Abroad guys and dissappionments! (Page 4)

There are things one like to discuss face to face and not on telephone. perhap
he wanted to meet u and discuss it. he can never deny his daughter or hide her form you.
it has nothing to do with abroad people. all the best.

U think so? 
whats the diff in telling on phone,chatting, and face to face..no diff..
cos while he did the telling abt himself..he shld've included it too

weda she takes it anyhow..the right thing has to be done at the right tym..
Whats the need telling her abt urself in the first place on fone or thru thee net..
Why didnt he wait till they see face to face..Mtcheewwwwwwwwwww..make una judge well ooooooooooo

Let me give you this clue, Most Men out there are not ready to discuss much about their past relationship with you if they find you interesting, so many of them has scars in their relationship and so many ups and downs, disappointments as so on, Most Men are not bringing it forward when they approach new person, but they want to be sure and also keep what ever they have behind until you ask them, don't expect someone that is looking for a right partner in you to start the chasing with... Hey girl, you know i had past relationship with a kid and so on blablabla, without knowing exactly if both of you are compatible, besides is it a crime to have a kid with someone before marrying the one you can call your own ??

Is a top priority for the woman to ask questions at early stage, get to know the man approaching her well, not only been interested about the guy's look, his base, his wallet and so on.

Poster....part of the blame is urs...sm guys dnt tell u everyth abt them until u ask them. U shud ve asked him from the inception of ur ''lovey dovey,, on internet n phone, i guex u were carried away...Well dat's 4 dat.

My advice to u is...sit urself down n think abt the things u felt u vent asked him i.e the important things u need to kw abt him...if possible mk a long list of questions...oh yes!...after that proceed to asking those questions...when u ve suceeded in getting answers to those questions...sit urself down again n think abt wat u rlly want...ask urself if u can cope with all the dramas around him...am sure after this U will cm to a nice conclusion whether or nt u will continue with him.

 

As u fine reach so u dey behave like this??..

@Poster.nah,dont blame him.I'm sorry to say this but it's your fault.I mean you spent a year with him,you are meant to know each and everything about him by asking questions.and that particular question is suppose to be your "first question " for him.Anyways,its all the same .telling you now and telling you from the start,all you have to do is make a decision.goodluck.

i accept d blame 4 not askin initially, but i was d one dat still asked...and even when i did ask, he played hide and sick b4 he finally accepted