Seven ways To Deal With A Nagging Girlfriend

Date: 18-12-2011 8:13 pm (10 years ago) | Author: Daniel Bosai
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- at 18-12-2011 08:13 PM (10 years ago)
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Nagging is one of the most irritating cliches of relationship. If you have a nagging girlfriend you need to get it under control before she drives you out the door. Be honest, sometimes her nagging is justified but now that it has become a barrier in your relationship you need to do something. Follow these steps to get your girlfriend to stop nagging you.



1. Listen when she talks. For many relationships, nagging occurs because your girlfriend feels you ignore her. Start by listening when she talks. Be aware that if she is nagging in the middle of the ball game, you cannot stop her. Instead when the game is over it is time to sit down together and talk out your issues. Once she sees you are willing to do so, she should stop interrupting future games.

2. Ask what she wants. Your girlfriend might be nagging about the dishes in the sink when she is really upset about something else. She might want you to take her out to dinner and the dishes are just how that complaint is manifesting itself. Ask her and then listen to her answer.

3. Share the chores. If your girlfriend is nagging about housework, she probably has a point. Does she do all the cooking, cleaning and laundry? What do you offer to the relationship? Your girlfriend wants to be your partner, not your maid. She works too so complaining that you worked all day is not sufficient and devalues the fact that she did the same. Get up and do your part.

4. Stop over-promising. You might think that agreeing when she nags is the best thing to get her off your back. The problem is that when you agree and then don’t do what you agreed to, you have just upset her more. Instead, listen to what she is asking you to do then either say no or find a compromise. If you agree, if you promise to do something, then do it. Then she will stop nagging you about it.

5. Keep her updated. Your girl might just be suffering from the space between you. If you don’t talk to her or tell you what’s going on, she has to ask which you might take as nagging. If you promised to clean the garage, then tell her when you will do it. If something happens to change that, tell her and arrange for another time. Keep your girlfriend updated and she will see that you value the promises you make to her.

6. Provide constructive responses. Avoid telling her to stop nagging. Most women hate nagging you as much as you hate them doing it. Instead when you are talking together, setting goals and making promises, provide her with some constructive criticism. Say to her, “When you ask me to do something, I will do it but in my own time and when you repeat yourself I feel that you don’t trust me to do what I agreed to do.” Make the statement about you and your feelings not about what she is doing wrong.



7.Spend time with her. If the nagging in your relationship is motivated by your girlfriend feeling ignored then the only way to fix it is to spend time with her. Take her out or watch TV together in the evening. Find what she enjoys and try to do it together. Time may be all you need.

Stop your girlfriend nagging with these simple steps. If you put in the time, you will reap the rewards of a more peaceful and loving relationship.


Posted: at 18-12-2011 08:13 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- kebella at 18-12-2011 08:14 PM (10 years ago)
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noted ----------very 9ice Cool

Posted: at 18-12-2011 08:14 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sarah555 at 18-12-2011 08:20 PM (10 years ago)
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thank's pls pass this lesson to my darling hubby..
 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 18-12-2011 08:20 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sarah555 at 18-12-2011 08:42 PM (10 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 18-12-2011 08:42 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sarah555 at 18-12-2011 09:09 PM (10 years ago)
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...and short as that  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 18-12-2011 09:09 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Larrykingomoj at 18-12-2011 09:26 PM (10 years ago)
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Very nice if both parties will be able to implement these.
Posted: at 18-12-2011 09:26 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Chambestar at 18-12-2011 10:20 PM (10 years ago)
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hmmmm. I don't know whether nagging has a cure. Nagging women are generally insecure, querulous, impossible to please, suspicious and angry. The very thing they have been asking you to do for a long time, the day you finally fulfill it, don't expect to meet a smiling and happy woman. They just get worse. Maybe only ardent prayers could work, if anything.
Posted: at 18-12-2011 10:20 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 18-12-2011 10:34 PM (10 years ago)
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fanks poster
Posted: at 18-12-2011 10:34 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- donspirado88 at 18-12-2011 11:07 PM (10 years ago)
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Noted but not Certified..... Tongue Undecided Undecided Undecided
Posted: at 18-12-2011 11:07 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- brownsuga007 at 19-12-2011 12:13 AM (10 years ago)
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Noted...
Posted: at 19-12-2011 12:13 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- zeigbo at 19-12-2011 01:11 AM (10 years ago)
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I dey hear

Posted: at 19-12-2011 01:11 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- mkpume22 at 19-12-2011 02:48 AM (10 years ago)
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Tank God i 'm a reverend .i don't know what is girl-friend Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 19-12-2011 02:48 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyeka250 at 19-12-2011 04:00 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on 18-12-2011 08:35 PM
i think a hot slap will do  Grin




dats d only answer 4 it, gud talk my broda
Posted: at 19-12-2011 04:00 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- purityjustice at 19-12-2011 04:20 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on 18-12-2011 08:35 PM
i think a hot slap will do  Grin
that is the only remedy. no tym for petting.
Posted: at 19-12-2011 04:20 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- malvin2525 at 19-12-2011 04:39 AM (10 years ago)
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passing
Posted: at 19-12-2011 04:39 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Ecto at 19-12-2011 04:58 AM (10 years ago)
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Nice advice and good Pix to back it up. Thanks, Poster!

Although some girls are unpleasable like my ex-girl friend Joy. She almost ruined my youthful life. Nagged out almost out of my senses. She is bad.
Pray not to meet her
Posted: at 19-12-2011 04:58 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onlyGodknows at 19-12-2011 05:05 AM (10 years ago)
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This is a beautiful piece. The partners can also help each other by being open and sincere bcos sometimes, one may not have the time to dig out the real issue behind the nagging.
Posted: at 19-12-2011 05:05 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- iyke1 at 19-12-2011 05:21 AM (10 years ago)
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ok   Cool
Posted: at 19-12-2011 05:21 AM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ndjoe at 19-12-2011 06:15 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: stephen153 on 18-12-2011 08:35 PM
i think a hot slap will do  Grin

dat should be the number 8 afte u have tried all the othe 7 and she didn't dat's when you can apply de num 8 the number 9 is coming soon Grin
Posted: at 19-12-2011 06:15 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ndjoe at 19-12-2011 06:17 AM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Ecto on 19-12-2011 04:58 AM
Nice advice and good Pix to back it up. Thanks, Poster!

Although some girls are unpleasable like my ex-girl friend Joy. She almost ruined my youthful life. Nagged out almost out of my senses. She is bad.
Pray not to meet her


eyaaa Joy no fit bring you Joy chai
Posted: at 19-12-2011 06:17 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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