Reasons Ladies Are Not Married (Page 8)

Date: 23-09-2011 11:33 am (9 years ago) | Author: Owhologbo Prince
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- sojimade at 28-09-2011 02:30 PM (9 years ago)
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i hope all the girls read and act on this article. It's as if the poster opened my mind and take out my plight. I'm ready to settle down but yet to find that missing rib.
Posted: at 28-09-2011 02:30 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- Oyinda07 at 28-09-2011 04:13 PM (9 years ago)
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I do not blame Nigerian Women. A vast number of them do not trust men because they have had a lot of bad experience in men
ditching them and leaving them at great risk
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- queenrukky at 28-09-2011 05:49 PM (9 years ago)
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couldn't finish it....i nid a glasss of water
Posted: at 28-09-2011 05:49 PM (9 years ago) | Hero
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- ifexdemike at 28-09-2011 06:07 PM (9 years ago)
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u re rite dear,our problem is our xter
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- MegaOneplusone at 28-09-2011 06:48 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry
Posted: at 28-09-2011 06:48 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- nkkyluv4christ at 28-09-2011 07:12 PM (9 years ago)
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that is d practical truth!!!!!!,believe it or not!!!!!!!!! Grin Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley Smiley
Posted: at 28-09-2011 07:12 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- MegaOneplusone at 28-09-2011 07:23 PM (9 years ago)
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some still ague it Shocked
Posted: at 28-09-2011 07:23 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- skillachi10 at 28-09-2011 07:58 PM (9 years ago)
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the bitter truth,ladies una dey hear
Posted: at 28-09-2011 07:58 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- MegaOneplusone at 28-09-2011 08:32 PM (9 years ago)
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 Lips Sealed
Posted: at 28-09-2011 08:32 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ngeri1 at 28-09-2011 10:42 PM (9 years ago)
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I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint.....

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 06:48 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry
Posted: at 28-09-2011 10:42 PM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- serababy at 28-09-2011 10:46 PM (9 years ago)
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u r right , but the guys need to change ....

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- trolling at 28-09-2011 10:55 PM (9 years ago)
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ngeri! u t too full of yrself!........now I have some questions for you.....what is yr yardstick of measurement?, because from the way to write, i can tell that yu've been in the states for too long......now answer my first question before i know how to deal with yu, since men cant measure up.
Posted: at 28-09-2011 10:55 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MegaOneplusone at 28-09-2011 11:41 PM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 10:42 PM
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint.....

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 06:48 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry

emmm you are correct! English is not my first language but i speak and write 3 international languages (maybe with grammatical errors like you said  Grin)not including my local languages. from your correct grammatical statement, you just said Nigerian men take almost everything for an insult? this is our culture and who we are, we are not changing that for you. I know quite well that there are many sites for educated, rich and civilized people like you, why dont you try that than getting worked up with uneducated, poor and uncivilized people here? Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy feeling funky lol
Posted: at 28-09-2011 11:41 PM (9 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- folabomi at 28-09-2011 11:49 PM (9 years ago)
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@ngeri1 i totally agree with you, some guys are still threatened by a woman's success. Plus i totally disagree with the OP suggesting that just women should change who they are just to get married. Marriage is not life or death if it happens it happens






Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 10:42 PM
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint.....

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 06:48 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry
Posted: at 28-09-2011 11:49 PM (9 years ago) | Newbie
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- ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:06 AM (9 years ago)
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LOL at too full of myself. Thanks for the comedic insert. I am actually not. In the states for too long? I can tell you must not leave the backward nature of wherever you are too often if at all. I was born and raised in the States, I'm a scholar, graduated with honors, do research and I am going to law school next year. I come from a family of 6+ figures but have a strong grasp on the world and societal function. So, if that's what you consider being too full of myself (which it actually is not)...use the term as you wish. Yardstick of measurement? That phrasing (though I can see how you would think so) actually does not apply. But nice try! It's not too far-fetched.

Quote from: trolling on 28-09-2011 10:55 PM
ngeri! u t too full of yrself!........now I have some questions for you.....what is yr yardstick of measurement?, because from the way to write, i can tell that yu've been in the states for too long......now answer my first question before i know how to deal with yu, since men cant measure up.
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- ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:08 AM (9 years ago)
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LOL I agree, this site does have that standard that you just referred to. It speaks to the type of person you must be even. And I do interact with those as well. LOLOLOL...three languages..was that inserted to enhance an image of yourself? English is a universal language and not of your list of proficiency. Nice try from you as well!

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 11:41 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 10:42 PM
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint.....

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 06:48 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry

emmm you are correct! English is not my first language but i speak and write 3 international languages (maybe with grammatical errors like you said  Grin)not including my local languages. from your correct grammatical statement, you just said Nigerian men take almost everything for an insult? this is our culture and who we are, we are not changing that for you. I know quite well that there are many sites for educated, rich and civilized people like you, why dont you try that than getting worked up with uneducated, poor and uncivilized people here? Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy feeling funky lol
Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:08 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:09 AM (9 years ago)
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Aw Folambi, it's refreshing to see a fellow voice of reason that abandons the submissive nature of the oppressive culture! Thanks so much for chiming in Smiley

Quote from: folabomi on 28-09-2011 11:49 PM
@ngeri1 i totally agree with you, some guys are still threatened by a woman's success. Plus i totally disagree with the OP suggesting that just women should change who they are just to get married. Marriage is not life or death if it happens it happens






Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 10:42 PM
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint.....

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 06:48 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry
Posted: at 29-09-2011 01:09 AM (9 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ngeri1 at 29-09-2011 01:12 AM (9 years ago)
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PS. Past that...the whole changing for me? I wasn't asking anyone to. I have no idea what that insert is even referencing. I am used to interacting with intellectual individuals who leave the constraint of marginalization. But hey...to each their own...specifically...you are entitled to your own opinion. I acknowledge that. Insult and fact are not interchangeable. I suggest you keep that in mind. Take care and continue to "feel funky"......

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 11:41 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 10:42 PM
I take it English is not your first language due to improper sentence structure and your comment being ridden with grammatical errors. But that is besides the point. Where did Lesbians come into this? I know you are not making the attempt to suggest that I am one? LOL you and your simple mind. I am truly getting a good laugh right now. I am actually not one..just an educated female with too much to offer the world to deal with simple/one-track minded males. I come from a line of strong, educated, independent women who have men in their lives but make more than these men who (when Nigerian) simply can't handle being in the shadows of such women. So there is no emphasis for me to run out and engage with all of that..not right now at least. But I understand that a lot of this backwards thinking comes from a tradition that embraces it so I am just grateful that in my own family, I don't have to deal with that nonsense. So in response to your grammatically improper comment, COURTESY and MANNERS are subjective on so many levels. So there would have to be definitions set into place to bring those up. Nigerian men take almost anything as insult when in fact, it's just the truth. Like I'd said before..the men that cannot measure up can go talk to the basic females that would accept them with open arms. Lots of them are reading and commenting on this silly post in agreement..so clearly..there is a market out there..I am just not within that constraint.....

Quote from: MegaOneplusone on 28-09-2011 06:48 PM
Quote from: ngeri1 on 28-09-2011 06:17 AM
So what is lady like? The act of being submissive to male dominance. You can get out of here with all of that. She is as free to comment as you are..which she did. If you don't like what is being said..you are free to speak on other matters or close your mouth......insulting is the nature of this dumb post. Regardless, we are all entitled to our opinions and she expressed hers....

Quote from: betty55 on 27-09-2011 06:58 AM
Quote from: tellyy1122 on 27-09-2011 05:42 AM
Tongue ::)POSTER, UR VERY VERY STUUUUUUUUUUUUUUPID,ONE IS A MATTER OF CHOICE, NOT ATTITUDE TWO NOT EVRYBODY WANTS TO GET MARRIED THESE DAYS POSTER U NEED HELP SERIOUSLY Sad Roll Eyes Tongue
it is verry verry unlady like to be this rude.is either u don,t coment or used the sign mounth close than pouring out this insult for no just cause.

In your own understanding, STUPID is a polite comment? I know lesbians too good and i will point you out if asked to.....you want to express your self, forgetting that curtsy and manners are both English language? looking for freedom with wrong attitude Angry

emmm you are correct! English is not my first language but i speak and write 3 international languages (maybe with grammatical errors like you said  Grin)not including my local languages. from your correct grammatical statement, you just said Nigerian men take almost everything for an insult? this is our culture and who we are, we are not changing that for you. I know quite well that there are many sites for educated, rich and civilized people like you, why dont you try that than getting worked up with uneducated, poor and uncivilized people here? Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy feeling funky lol
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- escapedprince at 29-09-2011 01:47 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on 26-09-2011 09:45 PM
I don't believe fully on this post
what is the part you dont believe? Huh?
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- escapedprince at 29-09-2011 01:49 AM (9 years ago)
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Quote from: tracym on 26-09-2011 11:36 PM
too much to read

better get to it!!
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