is it right to invite you x-bf to your wedding? (Page 6)

 

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Posted: at 28-06-2011 03:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

U nid to grow up.....its not al relationships lead to wedding.... Attend & show her that u can still be her friend..... No biggie

Posted: at 28-06-2011 04:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

DHash...............virgin!

Posted: at 28-06-2011 04:29 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

what sense does it make 2 invite ur ex- 2 ur wedding ?by all standards it does not make sense,regardless of wether u guys
parted amicably or not. the word ex- means former, so what particularly would anyone be achieving in asking her ex- 2
attend her weddind ? For the ladies pls take me seriously 'n' don't let anyone decieve u into such unmeaningful act.
I have personally withnessed exactly 4 (four) weddings that ended up becoming epileptic afterwards becos of the fact that
those weddings were attended by exes 'n' so on.Another thing is that, most times we either over rate or under rate our partners,
some ladies would say`oh no my guy no go worry,na correct guy`...who told u ladies that any guy would not worry after finding
out in one way or the other that his brides EX attended his wedding ?
 Even if u think ur guy is not the jealous type,u should also beware that the human mind is funny.
Do u ladies ever think of the fact that the mere imagination of how ur EX may have been glaring at u
with memories of jolly times gone by 'n' how u may have possibly been glaring back at him might
quietly keep ur man unhappy for all it may take.Sometimes, though u invited him, u may not have
 even noticed ur exe's presence,but for the fact that ur hubby learns that he was there,an unnecessary
feud could be introduced into ur early marriage.U neva can tell which of ur very jealous girl/lady friends
who might want to ensure by all standards possible that ur hubby knows about it,some times with lies 'n'
exaggerations to drive home her intents.
 ur ex- would not make up that expected number 4 ur wedding as there is no crowd rating that makes one wedding beta than the other.
so lets let the sleeping dog lie,get wedded 'n' enjoy it,don't go asking 4 unnecessary wahala..beware ur EX no go fit change ur souvenir or turn ur
MC upside -down,ur occasion would start 'n' end as funfully as xpected without ur EX.
  NA PERSON WEY GET WOUND NA IM DEY KNOW SAY HOUSEFLY GET VERY SHARP TEETH.I HAVE SPOKEN.

Posted: at 28-06-2011 05:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

@ poster, what exactly did u hav in ur mind based on dis ur post?

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Posted: at 28-06-2011 07:51 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

well spoken. some ladies dont know why men cheat sometimes. sometimes is thing that happen during dating, things the lady did why she is dating her hubby, the man may end up marrying you, but...... i have seen a man that catch the girlfriend  cheating, the man still marry the lady, but after the wedding, the man flirty like tomorrow no dey.
for that singular act of inviting her x to the wedding, if the hubby fines out, the hubby could hook up with his own x, u never can tell what will happen. any man (x) that have visited your 'down stream sector' or ur 'lower dichotomy'  should remain in the past, has no business being friend, or coming to your wedding. so am out, not going

Posted: at 29-06-2011 09:27 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

well, i think all of you have spoken well  but my adverse to such a person is if he still love her he can attend the programe but if you cant accept the shame you better stay at home so that you wouldn't go and disgrace your self. that if she herself invited you

Posted: at 29-06-2011 12:04 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

the wish of ma x gul must be done considering if am in town on the wedding day
  yeah  i know shakin the guys hand n wishing them good luck may bring to ma memory some adveture wit his wife but
is better i wish her best luck than for her to stay without husband

Posted: at 29-06-2011 01:35 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u dey vex??, ok make i ask u.......... how many Ex u don get?? 76, 92, 105................... e b lik say u dey vex for all of dem

Posted: at 29-06-2011 06:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

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Posted: at 29-06-2011 06:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero