What is the future of a child in a broken home? (Page 2)

Date: 12-06-2011 12:22 pm (9 years ago) | Author: FESTUS EMEKA
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- Innoutt at 12-06-2011 11:10 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ourhearts on 12-06-2011 12:22 PM
Sometimes i wonder what the future holds for a child whose parents are not together. My case is typical of this phenomena. My daughter was one year and 2 months old when her mother ran away with her. All efforts to locate them proved abortive. Everyday, the question that remained in my mind is.. how is she doing without me.




@ I don't think you might av ever thought about the general effect of such separation b4 you let the pressure with this result continued, and now you are worried bcos you don't know. Well,I hate any form of justification for divorce.
    The best time for such victim-children of deserted-warriors-family is the worst time for children from lasting home---loneliness. Over-thinking on daily bases always make the victim to overgrow anxiety and frustration too early while in the prison of perplexity. You may wonder how a man can over grow the only option for his life hoooooooooooooooooooiiiiiiiiii  :'(
    A prisoner may have one thing in mind...FREEDOM one day... but this children, no matter how intelligent they may be because of over-thinking, they will never understand why they became the  sacred lamb that must appease the devil.... what is the offense of innocence in these children? Again can the devil be really appeased not to do evil; how will the devil be living like the devil if eventually the devil got appeased?
    If you don't see tears in their eyes, don't think that they are happy, it's b/cos there was nobody to buy container for them to reserve their tears so they try to hide their real feeling always. Even the most phlantropic man in the world cannot buy container for them b/cos he cannot understand why they need it, and even if he do, he will not support them. Victim children enjoy loneliness and manage pretense just to feign up normalcy with friends and reduce piety and sympathy that has turn sour to them. This is an isolating experience despite their effort to put up tranquility on their face and activity.---ANOTHER KIND OF HOllOW IN THE HEART---
    Children-victim of divorce are like the only philosopher who cannot make conclusion b/cos they don't like irrational one. This is the-----VICTIM'S OUT-CASTING CONFUSION-------the highest way to express WICKEDNESS TO YOUR CHILDREN POLITELY  is divorce and everybody is free to do the evil.May God save me from this size of 'athrusity'  that nobody is prohibited from  Sad Sad Sad    
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- comiter at 12-06-2011 11:27 PM (9 years ago)
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İt depends....piken wey go die most die....mother leave you or dadi leave you...all na God wish...........we all pray 4 good family rich family dats it..break up or not.... it does not mean you cnt be what you want 2 be only it will take a little time dats all.but 4me...all i have if i did not get marry goes 2 motherless dats it...........
Posted: at 12-06-2011 11:27 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- MilleniumMan at 13-06-2011 01:57 AM (9 years ago)
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This is an unwanted situation.
Posted: at 13-06-2011 01:57 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Larrykingomoj at 13-06-2011 02:00 AM (9 years ago)
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Sometimes very difficult and sometimes very fine
Posted: at 13-06-2011 02:00 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oohio2007 at 13-06-2011 03:35 AM (9 years ago)
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If God who is the institutor of marriage had divorce in mind during the creation of humankind,He would have left the man to be alone.But God realised that it is not good for man to be alone so he made a partner for him in the form of a woman.For couples to go thier separate ways after marriage and having children,is of the devil.Single parenting is also of the devil.It takes the grace of God for children from broken homes to live a normal life.Some end up as drug addicts, gangsters,prostitutes,homosexuals,lesbians and even bisexuals.That is the problem America is having today.About 70% of youths in america who are involved in social vices are from broken homes or were raised by a single parent.It is gradually creeping into Nigeria.My God help us in Jesus name.

