When is the Right Time to Insist on a HIV Test?

Date: 08-06-2011 11:03 am (12 years ago) | Author: Teeco Designer
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- at 8-06-2011 11:03 AM (12 years ago)
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These days, families, doctors, and even society insist that an intending couple do a number of tests, like bloodgroup, HIV and general compatibility tests before they walk down the aisle.

Usually, this is afer wedding plans have begun and a dating process has ended.

My question is "Should one wait till few weeks to the wedding before running a test as imporatant as HIV?" This is dangerous, I mean what if one partner comes out positive?

The people have probably been doing before now too  Grin (in most cases), so the other partner is possibly infected by this time. 
I think the right time to insist on a HIV test is at the beggining of a relationship.

If someone indicates interest in you and you accept to have him/her, the next step should be to go for a HIV test (even if you have done it before). You may even go together.

A right thinking person doesn't need a Pastor or Mother or Doctor to tell him to do this. This way, you save yourself the trauma, anxiety and anticipation of having to do a test so close to your wedding or even having to cancel wedding plans and explain to people that some thing happened along the line.

Besides, you are sure of yourselves evn during the whole courtship process.

 So My Naijapals, get up and begin to drag your partners (or prospective partners) to the nearest heart to heart centre. Or what do you think?

Teeco Designer
AKA Love Mallam Kiss


Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:03 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- dirtykid at 8-06-2011 11:06 AM (12 years ago)
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Th right time is asap !! to avoid had i know. Health is wealth my people.

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:06 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:09 AM (12 years ago)
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I taught E don get cure..
I hear say Johnathan sef.. dey help dem With the help of the Vaccine...
Up Naija.....

Do it Asap.. Evry Month sef..

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:09 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:10 AM (12 years ago)
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maybe once u lash raw.. go for checkup

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:10 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 8-06-2011 11:11 AM (12 years ago)
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every minuet, hour, day and month
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:11 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 8-06-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago)
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No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-06-2011 11:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:11 AM
every minuet, hour, day and month


Na food schedule  Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:13 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- teeco at 8-06-2011 11:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:09 AM
I taught E don get cure..
I hear say Johnathan sef.. dey help dem With the help of the Vaccine...
Up Naija.....

Do it Asap.. Evry Month sef..

kai! Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:16 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:16 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- chiglamour4u at 8-06-2011 11:18 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:13 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:11 AM
every minuet, hour, day and month


Na food schedule  Cheesy Cheesy


hehhehee in better mk u turn am to food schedule

i forget to add every seconds  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:18 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- dirtykid at 8-06-2011 11:22 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:22 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-06-2011 11:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:18 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:13 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:11 AM
every minuet, hour, day and month


Na food schedule  Cheesy Cheesy


hehhehee in better mk u turn am to food schedule

i forget to add every seconds  Grin Grin Grin


I hear you... I hope you will not tell the guy, that you're not going and start arguing with him if he doesn't trust u because na ladies style be that once they hear about going for test.

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.

Yes naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I no my status naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i no dey shake..  Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- teeco at 8-06-2011 11:27 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

chei!! Grin hhehehe

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:27 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- dirtykid at 8-06-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:24 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.

Yes naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I no my status naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i no dey shake..  Grin Grin

Is good for on to know his/her qualification on that area.. adi ama ama, ndi Ama ala gwara ndi Ama enu  Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:29 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: teeco on  8-06-2011 11:27 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

chei!! Grin hhehehe

u like rawwww?  Grin

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:29 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:30 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:23 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:18 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:13 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:11 AM
every minuet, hour, day and month


Na food schedule  Cheesy Cheesy


hehhehee in better mk u turn am to food schedule

i forget to add every seconds  Grin Grin Grin


I hear you... I hope you will not tell the guy, that you're not going and start arguing with him if he doesn't trust u because na ladies style be that once they hear about going for test.

na only babe wey no sabi herself naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:30 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 8-06-2011 11:31 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:28 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:24 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:22 AM
Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:16 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:12 AM
No raw lashing if check up is not run proper. You better wear your helmet, thank heaven women too get their own helmet, if the man no accept to wear his own, You better wear you own.. to avoid, had i known.

Oh,Boy..but raw dey sweet like Nwannu udara Na  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Who no like am raw kwanu, But are you ready to go for a test before lashing out the dragon raw ?? thats the point.

Yes naaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. I no my status naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.. i no dey shake..  Grin Grin

Is good for on to know his/her qualification on that area.. adi ama ama, ndi Ama ala gwara ndi Ama enu  Grin Grin

owu ezioku..

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:31 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- teeco at 8-06-2011 11:32 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  8-06-2011 11:30 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:23 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:18 AM
Quote from: dirtykid on  8-06-2011 11:13 AM
Quote from: chiglamour4u on  8-06-2011 11:11 AM
every minuet, hour, day and month


Na food schedule  Cheesy Cheesy


hehhehee in better mk u turn am to food schedule

i forget to add every seconds  Grin Grin Grin


I hear you... I hope you will not tell the guy, that you're not going and start arguing with him if he doesn't trust u because na ladies style be that once they hear about going for test.

na only babe wey no sabi herself naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

baby forget this story how else do want a lady to know her self

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:32 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- waco at 8-06-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago)
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HIV test! ok na

Posted: at 8-06-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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