WHAT IS THE BEST WAY OF HANDLING HEARTBREAK?

Date: 10-06-2011 9:25 am (12 years ago) | Author: Stan N. (Waco Janta)
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- at 10-06-2011 09:25 AM (12 years ago)
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Gussssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!
why is this happening to me now that i've changed?
I've always been a played, believing that no girl can
break my heart cos i had many of them. I met this babe
i am dating now and we've planned going to the alter.
Because of her i stopped everyother hide and seek.

For the past few days now, this same girl has been acting
abnormal, infact i take it that she is no longer interested.
I really luv this girl and have tried talking things over to no avail.

PLS PALS, HOW DO I HANDLE THIS. I'VE NEVER FELT THIS WAY B4! :'( :'(


Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:25 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
- waco at 10-06-2011 09:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 09:25 AM
Gussssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!
why is this happening to me now that i've changed?
I've always been a played, believing that no girl can
break my heart cos i had many of them. I met this babe
i am dating now and we've planned going to the alter.
Because of her i stopped everyother hide and seek.

For the past few days now, this same girl has been acting
abnormal, infact i take it that she is no longer interested.
I really luv this girl and have tried talking things over to no avail.

PLS PALS, HOW DO I HANDLE THIS. I'VE NEVER FELT THIS WAY B4! :'( :'(

PLAYER

Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:26 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 10-06-2011 09:44 AM (12 years ago)
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E yah! sorrriiiiii!
its normal u knw! when a player eventually gets serious, dats when nemesis would come so dat u feel a lil what u've been doing to others.
Ma advise,,,, keep pushin (don't forget prayer) who knows she might change her mind buh if not,,, consider its not meant to be and move on
Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:44 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 10-06-2011 09:46 AM (12 years ago)
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Guess Sophie is nt d one woman handling u? Grin
Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:46 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 10-06-2011 09:49 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:44 AM
E yah! sorrriiiiii!
its normal u knw! when a player eventually gets serious, dats when nemesis would come so dat u feel a lil what u've been doing to others.
Ma advise,,,, keep pushin (don't forget prayer) who knows she might change her mind buh if not,,, consider its not meant to be and move on

Thanks dear

Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:49 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Emmandazie at 10-06-2011 09:51 AM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin waco my teacher in trouble?
Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:51 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- olumbareal at 10-06-2011 09:53 AM (12 years ago)
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Hey yah! sowiiii ooooo, Pray hard.
Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:53 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 10-06-2011 09:54 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 09:49 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:44 AM
E yah! sorrriiiiii!
its normal u knw! when a player eventually gets serious, dats when nemesis would come so dat u feel a lil what u've been doing to others.
Ma advise,,,, keep pushin (don't forget prayer) who knows she might change her mind buh if not,,, consider its not meant to be and move on

Thanks dear

Welcome. buh u didn't ansa ma 2nd Q?
Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:54 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 10-06-2011 09:59 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:54 AM
Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 09:49 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:44 AM
E yah! sorrriiiiii!
its normal u knw! when a player eventually gets serious, dats when nemesis would come so dat u feel a lil what u've been doing to others.
Ma advise,,,, keep pushin (don't forget prayer) who knows she might change her mind buh if not,,, consider its not meant to be and move on

Thanks dear

Welcome. buh u didn't ansa ma 2nd Q?
Can we talk in private?

Posted: at 10-06-2011 09:59 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-06-2011 10:01 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:46 AM
Guess Sophie is nt d one woman handling u? Grin


Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:01 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- KINGJHOE at 10-06-2011 10:02 AM (12 years ago)
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drinking...life is a bitch
Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:02 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 10-06-2011 10:05 AM (12 years ago)
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I agree with u Kingjhoe

Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:05 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-06-2011 10:06 AM (12 years ago)
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 Sweetieee>>>Resist focusing negative emotions on the person who ended the relationship. Don’t let thoughts of making this person jealous or miserable drive you. Also, don’t focus any negativity on yourself. Give yourself a big fat break. The worst thing you can do when suffering through a Hrtbreak is to blame yourself. You are already going through so much! This is the time when you need to love yourself more than ever. You don’t need to blame or punish yourself because someone just left you hanging. This also means you should steer clear of self-destructive behaviors such as using alcohol, drugs, or “comfort” food to cope. When you’re in the middle of a Hrtbreak, you may feel tempted to do anything to relieve your feelings of pain and loneliness.
Make an effort to go out, be with your friends and family, and have fun. Don’t go through it alone. Spend time with people who support, love, and value you, and take some time to expand your social network. It’s going to seem ridiculous and phony at first to be forcing yourself to do these things while surviving a Hrtbreak, but you need this time out and about to get over what has happened to you.

Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:06 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-06-2011 10:07 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 10:05 AM
I agree with u Kingjhoe

Sweetiee so u want to go Drinking..and get drunk?

Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:07 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- xena15 at 10-06-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago)
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Whoa!
I cnt believe dis!
D waco i knw cn handle any sh*t dat comes his way,so wetin dey happen?

Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Emmandazie at 10-06-2011 10:12 AM (12 years ago)
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Reading and not believing  poster and commentators.

Hrtbreak solution na 4 go chat 3 babes & have fun with!
No other cure!!!
Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:12 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- waco at 10-06-2011 10:12 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-06-2011 10:06 AM
Sweetieee>>>Resist focusing negative emotions on the person who ended the relationship. Don’t let thoughts of making this person jealous or miserable drive you. Also, don’t focus any negativity on yourself. Give yourself a big fat break. The worst thing you can do when suffering through a Hrtbreak is to blame yourself. You are already going through so much! This is the time when you need to love yourself more than ever. You don’t need to blame or punish yourself because someone just left you hanging. This also means you should steer clear of self-destructive behaviors such as using alcohol, drugs, or “comfort” food to cope. When you’re in the middle of a Hrtbreak, you may feel tempted to do anything to relieve your feelings of pain and loneliness.
Make an effort to go out, be with your friends and family, and have fun. Don’t go through it alone. Spend time with people who support, love, and value you, and take some time to expand your social network. It’s going to seem ridiculous and phony at first to be forcing yourself to do these things while surviving a Hrtbreak, but you need this time out and about to get over what has happened to you.

Very correct. This is a complete episode i believe! thanks dearie

Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:12 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Pepesy at 10-06-2011 10:16 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 09:59 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:54 AM
Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 09:49 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:44 AM
E yah! sorrriiiiii!
its normal u knw! when a player eventually gets serious, dats when nemesis would come so dat u feel a lil what u've been doing to others.
Ma advise,,,, keep pushin (don't forget prayer) who knows she might change her mind buh if not,,, consider its not meant to be and move on

Thanks dear

Welcome. buh u didn't ansa ma 2nd Q?
Can we talk in private?

Lol! not allowed
get well soon  Grin
Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:16 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- slimben at 10-06-2011 10:16 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-06-2011 10:07 AM
Quote from: waco on 10-06-2011 10:05 AM
I agree with u Kingjhoe

Sweetiee so u want to go Drinking..and get drunk?
it helps sometime but 4 me never will a woman make me feel bad i gat my homies around
Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:16 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Pepesy at 10-06-2011 10:18 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-06-2011 10:01 AM
Quote from: Pepesy on 10-06-2011 09:46 AM
Guess Sophie is nt d one woman handling u? Grin



Gud u've exonerated urself  Grin
Posted: at 10-06-2011 10:18 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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