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- kennyades at 13-06-2011 05:14 AM (9 years ago)
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As long as the child is with either parent its ok,i am a typical example,i grew up with my mum and i am doing quite fine,Aldo sometimes its does nt go well but for me i am fine,i cant help the situation than to learn to do wit my mum
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- DarkCoco at 13-06-2011 05:18 AM (9 years ago)
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ts only God's grace and that will determineall of dis, because i knw kids who r from broken homes still make it all da way and i also knw kids who have everythin they want from both parents and can make it in the soceity and they are fcuking up big time, if the mother is a good mother she will teach her daughter in a good way, buh also when the girl grows up she will want to knw her dad and thats will be da mothers duty to let it happen, or the girl will look for her own way to look for her dad


HOLLA just addin ma 2cent

Posted: at 13-06-2011 05:18 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- whome at 13-06-2011 05:42 AM (9 years ago)
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Prayers will do alot
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- feyee at 13-06-2011 06:32 AM (9 years ago)
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hmmmmn...............
Posted: at 13-06-2011 06:32 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- proly at 13-06-2011 07:06 AM (9 years ago)
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well one day they will freturn home just pray to GOD
Posted: at 13-06-2011 07:06 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- segzydu at 13-06-2011 09:22 AM (9 years ago)
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just strollin oooooooooooooo  Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed Lips Sealed ill join u later
Posted: at 13-06-2011 09:22 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- acome at 13-06-2011 09:43 AM (9 years ago)
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keep praying and keep searching God will help you to find them. it only take the grace of God for them to be best they wish to be in life but to every body we can only try our best but can't change the fact that we can every satisfy our wife's or husband so let the soil you kick on every day bear you witness that you are not at fault at all.
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- Idbabe at 13-06-2011 09:53 AM (9 years ago)
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@Poster: what did u do to her dat made her to leave u?
Posted: at 13-06-2011 09:53 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- Idbabe at 13-06-2011 10:10 AM (9 years ago)
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Its 50/50.  Most times those in broken marriages turn beta off and other times the reverse is the case, it depends on who is training the kid(s).  Good mother/father will always remain good weda in marriage or outside marriage.
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- GOLDENMEDAH at 13-06-2011 10:26 AM (9 years ago)
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No matter hw far they ran away, 1 day will request to see her daddy even though they have show her anoda daddy truth will always come alive, when she grow, she will surely locate u.
Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:26 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- priceless87 at 13-06-2011 10:27 AM (9 years ago)
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wen God's hands are upon any child, dat child is bound to remain the best whether from broken home or not. dats ma belief
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- 123Sonia at 13-06-2011 10:56 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Idbabe on 13-06-2011 10:10 AM
Its 50/50.  Most times those in broken marriages turn beta off and other times the reverse is the case, it depends on who is training the kid(s).  Good mother/father will always remain good weda in marriage or outside marriage.
SECONDED

I really pray you get to connect with daughter soon.
Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:56 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- adexmikel at 13-06-2011 11:43 AM (9 years ago)
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Prayer ma broda! Prayer is d master key 2 unlock a brighter future 4 both ur queen n ur princess! Jst kip prayin 4 ém
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- chibem at 13-06-2011 11:47 AM (9 years ago)
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mother and father have their roles to play in every family. so  u can imagine what life will  be like if a child or children in a family are lacking this roles maybe from the mother or the father. 4example most men hardly dictate when their children are hungry or sick, while some do not know the extact dress that goes with each occasion. they can put their children on a stay home dress for them to go to church with it. in my own case my husband took my children to school oneday without having the youngest of them his shoes on and it was very cold day because it´s snowed and I left home before them.so u can imagine what life will be like for my children if I am not home for them. as well there are some parts that mothers cannot reach 4example in my family I hardly bring out time to play my kids  but their father does. once he is back from work we eat then  my home become noisy. playing and laughing and finally he will  put them to bed. so u can imagine what will happen if their father is not there to do the usual roles.I must say a child in a broken home is passing through physical,mental and emotional torture.
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- segxykay at 13-06-2011 12:04 PM (9 years ago)
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wait first make i ask google Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley hmmmm dats paki and boti......
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