Pls advice me

Hello Pals,

I have a confession: I use to have a a very very close female friend, as @ 2002. we were very close till around 2005 that i graduated. but before i graduated as at the time we started the real friendship, her boyfreind is my good friend in my class and her own elder brother is my close friend too, that really hindered me to tell her that i love her so much. As @ 2003, there was a very long ASUU strike which kept us @ home for six solid month and we were always together because i and the girl with her brother stay together in Ile ife and her boy friend in Lagos. She got pregnant before the strike i was her closest confidant that she confided in me even b4 her boy friend knows about it she already told me.

To now cut the long story short, after i graduated  in 2006 i went for service she was just about going for her part 4 industrial training, my phone was stolen and i cant reach her for over 2 years from the moidlle of my service year till when i am about 1and a half year experienced as a worker. 2nd of January this year, i went to there house after i hang out in couple of friends including her brother were touring house to house on visits. When she saw me she embraced me and we started talking like we saw just yesterday. i asked her about her boyfriend she said they are no more and she told me she is now with another guy.

The issue now is i feel now is the right time to tell her my mind since about 5 years. i spoke to her about 5 days after , after she already returned to her base where she is still doing her youth service and i in Lagos. i told her what is going on in my mind, she said it is going to be difficult but we will talk about it soon, after like two more calls spending more time with her on call, she now said we will talk about it when i come home by easter that she will be around too.

Pals, what do you feel is in her mind that she cant tell me on phone unless we see. i feel if she is alright with her boy friend i expect her to have told me that i should forget about it.

Guys, what do you think?

Posted: at 13-01-2009 11:03 AM (16 years ago) | Newbie

@ poster I think should just forget about that girl, considering the years you both has known each and you weren't able to tell her u luv her... I tell you now that, it is too late because she can't dump her current bf and face you.. I think that might be the reason why she is not telling you her opinion concerning your request as her bf.
To stay on a safer side why not look for another person you could build love for rather wasting your time with another man's lady.
Their are millions of girls out there..... go get one for yaself.
Cheers!!!

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Posted: at 13-01-2009 11:43 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero