Why do most women do everything to please their pastors or spiritual director than their husband. If pastor say come to church by 12 midnight and the husband said No, she must keep pastor's appointment and ignore that of the husband. Are such couples in a healthy love relationship?
Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:13 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
obalola2u at 22-07-2011 10:20 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Why not nothing wrong in it
Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:20 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
preciouslyme at 22-07-2011 10:22 AM (13 years ago) (f)
lol like my pastor used to say dont always assume the grass is greener in the pastors home, the things your husband may do that pisses you off, you might be surprised to see that the pastor does worst.....so follow Gods word over that of your pastor and remember you and your husband must work as 1
Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:22 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Emmandazie at 22-07-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: preciouslyme on 22-07-2011 10:22 AM
lol like my pastor used to say dont always assume the grass is greener in the pastors home, the things your husband may do that pisses you off, you might be surprised to see that the pastor does worst.....so follow Gods word over that of your pastor and remember you and your husband must work as 1
Good talk!
Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wandepope at 22-07-2011 10:56 AM (13 years ago) (m)
All three parties have to share the blame THE MAN...and his wife should have been members of the same church,so that the pstor would have to inform the husband after telling the wife to come to church and hear the mans response.The man should undeerstand that there is something that he is not doin right that is why the woman can disregard his decision. THE WOMAN...she should understand that the man is still the head of the house and not the pastor,so no matterwwhat she should at least show him that respect. THE PASTOR...its more difficult for a man to release his wife for such fellowship when he doesnt have a personal relationship with the pastor,so even if there is a revelation and there is the demand to go to church by 12 midnight,the pastor should have visited or at least call the man on phone to inform him of the innovation.
GENERALLY A CHRISTIAN HOME SHOULD BE GOVERNED BY GODs WORD AND NOT MANs IDEA.REMEMBER THAT THE FOOLISHNESS OF GOD IS WISER THAN THE WISDOM OF MEN...1 CORINTHIANS 1:25
Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:56 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
igbonnanna at 22-07-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Emmandazie on 22-07-2011 10:51 AM
Quote from: preciouslyme on 22-07-2011 10:22 AM
lol like my pastor used to say dont always assume the grass is greener in the pastors home, the things your husband may do that pisses you off, you might be surprised to see that the pastor does worst.....so follow Gods word over that of your pastor and remember you and your husband must work as 1
Good talk!
SECONDED! but unfortunately some women are blind with their faith.
Posted: at 22-07-2011 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
preciouslyme at 22-07-2011 11:02 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: igbonnanna on 22-07-2011 10:58 AM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 22-07-2011 10:51 AM
Quote from: preciouslyme on 22-07-2011 10:22 AM
lol like my pastor used to say dont always assume the grass is greener in the pastors home, the things your husband may do that pisses you off, you might be surprised to see that the pastor does worst.....so follow Gods word over that of your pastor and remember you and your husband must work as 1
Good talk!
SECONDED! but unfortunately some women are blind with their faith.
Posted: at 22-07-2011 11:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Akzee247 at 22-07-2011 11:09 AM (13 years ago) (m)
A woman who prioritized church activities to that of her home, leaving the children and her husband in the hands of house- maids? could that b pleasing to God? attending church activities is not a bad thing at all, the woman should know that the 1st assignment God gave her is to attend to her home. Giving the maids an opportunity to take over her home. later she will cry "God why me" Ekaete is looking for such lousy woman to penetrate their homes
Posted: at 22-07-2011 11:09 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Akzee247 at 22-07-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) (m)
i can c u are already in the spirit. if you are serious i think i hv 6 plots of Land in Agbani Rd, Enugu, u can start something there. i dnt intend to develop it in d nxt 7 yrs
Posted: at 22-07-2011 11:20 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
interpo77 at 22-07-2011 12:40 PM (13 years ago) (m)
the priority of a woman -wife is to take care of her home,care for her kids and husband,.that is principal and how it was tot in the bible,then after that can attend to any other activity call it church or social,.but when reverse is the case, then problem may rise and seperation and divorce amongst do come up, yes she serve n worship her creator, obey pastors order but considering her hubbys first
Posted: at 22-07-2011 12:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
naturalqueen at 22-07-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago) (f)
You guys comments are just funny.... The man is the head of the home. Infact he is the spiritual head and father of the home. If he decides No, in this situation, God will honour him. God has even told us, Give respect to whom it is due to. Even if the man is not being man enough in the house, the woman should still respect his decisions. If u don't like it, then leave the marriage. How can u be married to a guy, yet u ignore and belittle him. The woman in her own part has blown her cover in the sight of God. But on the other hand, if the woman is the everything in the home. That is the man is a dullard. If not for her prayers, the home would have been destabilized by the forces of darkness, then she should advise the pastor to seek permission from her husband first. It even shows the authenticity of that prayer. For her to ignore her husband like that and run away...it shows that there is something fishy she is not disclosing.
Posted: at 22-07-2011 12:46 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
chicanorose at 22-07-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) (f)
not that u will not attend to ur pastor, but lets all do the right things at the right time. And u have to make sure ur husband approves before going to see ur pastor. Remember the bible says “wives be submissive to ur husband“.
I bet u, when u wan chop cake, na then u go knw say oven dey.
Posted: at 22-07-2011 12:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
jukkiebukwes at 22-07-2011 01:00 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: igbonnanna on 22-07-2011 10:58 AM
Quote from: Emmandazie on 22-07-2011 10:51 AM
Quote from: preciouslyme on 22-07-2011 10:22 AM
lol like my pastor used to say dont always assume the grass is greener in the pastors home, the things your husband may do that pisses you off, you might be surprised to see that the pastor does worst.....so follow Gods word over that of your pastor and remember you and your husband must work as 1
Good talk!
SECONDED! but unfortunately some women are blind with their faith.
yea, dats d problem. som ar so deceived dat dey mk the church activities d most impt tin b4 every oda issue. they follow watever their pastor says blindly... My pastor wud always say this, watch it when ur church/pastor is comin inbtwn u and ur family and alwz ask God 4 discerning spirit to able to know when u ar being deceived coz d house of God is full of deciet!
Posted: at 22-07-2011 01:00 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac