Is it possible to be in a serious relationship with a married man???

Date: 07-08-2011 1:41 am (12 years ago) | Author: ......
- at 7-08-2011 01:41 AM (12 years ago)
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Ok I need to get some input on a situation. Do you all think one can be in a serious relationship with a man that is technically married. According to the man he only married the woman to obtain papers, however they do reside with each. The man spends most nights with you and is available to you when ever desired, however the reality is he is married and he technically stays with the woman?Huh?Huh?? He has made plans to marry you after he obtains his documents... You have met some of his friends and he introduces you as his girlfriend, some of his friends do not know that he is married and have advised him to marry you.



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- Ajento at 7-08-2011 01:55 AM (12 years ago)
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LMAO: As you technically know he is technically married, he is technically bunking you for the time being. Based on all these technicallities am technically not sure he will technically have anything to do with you when all is said and done. Its obvious that you are so much in doubt about all his technicallities, short and simple just have your fun at the moment and simply forget about the marriage thing not until he has sorted out all the technicallities surrounding his marriage else you will be disappointed. Be wise.
Posted: at 7-08-2011 01:55 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- deboalabi262 at 7-08-2011 01:59 AM (12 years ago)
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Yes, If you love, believe and trust him on his plans to marry you after his papers. I think some guys do that in Europe or America after spending their precious time with their 'white or caucasian' ladies.

Posted: at 7-08-2011 01:59 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 7-08-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago)
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possibly yeah..since he friend doesn't know he got married...yeah that is the method..if you want to get papers AND YOU ARE using someone to get that papers you both do contract married AND LIVE TOGETHER...incase the immigration people come to visit or to investigate if you both are turly married..but that doesn't mean after he got the papers he is still going to continua with the marriage...he have to be praying sha that the person he is using doesn't get  him into one big problem...

Posted: at 7-08-2011 02:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Jald at 7-08-2011 02:54 AM (12 years ago)
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yes and no................but ur story is not as smooth as u may think............
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- Empress_Ameera at 7-08-2011 04:05 AM (12 years ago)
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Thanks for all of the feedback.. The world we live in can be quite trying when it comes to matters of the heart.

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- xena15 at 7-08-2011 08:30 AM (12 years ago)
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And u honestly think he'll leave her 4 another?
Wat happened to em single guys out there???
Just wondering



Posted: at 7-08-2011 08:30 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- HOPEA23 at 7-08-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Empress_Ameera on  7-08-2011 04:05 AM
Thanks for all of the feedback.. The world we live in can be quite trying when it comes to matters of the heart.
you're welcome

Posted: at 7-08-2011 03:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 7-08-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Ajento on  7-08-2011 01:55 AM
LMAO: As you technically know he is technically married, he is technically bunking you for the time being. Based on all these technicallities am technically not sure he will technically have anything to do with you when all is said and done. Its obvious that you are so much in doubt about all his technicallities, short and simple just have your fun at the moment and simply forget about the marriage thing not until he has sorted out all the technicallities surrounding his marriage else you will be disappointed. Be wise.

 Smiley Smiley Wink
Posted: at 7-08-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Empress_Ameera at 11-08-2011 02:16 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: xena15 on  7-08-2011 08:30 AM
And u honestly think he'll leave her 4 another?
Wat happened to em single guys out there???
Just wondering



This is actually quite common here in the US, whereas women marry women to obtain their papers then find a woman that they would rather be with, and/or after travel back home and marry or bring their wife back. So it is not far fetched it is done here everyday.  In addition, there are plenty of single men, however life often times leads one down a different journey. Sometimes you don't know such things until aftre you have developed feelings for the person...

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- 2slimshady at 11-08-2011 08:41 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: deboalabi262 on  7-08-2011 01:59 AM
Yes, If you love, believe and trust him on his plans to marry you after his papers. I think some guys do that in Europe or America after spending their precious time with their 'white or caucasian' ladies.

Absolutely right
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- giftmurphy at 11-08-2011 06:14 PM (12 years ago)
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serious relationship wiv a married man that is if u r going to marry him in d future then its serious....
Posted: at 11-08-2011 06:14 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- suzygirl at 13-08-2011 06:29 PM (12 years ago)
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This happens in europe and america,where the man only wants to obtain his papers and then divorce later to marry his wife.I will say for you to look for a prophet who can pray over this matter and will tell you if this man will not dissapoint you after obtaining his papers.Men are very unpredictable.
Posted: at 13-08-2011 06:29 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- harold634 at 13-08-2011 08:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Some Africans in the western world marry to get paper and end up divorcing their wives after having their country stays of nationality. Whether that marriage is fake, contract or pretence as they claim, such marriage is legal before God because is a valid marriage. If u having affair with such man, u are committing adultery.My advice for u is to carry on with your life or waith till the man is totally divorce which might take longer than u expected. If your age is running race against time, it better for u to move forward.
Posted: at 13-08-2011 08:51 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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