Are Men Predisposed to Cheat?

Date: 09-11-2011 11:17 am (12 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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- at 9-11-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago)
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Even though the rate of infidelity between men and women isn’t drastically different, there’s this widely held assumption that men cheat far more than women do. Is this really true, or is it something society has conditioned us to believe?


Posted: at 9-11-2011 11:17 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 11:26 AM (12 years ago)
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Unfortunately it is a proven fact that men cheat more than women. Women are not angels by any means and of course, there are some women out there that cheat just as often as men do.
1. men cheat because they have the feeling they are in some way not getting the emotional support for their partner that they deserve. Women are usually in the mind that if their husband is unhappy, give them sex. Although I’m sure the men in our lives are not complaining about the amount of sex we are giving them, they also need to feel that they are appreciated for their efforts. For most men, their goal is to provide a safe and loving home for their family to share with them. The stress of this can sometimes be overwhelming for them and a little affirmation that they are doing a great job taking care of the family goes a long way.
2.He also cheats bcos she doesnt look or dress the way she used to 5yrs  ago
If your a stay at home wife/mother it is so easy to get yourself into a daily routine with the house work and kids and find yourself wearing a comfy pair of sweatpants all day. Or maybe you are a business woman by day, that all you want to do is get home and put on your stretchy pants and t-shirt. I’m sure there is nothing more a man would want than to come home to his wife standing at the sink doing the dishes in her Lingerie, but the truth is that’s probably not going to happen. But making that effort once in a while will definitely help to keep the spark alive. He had to have been attracted to you in the first place, so every now and again, remind him why he fell in love with you!

Well of course they do, but so do women.

Posted: at 9-11-2011 11:26 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 9-11-2011 11:32 AM (12 years ago)
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Sophiebaby Men more to women ration 80:20  Cool

Posted: at 9-11-2011 11:32 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyindabty at 9-11-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago)
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yes just like you cheat on me and i still love you
Posted: at 9-11-2011 11:34 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 9-11-2011 11:58 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on  9-11-2011 11:34 AM
yes just like you cheat on me and i still love you

hey ya  Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss

Posted: at 9-11-2011 11:58 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 12:05 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:05 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 9-11-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago)
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 :'( :'( :'(

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 12:20 PM (12 years ago)
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why na?

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:20 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 9-11-2011 12:23 PM (12 years ago)
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what happened divine p Cool

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:23 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 12:26 PM (12 years ago)
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maybe ur pos just reminded her of when she was bin cheated upon  Grin

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:26 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyindabty at 9-11-2011 12:34 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 9-11-2011 12:35 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  9-11-2011 12:26 PM
maybe ur pos just reminded her of when she was bin cheated upon  Grin


Hmm oyin is in love with me

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:35 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Alphamale at 9-11-2011 12:48 PM (12 years ago)
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Because men like things in plural.
Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:48 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 9-11-2011 12:50 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  9-11-2011 11:26 AM
Unfortunately it is a proven fact that men cheat more than women. Women are not angels by any means and of course, there are some women out there that cheat just as often as men do.
1. men cheat because they have the feeling they are in some way not getting the emotional support for their partner that they deserve. Women are usually in the mind that if their husband is unhappy, give them sex. Although I’m sure the men in our lives are not complaining about the amount of sex we are giving them, they also need to feel that they are appreciated for their efforts. For most men, their goal is to provide a safe and loving home for their family to share with them. The stress of this can sometimes be overwhelming for them and a little affirmation that they are doing a great job taking care of the family goes a long way.
2.He also cheats bcos she doesnt look or dress the way she used to 5yrs  ago
If your a stay at home wife/mother it is so easy to get yourself into a daily routine with the house work and kids and find yourself wearing a comfy pair of sweatpants all day. Or maybe you are a business woman by day, that all you want to do is get home and put on your stretchy pants and t-shirt. I’m sure there is nothing more a man would want than to come home to his wife standing at the sink doing the dishes in her Lingerie, but the truth is that’s probably not going to happen. But making that effort once in a while will definitely help to keep the spark alive. He had to have been attracted to you in the first place, so every now and again, remind him why he fell in love with you!

Well of course they do, but so do women.
all this just to explain?Huh??ull make a good teacher.
Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:50 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on  9-11-2011 12:50 PM
all this just to explain?Huh??ull make a good teacher.

lolzzzz...teacher in werin? how was ur wkend?

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 12:54 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on  9-11-2011 12:35 PM

Hmm oyin is in love with me

i no..dnt brake her hrt oo

Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:54 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- creativecosmos at 9-11-2011 12:57 PM (12 years ago)
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its not our fault we have a higher libido.dat doesnt mean we were programmed to cheat ooooh,mot all men are d same
Posted: at 9-11-2011 12:57 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 9-11-2011 01:00 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on  9-11-2011 12:54 PM
i no..dnt brake her hrt oo

Come u sef dey seduce me  Sad cover that thing i dey see so

Posted: at 9-11-2011 01:00 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- divineproject at 9-11-2011 01:10 PM (12 years ago)
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 :'( :'( :'(

Posted: at 9-11-2011 01:10 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-11-2011 01:12 PM (12 years ago)
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dp why u dey cry evrywher naaaaaaaaa...u no i cant cheat on him..dont u?

Posted: at 9-11-2011 01:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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