Ok Pals....i find this dumb...i was watching a movie and a guy said he cant marry his pregnant girlfriend bcos its a taboo...now that's wierd and stupid to me.
My question is this...is there any culture/tradition that forbids a man from marrying a pregnant woman in Africa.
Posted: at 25-11-2011 03:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
yukicares4u at 25-11-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Just in case u pals wanna watch the movie...the title is "SUGAR' u can watch it on ghananation.com
Posted: at 25-11-2011 03:49 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
normally ......... yu dont marry a woman with pregnacy is a taboo buh things ve change now......a priest can wed pregg woman with or without knowledge of her condition..........during our forefathers is a big ''TABOO'' bcos it seems ur marrying a mother n' d kid .........it good after d child deliver then yu can go ahead 4 marriage rite
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Posted: at 25-11-2011 03:52 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
when a woman is pregger they re two (child n' mother) so is a taboo to pay a bride price on her bcos shes pregger ........if yu marry her with the pregnant ur marrying both the mother n' unborn child.....
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 25-11-2011 03:59 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dirtykid at 25-11-2011 04:01 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kebella on 25-11-2011 03:52 PM
normally ......... yu dont marry a woman with pregnacy is a taboo buh things ve change now......a priest can wed pregg woman with or without knowledge of her condition..........during our forefathers is a big ''TABOO'' bcos it seems ur marrying a mother n' d kid .........it good after d child deliver then yu can go ahead 4 marriage rite
Are u shyting me ?? with that highlighted words ? Never heard of that b4, anyway cultures differ shaa in differ places
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Posted: at 25-11-2011 04:01 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
yukicares4u at 25-11-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: kebella on 25-11-2011 03:59 PM
when a woman is pregger they re two (child n' mother) so is a taboo to pay a bride price on her bcos shes pregger ........if yu marry her with the pregnant ur marrying both the mother n' unborn child.....
Hmmm ok...neva knew that...which culture is dat in Africa?
Posted: at 25-11-2011 04:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
dirtykid at 25-11-2011 04:08 PM (12 years ago) (m)
Quote from: kebella on 25-11-2011 04:04 PM
yeah culture differs ............is lik that in my place........even til now until yu dont let anyone outsider to no ur pregger
Hmmmm i c, good to know that, so such culture still even exist there.. quite interesting, seems the people can't hold their 3rd degree unit section for that area, they made the elders to fix such law.
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 25-11-2011 04:08 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 25-11-2011 04:11 PM (12 years ago) (f)
Quote from: yukicares4u on 25-11-2011 03:46 PM
Ok Pals....i find this dumb...i was watching a movie and a guy said he cant marry his pregnant girlfriend bcos its a taboo...now that's wierd and stupid to me.
My question is this...is there any culture/tradition that forbids a man from marrying a pregnant woman in Africa.
Dumb indeed! Letting her pregnant wasn't a taboo? Smh
Live and let live!
Posted: at 25-11-2011 04:11 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
Hmmmm i c, good to know that, so such culture still even exist there.. quite interesting, seems the people can't hold their 3rd degree unit section for that area, they made the elders to fix such law.
not really is no longer effective lik b4............my younger sister was pregnant b4 her marriage ............my kindred dont accept that.......is an individual thing alot of pple stil pratice it there,,,,,,,,,,,,
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!!
Posted: at 25-11-2011 04:12 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero