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Date: 19-12-2008 3:39 pm (16 years ago) | Author: lawal peju
- at 19-12-2008 03:39 PM (16 years ago)
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why is it that we hardly like those that admire us but rather pine away for persons that cant be bothered with us. i have a boyfriend that i dont really love but i am with him becos i dont want to be lonely. i tot i wld grow feeling for him but 6months going, the feelings are still not coming. now it has degenerated to me being irritated anytime he comes around but still yet i dont want to be alone. i hope i am not wierd... or what do  u think

Posted: at 19-12-2008 03:39 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- sa-fire at 19-12-2008 05:44 PM (16 years ago)
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lolz..
girl it happens...
hmm... it does happen...
did isay it hapens?

sure does...
donno either

Posted: at 19-12-2008 05:44 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herdeysohjy at 19-12-2008 05:48 PM (16 years ago)
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uhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...............
no comment
Posted: at 19-12-2008 05:48 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 19-12-2008 05:51 PM (16 years ago)
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l guess dat's how Life is

Ppl always prefer when Others are Doing the Loving and Not the Other way Round, when it Comes to Matters of the Heart.

My Advice is, End it, so dat u can have the Chance to Let Someone else in

Posted: at 19-12-2008 05:51 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pires07 at 19-12-2008 05:54 PM (16 years ago)
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hmm

Posted: at 19-12-2008 05:54 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 19-12-2008 05:57 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: putey on 19-12-2008 03:39 PM
why is it that we hardly like those that admire us but rather pine away for persons that cant be bothered with us. i have a boyfriend that i dont really love but i am with him becos i dont want to be lonely. i tot i wld grow feeling for him but 6months going, the feelings are still not coming. now it has degenerated to me being irritated anytime he comes around but still yet i dont want to be alone. i hope i am not wierd... or what do  u think
u hv no business being wit somebody u don't like/love.
unless u don't hv self confidence in yasef.
u r scared no other guy will want u..therefore u r afraid of moving on for fear of being alone.
u most conquer dat fear and move on.
Posted: at 19-12-2008 05:57 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 19-12-2008 06:07 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on 19-12-2008 05:57 PM
Quote from: putey on 19-12-2008 03:39 PM
why is it that we hardly like those that admire us but rather pine away for persons that cant be bothered with us. i have a boyfriend that i dont really love but i am with him becos i dont want to be lonely. i tot i wld grow feeling for him but 6months going, the feelings are still not coming. now it has degenerated to me being irritated anytime he comes around but still yet i dont want to be alone. i hope i am not wierd... or what do  u think
u hv no business being wit somebody u don't like/love.
unless u don't hv self confidence in yasef.
u r scared no other guy will want u..therefore u r afraid of moving on for fear of being alone.
u most conquer dat fear and move on.


Thats Sure.. U have to move on, tell him you don't love him so dat
he will stop wasting his time on you thinking
that you cares and feels the same way he does feel for
you. Like my guy mazi said; you got to conquer the fear
of loneliness and move on i assure you. you will find some
body knocking on ya door.

Posted: at 19-12-2008 06:07 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- herdeysohjy at 19-12-2008 08:56 PM (16 years ago)
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Posted: at 19-12-2008 08:56 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- peacetee at 19-12-2008 09:54 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: herdeysohjy on 19-12-2008 08:56 PM
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Hope u didnt have to crack ur brain 2 come up wif dat  Tongue original!!

Posted: at 19-12-2008 09:54 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Toks-E at 20-12-2008 01:32 AM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: putey on 19-12-2008 03:39 PM
why is it that we hardly like those that admire us but rather pine away for persons that cant be bothered with us. i have a boyfriend that i dont really love but i am with him becos i dont want to be lonely. i tot i wld grow feeling for him but 6months going, the feelings are still not coming. now it has degenerated to me being irritated anytime he comes around but still yet i dont want to be alone. i hope i am not wierd... or what do  u think

whistling...whistling.....whistling..........thinking............

such is the life of people who don't think b4 they do, especially when it comes to matters of the heart

Posted: at 20-12-2008 01:32 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- princemech at 20-12-2008 03:26 AM (16 years ago)
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huh
Posted: at 20-12-2008 03:26 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 20-12-2008 01:19 PM (16 years ago)
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Wetin dey always dey block ur throat wey dey make u no dey fit talk?

Posted: at 20-12-2008 01:19 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 20-12-2008 02:50 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: peacetee on 19-12-2008 09:54 PM
Quote from: herdeysohjy on 19-12-2008 08:56 PM
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Hope u didnt have to crack ur brain 2 come up wif dat  Tongue original!!

 Grin Grin

Posted: at 20-12-2008 02:50 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- goingwithyou at 20-12-2008 03:49 PM (16 years ago)
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Hmm
Dis is not any body to make decision for u but I guess will can help u in one way or d other but put dis at d back of ur mind follow ur heart. But don’t 4get dis either is better now dat never just dat u can not think of wht he have for u in mind in gud I mean like asking u for marriage.And u can nt marry some one u did not love.
Please dear pal if u know dat u are nt in love with dis guy any more just tell him,Nt just opening ur mouth and tell him just dat is painful saying such thing but u have to so dat u both can b a gud friends not a lover any more…U have to do dis on time …Please Never play with any body time and emotion.. End it on time …
Posted: at 20-12-2008 03:49 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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