Does she really loves me? Please advise me on what to do

Date: 25-07-2011 10:00 am (12 years ago) | Author: Adeolu Ogunkoya
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- at 25-07-2011 10:00 AM (12 years ago)
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I dont even know where to start, neither do I know how old our relationship. Ever since she has not allowed me to have sex with her; I have asked her in the past if she is a virgin, but she said nothing. All what she asked of me i do provided for her, meaning she doesnt lack anything. I did not hate her because of this cos it does not bother me, but last month I consult my friends and all other big brothers around me.

Infact, what i heard from them is very annoying cos i was told she has been using me as a money making machine. That I should just abandoned her and get another babe who is ready to offer me everything.

I dont want to abandon her, yet she refuse to say anything about herself, if she is a virgin or not; everything just seems confusing. I do know she is stubborn.

What do I do? Please

Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:00 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2011 10:15 AM (12 years ago)
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Frm ur story i guess ur friends were right, and she is using u as ATM.

But why dnt u just tell her, if she i not ready to be open in the r/s, u will go.
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:15 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 2shots at 25-07-2011 10:18 AM (12 years ago)
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she just does not say anything any time i mention those words to her
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:18 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- truenaija2 at 25-07-2011 10:22 AM (12 years ago)
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must u have sex with her , if thats what u want sex then free her  n go for sex
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:22 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justceetah at 25-07-2011 10:24 AM (12 years ago)
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first of all,how well do ur frnds n big brothers knw her? Again does she demand from u or you give at free will? Now,it myt be true she's a virgin cos most virgin girl are shy when this issue is raised

Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:24 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justceetah at 25-07-2011 10:31 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 25-07-2011 10:22 AM
must u have sex with her , if thats what u want sex then free her  n go for sex
come! truenaija u 2 dey harsh for matters. Shuoooo!!! Tell the guy wetin e go do

Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:31 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 2shots at 25-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago)
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thanks bro
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:32 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Emmandazie at 25-07-2011 10:43 AM (12 years ago)
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Provock her with another babe and see her reaction.
If she loves you and sees the possibility of loosing you, she will give in but if it means nothing to her, then my brother give up.
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:43 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 25-07-2011 10:43 AM
Provock her with another babe and see her reaction.
If she loves you and sees the possibility of loosing you, she will give in but if it means nothing to her, then my brother give up.

Its not kool to play games...wud u like it if ur babe do dis?
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:55 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 2shots on 25-07-2011 10:18 AM
she just does not say anything any time i mention those words to her

Try to make her feel comfortable next time whn u wanna talk abt dis.
If she is rily a virgin, its normal for her to be shy.
Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:56 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- justceetah at 25-07-2011 10:58 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Emmandazie on 25-07-2011 10:43 AM
Provock her with another babe and see her reaction.
If she loves you and sees the possibility of loosing you, she will give in but if it means nothing to her, then my brother give up.
does bringn in anoda girl resolves d issue or complicates it more

Posted: at 25-07-2011 10:58 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- truenaija2 at 25-07-2011 11:01 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: justceetah on 25-07-2011 10:31 AM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 25-07-2011 10:22 AM
must u have sex with her , if thats what u want sex then free her  n go for sex
come! truenaija u 2 dey harsh for matters. Shuoooo!!! Tell the guy wetin e go do

i dey tell am undiluted truth cos i no know wetin men want , if u have sex with them u b ahewo if u no do am they go leave , after they finish disvirgin everybody der go come dey look for virgin to marry where der want see the virgin Huh?  me i say the truth as it is, cos i no want decieve anybody
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:01 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justceetah at 25-07-2011 11:04 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 25-07-2011 11:01 AM
Quote from: justceetah on 25-07-2011 10:31 AM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 25-07-2011 10:22 AM
must u have sex with her , if thats what u want sex then free her  n go for sex
come! truenaija u 2 dey harsh for matters. Shuoooo!!! Tell the guy wetin e go do

i dey tell am undiluted truth cos i no know wetin men want , if u have sex with them u b ahewo if u no do am they go leave , after they finish disvirgin everybody der go come dey look for virgin to marry where der want see the virgin Huh?  me i say the truth as it is, cos i no want decieve anybody
hehe,ok i understand

Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:04 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 2shots at 25-07-2011 11:06 AM (12 years ago)
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flyMamacita but even though she is very shy, nothing prevent her to say yes i am
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:06 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- 2shots at 25-07-2011 11:08 AM (12 years ago)
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truenaija2 i understand how u feel but i am not that kind of guy
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:08 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 2shots on 25-07-2011 11:06 AM
flyMamacita but even though she is very shy, nothing prevent her to say yes i am

My dear it is not as easy as u make it sound.
For some gals their virginity is a no-go conversation...try to make her comfortable like i said.
And dont fire all ur questions, but try to talk with her.
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:12 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- truenaija2 at 25-07-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 2shots on 25-07-2011 11:08 AM
truenaija2 i understand how u feel but i am not that kind of guy

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy  u no how many times i don hear dat rhymes i am not that kind of guy ,hisssssssssssssss , nah today e don tey Cheesy, when u get what u want ur eye go come clear , leave rhymes ma broder , me know all d rhymes  Cheesy Cheesy eheheh , u no hat u want go for it , simple  Cheesy
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- chiglamour4u at 25-07-2011 11:21 AM (12 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed Undecided Undecided
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:21 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- justceetah at 25-07-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2011 11:12 AM
Quote from: 2shots on 25-07-2011 11:06 AM
flyMamacita but even though she is very shy, nothing prevent her to say yes i am

My dear it is not as easy as u make it sound.
For some gals their virginity is a no-go conversation...try to make her comfortable like i said.
And dont fire all ur questions, but try to talk with her.

true

Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:24 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 25-07-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: justceetah on 25-07-2011 11:24 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 25-07-2011 11:12 AM
Quote from: 2shots on 25-07-2011 11:06 AM
flyMamacita but even though she is very shy, nothing prevent her to say yes i am

My dear it is not as easy as u make it sound.
For some gals their virginity is a no-go conversation...try to make her comfortable like i said.
And dont fire all ur questions, but try to talk with her.

true

thx  Smiley
Posted: at 25-07-2011 11:28 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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