My fellow guys on naijapals this are certain characteristics and warning signs for a troubled marriage down the road,so note them before putting a ring in her fingers.
She’s Flighty A woman who has trouble committing to a job, a friendship or even a hairstyle might not be the best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If she has tried numerous short-lived career paths or is constantly making new friends and dropping the old ones, these may be indications that she’s not the kind of girl who’s in it for the long haul. Settling down simply may not be in the cards for someone so free-spirited and fickle.
She’s Jealous If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes near you, putting a ring on her finger is not going to make her more secure. Everyone gets jealous sometimes, but if you find yourself constantly having to reassure her that the other women in your life are not a threat to her, this could spell doom for a long-term commitment. A good wife is not possessive or irrational. As long as you’re not giving her any reason to be suspicious, she should be able to keep the green-eyed monster in check.
Her Sex Drive Doesn’t Match Yours Sex is an important part of any relationship, and the way you relate to each other physically has a big influence on whether you stay together after you say “I do.” One sign that she might make a bad wife is if her sex drive differs wildly from yours. Whether it’s much higher or much lower than your own, her libido will have a huge effect on your happiness as a married couple. Sex-drive issues can be the result of medical or psychological problems, so problems might come and go, but either way, it’s best to work this out before you walk down the aisle.
She Doesn't Want Your Friends Around
A girl who disapproves of you hanging out with your friends will become a wife who doesn’t want you to have your own life outside of the marriage. Even if she’s not that fond of your buddies, she shouldn't stand in the way of you spending time with them on your own. Provided your friends aren’t convincing you to rob banks or some other objectionable behavior, she should trust you to make your own decisions about your friends. If she tries to restrict that now, it’ll only get worse after you say your vows.
She Tries To Change You If your girlfriend is constantly nitpicking about your appearance, your behavior, your personality, your career path, your friends, and your habits, she is essentially telling you that you’re not good enough for her. Everyone can make improvements in their lives, and a good partner should help you become a better man, but if she’s forever on your case about changing one thing or another, she’s going to make a bad wife.
You also have to decide whether or not the things she’s asking you to change are reasonable or out of the question. Can you give up your vision of a loft downtown for her desire for a house in the suburbs? What if you’ve always wanted to be a father and she is dead-set against having children? Ask yourself how much you’re willing to give up to please her.
Posted: at 29-07-2011 03:44 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
interpo77 at 29-07-2011 08:57 PM (13 years ago) (m)
what ever,am keeping ma eyes wide open wastching them , 1,2 ,3 4, 5, point re really and truth
Posted: at 29-07-2011 08:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
praisefe at 30-07-2011 03:23 AM (13 years ago) (m)
You are truly correct'' Marry is a life time issue, and when you make mistake in choosing your partner is a life time problem and only God can help you out. Just pray for God to give you the right partner, because your Mother, Father, Pastor or Friend can not. Only God.
Posted: at 30-07-2011 03:23 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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