I was once a prostitute, will he accept me if i reveal it to him?

Published 8 years ago by: aadex kebella
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at 28-11-2011 10:11AM (8 years ago)

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I'm Jane, 34 from Eastern region, I met a guy four yrs ago and we are having a serious relationship. Recently, he propose to me that I should marry him; at first I was shocked because I wasn't expecting that. Secondly, I haven't told him much about my past; because I was once a Pro" who have gone through wayward times.

I'm afraid to do so, cos I don't know what he'll say or do; especially he just propose to me !
What should I do?
I should better leave it unsaid I think ?



dextersexy at 28-11-2011 10:41AM (8 years ago)
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very hard though follow your heart
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makelly at 28-11-2011 11:23AM (8 years ago)
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hard decision , i suggest you should not tell him
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dextersexy at 28-11-2011 11:31AM (8 years ago)
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may be
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makelly at 28-11-2011 11:35AM (8 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
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SuP3r-B at 28-11-2011 12:52PM (8 years ago)
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lady d past is only a mirage so we only luk at d future.build up n tell him wats up b4 he finds out outside b4 acceptn his proposal as nt to hurt him
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Merlin at 28-11-2011 02:20PM (8 years ago)
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If you love something, set it free. If it returns to you then its yours. I think you should tell him. Keeping this kind of secret makes a candidate for blackmail in future.
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dextersexy at 28-11-2011 02:29PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: SuP3r-B on 28-11-2011 12:52PM
lady d past is only a mirage so we only luk at d future.build up n tell him wats up b4 he finds out outside b4 acceptn his proposal as nt to hurt him

Nice words there
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50scent at 28-11-2011 03:00PM (8 years ago)
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Not easy to say , o dont let us deceive ourselves  Sad

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saloskani at 29-11-2011 03:26PM (8 years ago)
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You better tell him before somebody else does. Depending on how you tell him, he may understand and see it as your past which doesn't matter but if he hears from a third party it may lead to seperation. Be wise.
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kebella at 29-11-2011 04:39PM (8 years ago)
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READING

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gimac at 29-11-2011 10:40PM (8 years ago)
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what is the different between prostitute and those who dated many guys in there life ,
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gimac at 29-11-2011 10:42PM (8 years ago)
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better let him know the truth before the truth the truth is know by itself
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gimac at 29-11-2011 10:51PM (8 years ago)
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Quote from: makelly on 28-11-2011 11:23AM
hard decision , i suggest you should not tell him

suggestion that break home in a long run
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babyleslie at 29-11-2011 11:18PM (8 years ago)
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I think its better if u tell him rather than him finding out from some1 else after marriege..If he really loves u, he will forgive ur past..Everybody has his or her past but d past cannot stop u from moving forward in life.."GOOD LUCK"
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1daful at 29-11-2011 11:58PM (8 years ago)
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 Will tell himi.

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gimac at 30-11-2011 09:27AM (8 years ago)
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sure that make it the relationship more trust
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50scent at 30-11-2011 09:30AM (8 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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gimac at 30-11-2011 10:17PM (8 years ago)
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you are on ur own
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Ajento at 30-11-2011 10:23PM (8 years ago)
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The wise thing is to tell him before he finds out, and when he does you will regret it. Its good he knows now. If its true love you will know, if its infactuation you will know too. If he is better informed that will save the two of you a serious heartbreak down the road.
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