He lives in US, Los Angeles to be precise. we've been communicating 4 over a year now though we havent seen each other and he's talking about marriage. i didnt really put my heart into it coz of d stories i hv heard about abroad guys but i played along coz i felt he may be different, and he was beginning to tk "us" serious and has even suggested that i come 4 vacation (ofcourse he wud sponsor it).He's really a nice person. yesterday, i decided to ask him if he's been married and has a kid(s) (i dont know y it never occured to me to ask him all these while till now). initially, he kept dilly-dallying, didnt give me a straight answer, kept saying that he had an ill-fated r/s... i probed further, he then accepted that he's been married (divorced)and has a son. i now asked him y didnt he tell me from the start, he said he planned to tell me one-on-one when he comes back (this December). he has been apologizing ever since and still wants "us" to continue.
i felt bad and feel so deceived, i dont know if i can be able to trust him again. if he cud withold such vital info abt himself 4rm me, i wonder wat mor he may b hiding.
What do u tink peeps???
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:07 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 6-07-2011 05:11 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Hmmmmmmm.. Details like that need to be told right from day one.. Dats why i love mysef..If i tell u and u dont wanna continue wit me cos of my story..SO-BE-IT
All These Abroad guys Sef..them think say dem fit use person head on internet anyhow?
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:11 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
sophiebaby at 6-07-2011 05:12 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 6-07-2011 05:07 PM
He lives in US, Los Angeles to be precise. we've been communicating 4 over a year now though we havent seen each other and he's talking about marriage. i didnt really put my heart into it coz of d stories i hv heard about abroad guys but i played along coz i felt he may be different, and he was beginning to tk "us" serious and has even suggested that i come 4 vacation (ofcourse he wud sponsor it).He's really a nice person. yesterday, i decided to ask him if he's been married and has a kid(s) (i dont know y it never occured to me to ask him all these while till now). initially, he kept dilly-dallying, didnt give me a straight answer, kept saying that he had an ill-fated r/s... i probed further, he then accepted that he's been married (divorced)and has a son. i now asked him y didnt he tell me from the start, he said he planned to tell me one-on-one when he comes back (this December). he has been apologizing ever since and still wants "us" to continue.
i felt bad and feel so deceived, i dont know if i can be able to trust him again. if he cud withold such vital info abt himself 4rm me, i wonder wat mor he may b hiding.
What do u tink peeps???
Maybe he might even be An Old man in his 70's sef.. cos e nor dey hard dem..
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
jukkiebukwes at 6-07-2011 05:15 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: sophiebaby on 6-07-2011 05:11 PM
Hmmmmmmm.. Details like that need to be told right from day one.. Dats why i love mysef..If i tell u and u dont wanna continue wit me cos of my story..SO-BE-IT
All These Abroad guys Sef..them think say dem fit use person head on internet anyhow?
exactly dear...and i was so skeptical about d whole tin coz am not gullible
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:15 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
sophiebaby at 6-07-2011 05:20 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 6-07-2011 05:15 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 6-07-2011 05:11 PM
Hmmmmmmm.. Details like that need to be told right from day one.. Dats why i love mysef..If i tell u and u dont wanna continue wit me cos of my story..SO-BE-IT
All These Abroad guys Sef..them think say dem fit use person head on internet anyhow?
exactly dear...and i was so skeptical about d whole tin coz am not gullible
dem dey use fake pic sef..mtcheeewwww.. na so dem go dey want person to view denm in CAM..Mtcheeewww.. who no go no go no
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
jukkiebukwes at 6-07-2011 05:25 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: 50scent on 6-07-2011 05:19 PM
He fcuked up he shld have told u a day before WEDDING So u wont have a choice like my friend once did but thank God you wont agree to him
now i know my haterz...so ur luv don turn to hate
Quote from: sophiebaby on 6-07-2011 05:20 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 6-07-2011 05:15 PM
Quote from: sophiebaby on 6-07-2011 05:11 PM
Hmmmmmmm.. Details like that need to be told right from day one.. Dats why i love mysef..If i tell u and u dont wanna continue wit me cos of my story..SO-BE-IT
All These Abroad guys Sef..them think say dem fit use person head on internet anyhow?
exactly dear...and i was so skeptical about d whole tin coz am not gullible
dem dey use fake pic sef..mtcheeewwww.. na so dem go dey want person to view denm in CAM..Mtcheeewww.. who no go no go no
e be like say u no every abt dis guys
Quote from: mallorca on 6-07-2011 05:21 PM
i just love naijapls big time!!!!
ok, how u?
Quote from: wallas on 6-07-2011 05:22 PM
Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 6-07-2011 05:16 PM
Quote from: wallas on 6-07-2011 05:13 PM
e b like say i knw d guy sef
were u know am from??
d guy been dey come d front of my yard to buy recharge card wey him dey use call u
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:25 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
There are things one like to discuss face to face and not on telephone. perhap he wanted to meet u and discuss it. he can never deny his daughter or hide her form you. it has nothing to do with abroad people. all the best.
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:26 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 6-07-2011 05:29 PM (12 years ago) (f)
hmmmmmmmm...........Really there is nothing to be ashamed of in such a case.........i think he should have told you all these while......people dat dont talk much, me I dey....... , make i stop for here b4 I shoot bird him mama fly
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 6-07-2011 05:29 PM (12 years ago) | Hero