the first time a dick goes in. When a girl have too much sex with too many different sizes of penises, her walls are bound to become loose.


Ooops !! who gave you such impression at first place, Do you realize that, the same honeypot had to increase at least 10cm wide to be able to push out a baby ?? I don't quite agree with you that such issues occur in women, no matter how much that person think she can lay with a man, it doesn't have anything to do with such impression, don't forget that place is like elastic it suits in what soever you drop in there gently. But thats not the problem about the post. the problem is totally from the guy, he can't just stand it.. don't tell me you don't know is happening in most average men nowadays !! We're talking about you to approach men with such issues in order not to bring down their ego.  Smiley
Honey when a woman is giving birth, she experiences a tear of the perineum, thereby widening the honeypot. She usually undergo episiotomy to widen the honeypot, after which the honeypot is stitched up after delivery. And for your Info, honeypots get loose when a woman is promiscuous (encountering different sizes of penises in her) Her walls get loosened up. Good thing is that while having sex, most of these loose honeypot having women can contract their muscle to make the penis feel tight.

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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:56 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:52 PM
Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:33 PM
Quote from: thowbee on  7-06-2011 11:28 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  7-06-2011 11:26 PM
Maybe it is not HIM... it could be you because I am sure another woman might think his Sex is da bomb... i think you should sit down and really think if he is the problem. Maybe your walls are no more? loose? Or maybe you expect him to do all the work and not participate? it takes two people to REALLY enjoy Sex... The man will do his thing and the woman should compliment his sex game by showing him your skillz too...

now thats jus nassty talk..............hw u doin tho??...
I am good but it could be true. Some women complain about how bad their men are in bed but they themselves do not do sh*t but lay on their backs and expect the man to keep pounding and sweating like a goat on heat... Enjoying sex is not just about that. You have to put in your own spice too to make the sexing enjoyable by both parties. How are you doing?

if the woman is worldwide..that is not enough put him off .....buh 3+yrs...mehn....I kinda with u on the ladies lying on their backs and counting  the strands on his head.................that I hate wit so much passion.............
Could be that she has just been laying on her back for those 3 years and has never ridden on her man before.Or changed position before.

c'mn.....u and I knw thats not the case....r u kidding me??...............
Could be. the poster might not be telling you everything.. Yet.

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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kizz4me on  7-06-2011 11:58 PM
Quote from: preciouslyme on  7-06-2011 11:53 PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked well talk to your man period either way you say it, his ego might be wounded lol blank. wow this is a tough yet funny topic. If sex is going to cause a barrier in your relationship then truthfully its a conversation to have with him......after three years there should be no reason you cant freely talk to him.


Of course both do talk about it indirectly that he has to be buying some special condom to still help, but he can't stand it as well, Should one go mad over it because in the first place Sex is not the top priority between both but still no woman want to gamble on that area. How will one engage in discussion without wounding his ego  Cheesy
Lol @ Special Condoms... If you have been with this man for 3 years and trust him that much, I think you should be on birth control and let him give it to you RAW... maybe that is what you've been missing. There is a big difference using condoms and going raw. if you do not trust him then please do not try it.

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- kizz4me at 8-06-2011 12:16 AM (12 years ago)
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Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley
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- thowbee at 8-06-2011 12:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:24 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley
Ha! I do not have to have a honeypot to know all that... my profession requires i know everything there is to know about the human anatomy and physiology. I can't advice you on how to tell your guy that 'his sex sucks'. If i must relay any advice to you, i have to know if you have taken control while in the act and still not like the sex. if you haven't tried it before(riding him and sexing him up as opposed to him doing the work) then you should try it and let me know if it still suck. That is when i can tell you how and in what manner you should make it known to him that his sex game is whack.

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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:28 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
R/ship shouldn't be about. When you go into a r/ship expecting him to be a sex God then you are bound to be disappointed big time. Sex is not all there is in a Great r/ship... like i said before, the next girl might think his sex is freaking awesome. Something to kill for.

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- Ortopazz at 8-06-2011 12:34 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
R/ship shouldn't be about. When you go into a r/ship expecting him to be a sex God then you are bound to be disappointed big time. Sex is not all there is in a Great r/ship... like i said before, the next girl might think his sex is freaking awesome. Something to kill for.


                           
 no offence but there's no gud relationships without sex, no mata how attached you are, its a risk goin in2 something dat you like  you your doing becos of that word love, take a stand dear and decide between a good sex mate or your heart
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- thowbee at 8-06-2011 12:35 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
R/ship shouldn't be about. When you go into a r/ship expecting him to be a sex God then you are bound to be disappointed big time. Sex is not all there is in a Great r/ship... like i said before, the next girl might think his sex is freaking awesome. Something to kill for.

