I need help

Date: 02-02-2012 9:41 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Onyi magdalene
- at 2-02-2012 09:41 PM (12 years ago)
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 Please i need help... no jokes please
 There is this guy (paul) that stays in the same hostel with me, the guy is good looking, tall and single. I love the guy as a normal friend but not as a boyfriend. He comes and spend time with me in my room most evenings and live very late but i hardly think otherwise cuz once he comes, we keep ghisting and he tells me stories about his past life with girls and so on. I have my boyfriend though he is not in the same country with me but i love him so much. Paul has never asked me if i have a boyfriend or not.
When ever i go for a party and come back, i notice that he is not happy.when ever i have exams, he wakes me up by to study by calling on  phone and he always alert me in the morning to get up and go for lectures. Lately, there was a party that i didnt go, so he called me late at night and was very happy when he noticed that i was at home that night. At times , he calls me and tells me he misses me hmmm. I began to have some feelings that he's planning to take our relationship to another level (bf & gf stuffs) that i don't want. So i posted my photo with my bf on my profile on naija, when he saw it that same night, he called me, and said there is something he wants to ask me, but he didnt ask even though i insisted, he said he will ask physically.

Pals i realy don't want to loose him as a friend but i don;t want him as a boyfriend . I think the picture i posted touched him badly,  but i don't just know what to do right now.

Posted: at 2-02-2012 09:41 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- Yossman at 2-02-2012 11:06 PM (12 years ago)
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women follow ur mind.and mak sure u cheak ur mind weda u dnt hv love feeling fr this guy and that if u dnt date nw wount u do later cos its nt gonna favour u again then.anyway pray to God.
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gfactor at 2-02-2012 11:08 PM (12 years ago)
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wots d bigdeal...if u dnt want him as a bf, tell him if he askd 4 it...but i tink u r nt true 2 ursef dats y u r confused..

Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:08 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- shilem at 2-02-2012 11:08 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Yossman on  2-02-2012 11:06 PM
women follow ur mind.and mak sure u cheak ur mind weda u dnt hv love feeling fr this guy and that if u dnt date nw wount u do later cos its nt gonna favour u again then.anyway pray to God.

 i realy love him as a friend but not a bf.... am afraot to loose him cus i knw sooner or later he will come out clear to me and i cant accept cuz am in a relationship
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:08 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- shilem at 2-02-2012 11:11 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: gfactor on  2-02-2012 11:08 PM
wots d bigdeal...if u dnt want him as a bf, tell him if he askd 4 it...but i tink u r nt true 2 ursef dats y u r confused..

am damn serious my dear
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:11 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- moneyinbrakemi at 2-02-2012 11:26 PM (12 years ago)
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just keep ur fingers crossed and wait,remember be anxious for nothing my dear
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:26 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- shilem at 2-02-2012 11:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on  2-02-2012 11:26 PM
just keep ur fingers crossed and wait,remember be anxious for nothing my dear

thanks dear, every single idea or advice counts in its own way
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:29 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- moneyinbrakemi at 2-02-2012 11:33 PM (12 years ago)
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see there is no two ways about it,anyhow he will get to find out but be sincere with him,if he truly loves you he will respect the fact that you already had a boyfriend and he would let go and allow friendship reign my dear
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:33 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- shilem at 2-02-2012 11:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: moneyinbrakemi on  2-02-2012 11:33 PM
see there is no two ways about it,anyhow he will get to find out but be sincere with him,if he truly loves you he will respect the fact that you already had a boyfriend and he would let go and allow friendship reign my dear

 thanks Cool Cool Cool Cool
Posted: at 2-02-2012 11:43 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- godwindave at 3-02-2012 03:52 AM (12 years ago)
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My dear, from all indication, you're a matured lady. Just tell him. Let him go, if he wishes to. God'll bring another friend who'll luv u not as a friend, but as a sister!

Posted: at 3-02-2012 03:52 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- hentosw6 at 3-02-2012 04:16 AM (12 years ago)
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b a gud gal by been faithful in ur existin relationship.
Posted: at 3-02-2012 04:16 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- osig at 3-02-2012 11:10 AM (12 years ago)
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 to me is like u like d guy, because he care about u more than your b/f, the truth is that u dont whant to phyuk yur guy up,then follow yur hrt girl
Posted: at 3-02-2012 11:10 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- shilem at 3-02-2012 06:32 PM (12 years ago)
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my bf cares abt me as well
Posted: at 3-02-2012 06:32 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 3-02-2012 06:33 PM (12 years ago)
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ok..just keep it as it is

Posted: at 3-02-2012 06:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shilem at 3-02-2012 06:36 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-02-2012 06:33 PM
ok..just keep it as it is


 Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 3-02-2012 06:36 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 3-02-2012 06:37 PM (12 years ago)
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i actually mean just keep him as a friend since you already got a bf...what is huh there?

Posted: at 3-02-2012 06:37 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- shilem at 3-02-2012 06:38 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on  3-02-2012 06:37 PM
i actually mean just keep him as a friend since you already got a bf...what is huh there?


nice one darling
Posted: at 3-02-2012 06:38 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- HOPEA23 at 3-02-2012 06:39 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cool Cool

Posted: at 3-02-2012 06:39 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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