Why is true love difficult to find? (Page 3)

Date: 28-01-2008 1:03 pm (16 years ago) | Author: 0 young
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- at 8-02-2008 02:22 AM (16 years ago)
i don't know the answer to that one. You ever see people who don't know how to treat people find love? That boggles my mind. one of many things could be happening 1) Is there such a thing as "true" love?  If we wanted to, can we love anybody? Maybe we are expecting too much 2) Maybe we've become too selfish. We don't know how to think of anyone else but ourselves..not us..but others. 3)...i dunno.

Shouldn't good people meet good people and find love?...maybe there aren't enough good people.
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- dejifortune at 8-02-2008 03:19 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: hisjoi on  8-02-2008 02:22 AM
i don't know the answer to that one. You ever see people who don't know how to treat people find love? That boggles my mind. one of many things could be happening 1) Is there such a thing as "true" love?  If we wanted to, can we love anybody? Maybe we are expecting too much 2) Maybe we've become too selfish. We don't know how to think of anyone else but ourselves..not us..but others. 3)...i dunno.

Shouldn't good people meet good people and find love?...maybe there aren't enough good people.

Yes there is true love my dear but the problem is just that we expected too much and want to give lit or nothing and Good people still exist but just difficult to find, all u need is to just belive cos love comes to those people who belive in it.

@ASA.........yeah u can join, u are part of my girls now and u have every right to be part of chocolate and Honey fun but remember u have to come with your id and that is your birthday suit cos u wont be allow inside unless u are puttin on your birthday suit.

Posted: at 8-02-2008 03:19 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Sexyasakenke at 8-02-2008 08:46 AM (16 years ago)
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@ deji....am legal to drink...and anything in between Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
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- orilanda at 8-02-2008 10:38 AM (16 years ago)
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Hey dguy need to see this......... Grin Grin

Posted: at 8-02-2008 10:38 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Vixenx at 8-02-2008 02:26 PM (16 years ago)
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lets not speak too loud or else he'll hear Cool Cool
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- Thonia at 8-02-2008 07:35 PM (16 years ago)
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love is difficult to find when we keep looking in the wrong places.
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- Engineer at 8-02-2008 09:21 PM (16 years ago)
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did you mean difficult ??

Nope it aint .. tis only you're searching for the right thing @ the wrong time ...
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- Vixenx at 8-02-2008 10:41 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Engineer on  8-02-2008 09:21 PM
did you mean difficult ??

Nope it aint .. tis only you're searching for the right thing @ the wrong time ...

so when is the right time?... Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Posted: at 8-02-2008 10:41 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Engineer at 8-02-2008 10:42 PM (16 years ago)
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when it doesnt become difficult to find
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- Vixenx at 8-02-2008 10:42 PM (16 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 03:34 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Thonia on  8-02-2008 07:35 PM
love is difficult to find when we keep looking in the wrong places.

yeah u are right but what make it difficult is getting to the right place.........so how do we know the right place?

@ASA.......Yeah legal to drink and suck

Posted: at 9-02-2008 03:34 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Thonia at 9-02-2008 03:45 AM (16 years ago)
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We set our standards to high, that we all tend to sometimes ignore certain things.
like a situation of the wrong one loving you right.
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 03:48 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Thonia on  9-02-2008 03:45 AM
We set our standards to high, that we all tend to sometimes ignore certain things.
like a situation of the wrong one loving you right.

Wrong one loving you right, yeah u are right but if she is lovin you right, dont you think she automatically deserves being right? i mean if she will love you right forever, what else can we ask for or maybe i am not thinking right....u wanna help?

Posted: at 9-02-2008 03:48 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Thonia at 9-02-2008 04:00 AM (16 years ago)
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It doesn't always work that way. speaking from experience, sometimes there just this person you can't seem to love no matter how you try hard. sometimes it just looks like your trying to hard out of pity not the real thing.

i have seen peeps who go after guys who don't care shit about them while there have guys back, who would do anything for them.
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 04:13 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Thonia on  9-02-2008 04:00 AM
It doesn't always work that way. speaking from experience, sometimes there just this person you can't seem to love no matter how you try hard. sometimes it just looks like your trying to hard out of pity not the real thing.

i have seen peeps who go after guys who don't care shit about them while there have guys back, who would do anything for them.

I sure get what u mean 100% but all the same, i belive we can really make a relationship work if we want to, although they still have to be some feelings in the first place

Posted: at 9-02-2008 04:13 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Thonia at 9-02-2008 04:20 AM (16 years ago)
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exactly. the attraction must be in place. when there's no attraction or even feelings, how do you start considering making it work?
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 04:24 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Thonia on  9-02-2008 04:20 AM
exactly. the attraction must be in place. when there's no attraction or even feelings, how do you start considering making it work?

I belive we shouldnt go into it in the first place.

Posted: at 9-02-2008 04:24 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Thonia at 9-02-2008 04:37 AM (16 years ago)
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exactly what i mean by looking for love in the wrong place, you don't start anything with the person, because you don't acknowledge the person or dim him/her fit for yourself.

 the person you think is wrong for you might be the one loving you the right way, and waiting for you to reciprocate back.  while the person who you think is right for you might careless if you exists. it works that way sometimes.
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- dejifortune at 9-02-2008 04:42 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Thonia on  9-02-2008 04:37 AM
exactly what i mean by looking for love in the wrong place, you don't start anything with the person, because you don't acknowledge the person or dim him/her fit for yourself.

 the person you think is wrong for you might be the one loving you the right way, and waiting for you to reciprocate back.  while the person who you think is right for you might careless if you exists. it works that way sometimes.

Now i got what u mean, i think all we need is to be calm and belive in love cos love comes to those people who belive in it.

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- freda at 9-02-2008 11:24 PM (16 years ago)
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Many girls kiss so many frogs before they find their prince charming why is it so?

@ fine boy abi u dey search for true love?

well ladies i believe true love donesn't exist. Thats my own perception.
Posted: at 9-02-2008 11:24 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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