What is the future of a child in a broken home? (Page 2)

Quote from: ourhearts on 12-06-2011 12:22 PM

Sometimes i wonder what the future holds for a child whose parents are not together. My case is typical of this phenomena. My daughter was one year and 2 months old when her mother ran away with her. All efforts to locate them proved abortive. Everyday, the question that remained in my mind is.. how is she doing without me.

@ I don't think you might av ever thought about the general effect of such separation b4 you let the pressure with this result continued, and now you are worried bcos you don't know. Well,I hate any form of justification for divorce.
    The best time for such victim-children of deserted-warriors-family is the worst time for children from lasting home---loneliness. Over-thinking on daily bases always make the victim to overgrow anxiety and frustration too early while in the prison of perplexity. You may wonder how a man can over grow the only option for his life hoooooooooooooooooooiiiiiiiiii  :'(
    A prisoner may have one thing in mind...FREEDOM one day... but this children, no matter how intelligent they may be because of over-thinking, they will never understand why they became the  sacred lamb that must appease the devil.... what is the offense of innocence in these children? Again can the devil be really appeased not to do evil; how will the devil be living like the devil if eventually the devil got appeased?
    If you don't see tears in their eyes, don't think that they are happy, it's b/cos there was nobody to buy container for them to reserve their tears so they try to hide their real feeling always. Even the most phlantropic man in the world cannot buy container for them b/cos he cannot understand why they need it, and even if he do, he will not support them. Victim children enjoy loneliness and manage pretense just to feign up normalcy with friends and reduce piety and sympathy that has turn sour to them. This is an isolating experience despite their effort to put up tranquility on their face and activity.---ANOTHER KIND OF HOllOW IN THE HEART---
    Children-victim of divorce are like the only philosopher who cannot make conclusion b/cos they don't like irrational one. This is the-----VICTIM'S OUT-CASTING CONFUSION-------the highest way to express WICKEDNESS TO YOUR CHILDREN POLITELY  is divorce and everybody is free to do the evil.May God save me from this size of 'athrusity'  that nobody is prohibited from      

Posted: at 12-06-2011 11:10 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

This is an unwanted situation.

Posted: at 13-06-2011 01:57 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

If God who is the institutor of marriage had divorce in mind during the creation of humankind,He would have left the man to be alone.But God realised that it is not good for man to be alone so he made a partner for him in the form of a woman.For couples to go thier separate ways after marriage and having children,is of the devil.Single parenting is also of the devil.It takes the grace of God for children from broken homes to live a normal life.Some end up as drug addicts, gangsters,prostitutes,homosegxwals,lesbians and even bisegxwals.That is the problem America is having today.About 70% of youths in america who are involved in social vices are from broken homes or were raised by a single parent.It is gradually creeping into Nigeria.My God help us in Jesus name.

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Posted: at 13-06-2011 03:35 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

ts only God's grace and that will determineall of dis, because i knw kids who r from broken homes still make it all da way and i also knw kids who have everythin they want from both parents and can make it in the soceity and they are fcuking up big time, if the mother is a good mother she will teach her daughter in a good way, buh also when the girl grows up she will want to knw her dad and thats will be da mothers duty to let it happen, or the girl will look for her own way to look for her dad


HOLLA just addin ma 2cent

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Posted: at 13-06-2011 05:18 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hmmmmn...............

Posted: at 13-06-2011 06:32 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

just strollin oooooooooooooo  ill join u later

Posted: at 13-06-2011 09:22 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie

@Poster: what did u do to her dat made her to leave u?

Posted: at 13-06-2011 09:53 AM (12 years ago) | Hero

No matter hw far they ran away, 1 day will request to see her daddy even though they have show her anoda daddy truth will always come alive, when she grow, she will surely locate u.

Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

SECONDED

I really pray you get to connect with daughter soon.

Posted: at 13-06-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

mother and father have their roles to play in every family. so  u can imagine what life will  be like if a child or children in a family are lacking this roles maybe from the mother or the father. 4example most men hardly dictate when their children are hungry or sick, while some do not know the extact dress that goes with each occasion. they can put their children on a stay home dress for them to go to church with it. in my own case my husband took my children to school oneday without having the youngest of them his shoes on and it was very cold day because it´s snowed and I left home before them.so u can imagine what life will be like for my children if I am not home for them. as well there are some parts that mothers cannot reach 4example in my family I hardly bring out time to play my kids  but their father does. once he is back from work we eat then  my home become noisy. playing and laughing and finally he will  put them to bed. so u can imagine what will happen if their father is not there to do the usual roles.I must say a child in a broken home is passing through physical,mental and emotional torture.

Posted: at 13-06-2011 11:47 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie