What is the future of a child in a broken home? (Page 4)

Date: 12-06-2011 12:22 pm (9 years ago) | Author: FESTUS EMEKA
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- moniconyez at 15-06-2011 08:27 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: angeldest on 14-06-2011 08:43 PM
ok wetin hapen wey d woman run comot with ur kids, maybe you are wiccckkkkkkkkkkkked

As a lady you supposed to be  POLITE when uttering some words OK........?
Posted: at 15-06-2011 08:27 AM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- skyleo at 15-06-2011 11:08 AM (9 years ago)
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Is not just a good experience for the children involved. But, I pray God should help those in this shoes at present.
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- ourhearts at 15-06-2011 12:08 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: angeldest on 14-06-2011 08:43 PM
ok wetin hapen wey d woman run comot with ur kids, maybe you are wiccckkkkkkkkkkkked

She was very rude like you.
Posted: at 15-06-2011 12:08 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ezecyyyy at 15-06-2011 01:14 PM (9 years ago)
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God knows the best......Keep faith in Him(God)
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- Swtezvikky at 16-06-2011 06:50 AM (9 years ago)
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poster,u said u too grow up wit a single parent.survey has it dat children frm raised by only one parent may end-up as single parent.
Posted: at 16-06-2011 06:50 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nathanchuks at 16-06-2011 10:19 AM (9 years ago)
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the hope of such children is on the balance although it is God that cares for them but...............................
Posted: at 16-06-2011 10:19 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- nathanchuks at 16-06-2011 10:23 AM (9 years ago)
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it is not easy to come from such homes bcos most time as a child u may grow up deformed in his inner person
Posted: at 16-06-2011 10:23 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- ourhearts at 16-06-2011 06:58 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Swtezvikky on 16-06-2011 06:50 AM
poster,u said u too grow up wit a single parent.survey has it dat children frm raised by only one parent may end-up as single parent.

But the child is not with me. My ex is also from a broken home. Don't you think it is a curse?
Posted: at 16-06-2011 06:58 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eoadex2003 at 16-06-2011 10:07 PM (9 years ago)
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Blood is thicker than water
Posted: at 16-06-2011 10:07 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- shade001 at 17-06-2011 11:28 AM (9 years ago)
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My people let say reality, i also came from that type of parent also, but its not easy at  all. That children will suffer before he can become a good person in this life, most  children of this type of the family always have problem but if the child know what is doing,  praying, hardworking. the child will succeeded in life.
Posted: at 17-06-2011 11:28 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 01:35 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: GOLDENMEDAH on 13-06-2011 10:26 AM
No matter hw far they ran away, 1 day will request to see her daddy even though they have show her anoda daddy truth will always come alive, when she grow, she will surely locate u.

Truth must always rise again but there is no amount of truth that can make up the damage done in a child with this sad experience. It is not everything-in-human being that good-training can take good care of. This may be hard to understand bcos children's freedom is yet to be understood in issue like this. More so for the confusion is the fact that we always rush to compare ourselves with ourselves ignoring some unique values that are distributed among us that are being quenched always.  Cool
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 02:03 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: goddy1 on 13-06-2011 03:07 PM

There is no how a child will be happy without his or her seeing or being with both parent....coming from a broken home is just a bad experience of which i don`t pray it for any 1.....one thing that people refused to understand is that such a child would be a total stranger in both parent houses, the attention will be totally different from when the both parent are living together in the same roof and taken care of the child or children together.
The kind of Psychological trauma that such a child or parent will be into can`t be measurable but it's just a pain in someone`s heart. The theory and practice of it is that some parent can`t be able to take good care of their child or of the child they have not to talk of that the child parent are living separately. The trauma would be there for live.


This is a real and courageous observer who did not forget the experience, saying it with courage, unlike many who would not like to recite it for any reason just for the fact that they have been hardly rescued from the trauma. Only the memory makes some victim feel mad and destabilized not to talk of extracting ideas that can reduce the rate of this war on helpless children from their personal experience. THANKS FOR UR COURAGE   Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 18-06-2011 02:03 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 03:03 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ngeri1 on 15-06-2011 05:10 AM
It's all subjective. Two parents that are together but fight all the time and expose their children to negativity are not as healthy as a setup where two parents who are no longer together but continue to provide for their children, work together to ensure that they are not affected by whatever it is that they are going through and are sure to give their child all that it needs to guarantee a positive upbringing....


Imagery is not everything. Just because two parents are not in the same home does not make the home "broken". There are lots of homes that are unstable and unhappy with both parents residing in them with their children.

    Just a question pls. are you commenting on 'broken-up' family or 'united-from-distance'. ''Two cannot work together exept they agree, and they are not separated when they still plan together with one mind and the children know why''.
    Catering for children as a parental obligation is quite different from the natural or psychological effect which nobody can quantify it's damage as it relate to individual child victim......that somebody did not die did not mean that he later survived som-times.
   I can rightly observe that some people doesn't value children's happiness and confidence more than what they spend on catering for their children. This is another knowkedge that are yet to be known. I would rather advice to think on the real  effect of divorce on this children at fragile-emotion-age than comparing them with others or with how much u spend on them. Cool Cool Cool

Quote from: ourhearts on 12-06-2011 12:22 PM
Sometimes i wonder what the future holds for a child whose parents are not together. My case is typical of this phenomena. My daughter was one year and 2 months old when her mother ran away with her. All efforts to locate them proved abortive. Everyday, the question that remained in my mind is.. how is she doing without me.



Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:03 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 03:17 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: Swtezvikky on 16-06-2011 06:50 AM
poster,u said u too grow up wit a single parent.survey has it dat children frm raised by only one parent may end-up as single parent.


@poster, i hope u are matured enough to ignore this type of conclusion from people who don't like to make a comment. they are lucky without the sad experience.

@swtezvikky, i don't think you are joking on serious this discussion bcos it concerns everybody. pray u don't be a victim anyday as nobody can wish anybody evil of this sort. Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:17 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Innoutt at 18-06-2011 03:24 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ourhearts on 16-06-2011 06:58 PM
Quote from: Swtezvikky on 16-06-2011 06:50 AM
poster,u said u too grow up wit a single parent.survey has it dat children frm raised by only one parent may end-up as single parent.

But the child is not with me. My ex is also from a broken home. Don't you think it is a curse?

you are not blessing urself when u are sharing those idea of curse bcos of misfortune that is meant to destabilize and u are a victim. nothing is impossible with God anyways
Posted: at 18-06-2011 03:24 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ourhearts at 19-06-2011 01:58 PM (9 years ago)
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Today is father's day and my daughter is not around to wish me Happy father's day. I miss her so much. Her kisses, our horse ride, sharing a cup of tea, going to the saloon with her and many fun games. Baby, please cry harder for your mum to return you home to daddy. I miss you.
Posted: at 19-06-2011 01:58 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ourhearts at 19-06-2011 02:12 PM (9 years ago)
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What would you do when Three Pastors from different churches and different countries advise you to divorce your wife?
Posted: at 19-06-2011 02:12 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- UDUE at 19-06-2011 10:14 PM (9 years ago)
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MY BRO I FEEL U. PLS DONT LET IT BRING U DOWN. PRAY AND TRY AND GET IN CONTACT WITH ANYBODY THAT MIGHT KNOW UR WIFE, APPEAL TO THEIR GOOD HEARTS.
Posted: at 19-06-2011 10:14 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Innoutt at 21-06-2011 04:01 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ourhearts on 19-06-2011 02:12 PM
What would you do when Three Pastors from different churches and different countries advise you to divorce your wife?

this is frustrating but don't give it chance again in your life cos you said you'v been a victim of the same. prayer can change your fear and rest your mind.
 some pastors are stone and they work, live and GIVE advice like stone, all bcos Jesus said that if men are not ready 4 him he will use stone and he did FOR THE SAKE OF THE GOSPEL. but you have to be wiser than some pastors who don't have time for their call.  Bakare said he was ordained to rule Nigeria and more are worse than him, so TAKE HEART. God will save your daughter.
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- ourhearts at 26-06-2011 01:32 PM (9 years ago)
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thanks people for your prayers.
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