TM....NUUUUHHH..sex is not compulsory buh a necessity.....thats jus wat I believe in and as for honeypot loosening.....u can have a honeypot rejuvenation surgery or simply use a tightening serum.....its really easy...married women and new moms use it and they get tight in a matter of mins......so..........................I don't wanna be in a relationship where I have to get satisfied out there.....Sex is necessary.....not jus sex buh GOOD SEX!
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- Ortopazz at 8-06-2011 12:37 AM (12 years ago)
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ok thats harsh
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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:39 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Ortopazz on  8-06-2011 12:34 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
R/ship shouldn't be about. When you go into a r/ship expecting him to be a sex God then you are bound to be disappointed big time. Sex is not all there is in a Great r/ship... like i said before, the next girl might think his sex is freaking awesome. Something to kill for.


                           
 no offence but there's no gud relationships without sex, no mata how attached you are, its a risk goin in2 something dat you like  you your doing becos of that word love, take a stand dear and decide between a good sex mate or your heart
I never said sex shouldn't happen in a r/ship. What i said was that r/ships should not be built on SEX. If someone asks what is the best qualities your partner has and you answer that he/she has great sex then that r/ship is bound to fail. Sex is good but it shouldn't be the main reason you should still stick with or break up with your partner.

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- Ortopazz at 8-06-2011 12:43 AM (12 years ago)
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tell am if you dont want to die in silence and then no mata how embarrasing it mite b! not wishing 2 b d 1 sha u guys can work it out
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- preciouslyme at 8-06-2011 12:44 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:15 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  7-06-2011 11:58 PM
Quote from: preciouslyme on  7-06-2011 11:53 PM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked well talk to your man period either way you say it, his ego might be wounded lol blank. wow this is a tough yet funny topic. If sex is going to cause a barrier in your relationship then truthfully its a conversation to have with him......after three years there should be no reason you cant freely talk to him.


Of course both do talk about it indirectly that he has to be buying some special condom to still help, but he can't stand it as well, Should one go mad over it because in the first place Sex is not the top priority between both but still no woman want to gamble on that area. How will one engage in discussion without wounding his ego  Cheesy
Lol @ Special Condoms... If you have been with this man for 3 years and trust him that much, I think you should be on birth control and let him give it to you RAW... maybe that is what you've been missing. There is a big difference using condoms and going raw. if you do not trust him then please do not try it.

well sounds like you already have your mind made up.............I think you should talk to him directly..............ego will be wounded regardless.......I dont want to say dont use a condom but that might be part of the issue......and does he have a Naija pals account cause if he does lol I hate to say it but DAMN you put his  ISH on blast
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- Ortopazz at 8-06-2011 12:46 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:39 AM
Quote from: Ortopazz on  8-06-2011 12:34 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
R/ship shouldn't be about. When you go into a r/ship expecting him to be a sex God then you are bound to be disappointed big time. Sex is not all there is in a Great r/ship... like i said before, the next girl might think his sex is freaking awesome. Something to kill for.


                           
 no offence but there's no gud relationships without sex, no mata how attached you are, its a risk goin in2 something dat you like  you your doing becos of that word love, take a stand dear and decide between a good sex mate or your heart
I never said sex shouldn't happen in a r/ship. What i said was that r/ships should not be built on SEX. If someone asks what is the best qualities your partner has and you answer that he/she has great sex then that r/ship is bound to fail. Sex is good but it shouldn't be the main reason you should still stick with or break up with your partner.

                  ya got dat, just saying that sex is gud, not saying its kinda a perquisite for a gud relationship, ok? thanks
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- typicalman84 at 8-06-2011 12:46 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:35 AM
Quote from: typicalman84 on  8-06-2011 12:28 AM
Quote from: thowbee on  8-06-2011 12:23 AM
Quote from: kizz4me on  8-06-2011 12:16 AM
Well whatever your research about honeypot means to you is not the issue here, because is not the problem on the topic. I'm quite sure you don't have honeypot on you to know how it react or function, so i could tell you better. Give us the better way to talk to man with such issue in a way he will not find it offended or bring down his ego.  Smiley Smiley

dearie......there is no way to tell him without hurting him.....thats a very private thing.....and for u to say it to his face already is bruising his ego...........the only way is harsh truth.................so u either tell him if u love him or walk out...cuz a sexless relationship is jus a crappy one and a gud excuse to cheat.......
R/ship shouldn't be about. When you go into a r/ship expecting him to be a sex God then you are bound to be disappointed big time. Sex is not all there is in a Great r/ship... like i said before, the next girl might think his sex is freaking awesome. Something to kill for.

TM....NUUUUHHH..sex is not compulsory buh a necessity.....thats jus wat I believe in and as for honeypot loosening.....u can have a honeypot rejuvenation surgery or simply use a tightening serum.....its really easy...married women and new moms use it and they get tight in a matter of mins......so..........................I don't wanna be in a relationship where I have to get satisfied out there.....Sex is necessary.....not jus sex buh GOOD SEX!
Sex is necessary...No doubt but wait a minute... what is your definition of good sex? To me, Sex is Good when you make it good. isn't it all about the guy thrusting his penis in and out OR the girl riding his penis up and down or just grinding the penis in a circular motion or whichever sides she so much chooses... That is SEX. Now that Sex being good depends on your mood and if you really are horny and want to enjoy it really good. it takes two to have sex and it should take two to enjoy it.

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