I'm Jane, 34 from Eastern region, I met a guy four yrs ago and we are having a serious relationship. Recently, he propose to me that I should marry him; at first I was shocked because I wasn't expecting that. Secondly, I haven't told him much about my past; because I was once a Pro" who have gone through wayward times.
I'm afraid to do so, cos I don't know what he'll say or do; especially he just propose to me ! What should I do? I should better leave it unsaid I think ?
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Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:11 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dextersexy at 28-11-2011 10:41 AM (13 years ago) (m)
very hard though follow your heart
Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:41 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
If you love something, set it free. If it returns to you then its yours. I think you should tell him. Keeping this kind of secret makes a candidate for blackmail in future.
Posted: at 28-11-2011 02:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
saloskani at 29-11-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago) (m)
You better tell him before somebody else does. Depending on how you tell him, he may understand and see it as your past which doesn't matter but if he hears from a third party it may lead to seperation. Be wise.
Posted: at 29-11-2011 03:26 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
babyleslie at 29-11-2011 11:18 PM (13 years ago) (f)
I think its better if u tell him rather than him finding out from some1 else after marriege..If he really loves u, he will forgive ur past..Everybody has his or her past but d past cannot stop u from moving forward in life.."GOOD LUCK"
Posted: at 29-11-2011 11:18 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
The wise thing is to tell him before he finds out, and when he does you will regret it. Its good he knows now. If its true love you will know, if its infactuation you will know too. If he is better informed that will save the two of you a serious heartbreak down the road.
Posted: at 30-11-2011 10:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac