How Would You React if Your Date Can't Pay For Dinner? (Page 12)

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So I went on a date where a guy asked me out, I chose the location and we ate full. Typically on a first date a guy pays for the meal, but this one told me that his first rule is that he never pays for the first date. I said.. "What?", in awe that I wasn't aware of such a rule. He asked me if I could respect that, I said yes, and just thought this guy has to be joking so I played along like a TV Show. He then looked at me like "Okay so are you going to pay". I said no, I'm not going to pay for that, and looked in my bag to a stack of cash and said "Oh I left my bank card at home and I left my wallet with all of my money so I can't pay". Of course that was a lie, but since he was playing I decided to play too. He then said that he had no money at all that he deliberately left it at home including his Identification. (See me see wahala oo) He was laughing and smiling so I knew it was some kind of scam, but being that he tried to FORCE me to pay for the food, I couldn't bring myself to be respect him. So I got on the phone, called a friend, and said HELP.  I cooked up a story that my friend would pay. I got up and walked out of the door and said I would be back. He followed me outside and I wondered why. Then told me that I should come with him to go see some sights. God forbid what kind of foolish antics he had next so I decline and was adamant about meeting my friend. He then confessed that he paid for the food and we should go somewhere else. Emi ko! I was so threw with it all. I didn't want to be around such a creep.



He then sends me a message saying "make sure you have money to cover your own meal" lol I then replied in short saying how he tried to scam me but he met his match. And this wasn't a nigerian, but a Black American, and he also claimed to be a Millionaire. Who cares, he can go to hell with his millions. I think he just wanted to feel like he won, he sat and ate with a beautiful lady AND she paid for her meal, guess he wanted to be treated like a woman. Little things like that make people miss out on good people, oh well.

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............It aint a RULE dat a guys' gotta foot de bill on de first date........don't get it wrong................It aint shit to pay for a meal u intend putting in ur belly...............foot urs and he'll foot his...no biggie.......its a DATE not a FEED/BRIDE-ME-TO-STAY ish.............sm gurls gotta get dem pride up and stop expecting alot frm guys based on a silly Made-up RULE!!!..............