Could You Be Happy in a Sexless Marriage? (Page 4)

Quote from: zicowonder on  9-11-2011 01:20 PM

What kind of a stupid quetion is that?

no mind the ye ye poster , probably he live in USA or he is aspiring to migrate there, that is the only place on the earth you will find a room for such a nonsense, thats why they are morally lacking and shameless too

Posted: at 10-11-2011 12:22 AM (13 years ago) | Grande Master

Hmmmmmmm!! na wa oo!!

Posted: at 10-11-2011 01:01 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

Oh boy, u b really äshäwö 4 dis kind post, ehn. It's only wen yüä married dät u cn knw abt dis. But in any relationship witout  SEX, is lyk vehicle witout  FUEL.  SEX is d tap-ROOT of evry relationship, preferably evryday, except wen babes are in diä monthly-flow, den u cn b playin way-ward till yüä married & den u stop it.   SEX is d switest thing in d whole world. Chei, Suwätaä is  vry swit ooh. 4get pretence, no 1 cn do witout 4kin

Posted: at 10-11-2011 02:17 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

NO NO  AND I SAY NO:
A marriage partner that does not understand the importance of sex in marriage will toy with it and expose his or her marriage to dangers. In my position as a pastor, I have observed lot of problems in marriage as a result of a partner neglecting or denying the other partner this marital obligation. This problem occurs from two reasons.
The first but inadvertent reason is the pre-marriage life one lived. Those who married as virgins, especially born-again Christians, take some time to adjust to marital sex life. Some of them continue to live with the notion that sex is sinful. They find it difficult to yield themselves to their husbands or wives. Initially, the man or woman may show some understanding but will become irritated if it continues will ultimately lead to problems in the marriage.
The second cause, which is of more interest to us in this article, is deliberate and punitive. In that circumstance, sex becomes a weapon - a weapon of retaliation, intimidation and coercion. There will be no sex except something is promised in exchange. That is one sacrificing his or her marriage on the altar of narrow interest. By the time your partner starts looking elsewhere to satisfy that emotional urge, you will have yourself to blame.
Sex is a duty every spouse owes his or her partner. There is no excuse for it. Any reason for not obliging it should be discussed and accepted by two of you. A married man is no longer the sole owner of his body. The same thing applies to a married woman. In all truth, your wife or husband owns your body more than you. So you should oblige any time he or she wants your body. By surrendering any time your partner needs you, you are protecting your marriage.

Posted: at 10-11-2011 06:27 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

That can not work

Posted: at 10-11-2011 07:17 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

He is asking questions ? Answer him na 

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Posted: at 10-11-2011 08:48 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

make una talk true, marriage cannot last without sex

if you dnt want to have sex with ur husband or wife, why marry in the first place

remain rev father or rev sista

Posted: at 10-11-2011 09:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

some people can not even stay without sex during relationship not to talk of marriage

but its depends if they are not leaving together

Posted: at 10-11-2011 10:52 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

kai u be correct Pastor

Posted: at 10-11-2011 11:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

hw can marriage last without sex? no way!!!!

Posted: at 10-11-2011 11:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming