Marriage between tribes of different Lineage..ASHANTI AND IGBO (Page 3)

Date: 26-08-2011 6:50 pm (9 years ago) | Author: lulu
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- CONNIE-O at 29-08-2011 07:23 AM (9 years ago)
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If the father of a child is drug addict or alcoholic, do the child still belong to him? Would you ladies still leave your child with him?
Posted: at 29-08-2011 07:23 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- tellyy1122 at 29-08-2011 07:25 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: CONNIE-O on 29-08-2011 07:19 AM
hmm, I`m surprise by most of the things that people are saying, especially the females.
It makes perfect sense for the kids to belong to their mother: she was the one that gave birth to them and went through most of the pain in order to bring them to this world with help of God.
Plus, most children around the world are being taking care of by women, so, I think the Ashanti tradition makes perfect sense.
Children don`t belong to their father or mother, rather they belong to WHOMEVER THAT CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM.

Sorry but, if your brother is having problem with the case that the children might "belong" to their mother or her family in case of her death or anything like that, then he is not ready to get marry and his ego is too high.
Roll Eyes Huh? Huh? Tongue Lips Sealed Undecided :'( Angry Sad
Posted: at 29-08-2011 07:25 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- tellyy1122 at 29-08-2011 07:33 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: tellyy1122 on 29-08-2011 07:25 AM
Roll Eyes
Quote from: CONNIE-O on 29-08-2011 07:19 AM
hmm, I`m surprise by most of the things that people are saying, especially the females.
It makes perfect sense for the kids to belong to their mother: she was the one that gave birth to them and went through most of the pain in order to bring them to this world with help of God.
Plus, most children around the world are being taking care of by women, so, I think the Ashanti tradition makes perfect sense.
Children don`t belong to their father or mother, rather they belong to WHOMEVER THAT CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM.

Sorry but, if your brother is having problem with the case that the children might "belong" to their mother or her family in case of her death or anything like that, then he is not ready to get marry and his ego is too high.
Roll Eyes Huh? Huh? Tongue Lips Sealed Undecided :'( Angry Sad
sounds like u know this person,if not pls shut ur mouth,and whats his ego got to do with it,u sound like rubbish shit!!!!
Posted: at 29-08-2011 07:33 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- tellyy1122 at 29-08-2011 07:52 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: CONNIE-O on 29-08-2011 07:23 AM
If the father of a child is drug addict or alcoholic, do the child still belong to him? Would you ladies still leave your child with him?
well, common sense would tell u not too leave ur child with a drug addict or alcoholic Roll Eyes  Tongue U TALK STUPID RUBBISH SHIT!!!!!!!!!!
Posted: at 29-08-2011 07:52 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- goksman2k3 at 29-08-2011 07:54 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 26-08-2011 11:08 PM
which kind yeye tribe be that...no matter what the children belongs to the father family..i don't know what he see on that girl self..to hell with the girl and her family plus their customs....
HAHA Hopea na vex you de vex niii? well cant blame ya cos thats a crazo culture and the guy shud scram!!!
Posted: at 29-08-2011 07:54 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- eomo at 29-08-2011 09:01 AM (9 years ago)
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The relationship too long, 7 whole years.
Posted: at 29-08-2011 09:01 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- GOLDENMEDAH at 29-08-2011 09:03 AM (9 years ago)
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TOO LONG TO READ.........
Posted: at 29-08-2011 09:03 AM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eomo at 29-08-2011 09:24 AM (9 years ago)
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It is funny that during their 7 whole years of courtship the girl never told him about this or is it that she does not know? I think the first 3-6 months of relationship should be used to ask questions about your partner. Imagine what will happen if this guy decide to let her go. Forget the heartbreak what about the wasted years and effort? If you are matured enough for marriage, don't waste too much time in courtship because you will spend your whole life still trying to know your spouse.
Posted: at 29-08-2011 09:24 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 29-08-2011 09:32 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: tellyy1122 on 29-08-2011 07:33 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 29-08-2011 07:25 AM
Roll Eyes
Quote from: CONNIE-O on 29-08-2011 07:19 AM
hmm, I`m surprise by most of the things that people are saying, especially the females.
It makes perfect sense for the kids to belong to their mother: she was the one that gave birth to them and went through most of the pain in order to bring them to this world with help of God.
Plus, most children around the world are being taking care of by women, so, I think the Ashanti tradition makes perfect sense.
Children don`t belong to their father or mother, rather they belong to WHOMEVER THAT CAN TAKE GOOD CARE OF THEM.

Sorry but, if your brother is having problem with the case that the children might "belong" to their mother or her family in case of her death or anything like that, then he is not ready to get marry and his ego is too high.
Roll Eyes Huh? Huh? Tongue Lips Sealed Undecided :'( Angry Sad
sounds like u know this person,if not pls shut ur mouth,and whats his ego got to do with it,u sound like rubbish shit!!!!
Grin Grin Shocked Shocked

Posted: at 29-08-2011 09:32 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 29-08-2011 09:32 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: foukidrem on 29-08-2011 05:50 AM
Quote from: bles02 on 29-08-2011 05:30 AM

Hi dear

My Name is Ruth and i am a beautiful young girl with faithful, loving, tender and very caring. I am seriously looking for good relationship that can lead us to any thing. believed we can move on from here so that i will show you my photo and you will know more about me , dear try to send me message to my e-mail  [email protected]
 because i don't used to come on this web site so contact me then we can share our feelings with each other

Miss Ruth .
i think i need a wife how about you showing me ur honeypot and ur ass hole open upside down so that everybody in nija pals will see it, what do you think buddy? i will pay you $50,000  for a start if you like.. Kiss Kiss Kiss
Huh? Shocked Shocked Lips Sealed

Posted: at 29-08-2011 09:32 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Uwemedimo1 at 29-08-2011 10:17 AM (9 years ago)
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Funny how you would date a girl for 7 seven years and only get to know her tradition ans customs in the 7th year. Its absurd in this internet age where every info you desire is available at the click of a button
Posted: at 29-08-2011 10:17 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- kebella at 29-08-2011 10:27 AM (9 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 29-08-2011 10:27 AM (9 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ginika10245 at 29-08-2011 11:01 AM (9 years ago)
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Hello muumuu,
        Are you sure that your full Nigerian? why due you come pest this kind of nonsense  here telling people that you need there advice common Ghana boy you be muguooooooo original if I where you I will not think of that girl talk of posting it here in Naijaplas didn’t you know that other countries will be taking Nigerian boys like you fool, infarct go phyuk Pig You be yabara muzumuzu  animal in human form this is my opinion  for you  thanks.
Posted: at 29-08-2011 11:01 AM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- gloxxy98 at 29-08-2011 11:08 AM (9 years ago)
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he should walk away from the relationship, though 7yrs is long time, she would have told him earlier before going to do the introduction.
Posted: at 29-08-2011 11:08 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Lekan22 at 29-08-2011 12:53 PM (9 years ago)
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It can work if they want it to work.
Posted: at 29-08-2011 12:53 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DHash at 29-08-2011 01:50 PM (9 years ago)
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Short story
Posted: at 29-08-2011 01:50 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Idbabe at 29-08-2011 01:55 PM (9 years ago)
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Love has no boundary
Posted: at 29-08-2011 01:55 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- aisha89 at 29-08-2011 02:05 PM (9 years ago)
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PLZ, WAT A TRADITION IS THIS? ABEG JARE MY DEAR WALK AWAY

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- precita at 29-08-2011 02:36 PM (9 years ago)
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since they have gone thro a lot already i knw they wnt have problms wit their marriage so he shud go ahead.
Posted: at 29-08-2011 02:36 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Frb2015 at 29-08-2011 03:29 PM (9 years ago)
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these traditions mschewwwwww
Posted: at 29-08-2011 03:29 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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