help!

Date: 31-12-2008 6:48 am (16 years ago) | Author: Fola Rewo
- at 31-12-2008 06:48 AM (16 years ago)
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ok so its been 2 yrs now and i honestly cant explain why i am still in ths thing. He just wont leave me alone. I have tried breakn up with him 8 times over the past 2 yrs. He keeps coming back and beggn and all. its upsettn cus i know hes been playn on my weakness - that i am too emotional.  I know he is not he one for me- i cant even picture myself spending d rest of my life wit him, but he wants a future with me. I have considered relocating - but i cant - at least not anytime soon because of finances. I have tried ignoring him - like not answering his calls, etc but the last time i did that, he showed up at my place and when i wouldnt let him in, he broke the door, forced himself in and started beggn me. I need any advice now, i need this guy out of my life. I cant move on until he is out. i dont know wat to do. he is 27 and i am 24.

Posted: at 31-12-2008 06:48 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
- damygurl at 31-12-2008 07:06 AM (16 years ago)
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Get a restraining order. he's turned into a stalker and that's even a lil dangerous. if you know a friend of his tell him to talk to him b4 you get the restraining order and see if he will listen n if not go ahead with the restraining order.
Posted: at 31-12-2008 07:06 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- folarewo24 at 31-12-2008 07:48 AM (16 years ago)
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thanks dammy. I honestly tried the restraining order thing but i was told that he must have a previous case of violence with me b4 they can issue one out.
Posted: at 31-12-2008 07:48 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- damygurl at 31-12-2008 07:58 AM (16 years ago)
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dat;s so not fair. so he's gotta hurt ya first for them to give out a restraining order? i don't like their logic. Guys sometimes can't understand d word NO. Just keep praying dat it won't lead to violence n he will move on with his life n let you live urs
Posted: at 31-12-2008 07:58 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Toks-E at 31-12-2008 01:28 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: folarewo24 on 31-12-2008 06:48 AM
ok so its been 2 yrs now and i honestly cant explain why i am still in ths thing. He just wont leave me alone. I have tried breakn up with him 8 times over the past 2 yrs. He keeps coming back and beggn and all. its upsettn cus i know hes been playn on my weakness - that i am too emotional.  I know he is not he one for me- i cant even picture myself spending d rest of my life wit him, but he wants a future with me. I have considered relocating - but i cant - at least not anytime soon because of finances. I have tried ignoring him - like not answering his calls, etc but the last time i did that, he showed up at my place and when i wouldnt let him in, he broke the door, forced himself in and started beggn me. I need any advice now, i need this guy out of my life. I cant move on until he is out. i dont know wat to do. he is 27 and i am 24.

aaaaww......take a bold and final step to say "no!"...u don't lyke the guy...and its not by force
Posted: at 31-12-2008 01:28 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- eagleseyez at 31-12-2008 01:33 PM (16 years ago)
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in ur posts, u did not mention his offence
do not blame ur self 4 being emotional,
that makes u a woman, allow him in
no matter the offence, u never can tell
this time he culd be changed 4 real
Posted: at 31-12-2008 01:33 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- presciousoluchi at 31-12-2008 01:41 PM (16 years ago)
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Accept him back and see if there is positive change in him, take it easy with him, dont be harsh just keep watching every step he made to know if he is serious about what he is saying. babe u never can tell maybe he is the MR Right.
Posted: at 31-12-2008 01:41 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herdeysohjy at 31-12-2008 03:56 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: presciousoluchi on 31-12-2008 01:41 PM
Accept him back and see if there is positive change in him, take it easy with him, dont be harsh just keep watching every step he made to know if he is serious about what he is saying. babe u never can tell maybe he is the MR Right.
adviser
Posted: at 31-12-2008 03:56 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- xaune at 31-12-2008 04:00 PM (16 years ago)
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Feel u pain!
Posted: at 31-12-2008 04:00 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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