Should I accept him the way he is, should I change him or just leave ? (Page 2)

8 years ago by: aadex kebella
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-- chicanorose (f) at 7-02-2012 12:54PM
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I will try to change him but if he refuses to change, i will back out of d relationship. If i really love him, i will accept him d way he is.  

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-- 50scent (m) at 7-02-2012 12:55PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-02-2012 12:48PM
Remaining in a relationship with the hope that you will change the other person is the biggest mistake one can do!
That will not happen, and you'll waste your time and energy! It's not worth it!
Analyze well the person, and if there are things you can't stand, you better quit the relationship!


There is no way u will support the motion,
I know you  Sad Sad Sad Sad

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-- bittersweet (f) at 7-02-2012 12:57PM
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Quote from: 50scent on  7-02-2012 12:55PM
There is no way u will support the motion,
I know you  Sad Sad Sad Sad

Huh? Huh? What motion are you talking about? Huh? 

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-- Tomnwakor (m) at 7-02-2012 01:04PM
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big sickness
 Am so sorry 4 dat man!
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 7-02-2012 01:15PM
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on  7-02-2012 12:20PM
yes oh, dats d mistake most gurls make, "i will change him"
Late Bimbo Odukoya said, "dont marry a man with the hope of changing him, if you cant live with an attitude he has, then dont marry him".

sis u dey talk my mind wella

 Cheesy Cheesy Kiss

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-- 50scent (m) at 7-02-2012 01:16PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-02-2012 12:57PM
Huh? Huh? What motion are you talking about? Huh? 

Cos of love u can change him in your best way possible  Sad

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-- bittersweet (f) at 7-02-2012 01:18PM
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Quote from: 50scent on  7-02-2012 01:16PM
Cos of love u can change him in your best way possible  Sad

Nop!Nobody can change nobody, if the other person doesn't want that!

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-- 50scent (m) at 7-02-2012 01:21PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-02-2012 01:18PM
Nop!Nobody can change nobody, if the other person doesn't want that!

Agreed! Sometimes u can the Angel God send to him  Cheesy

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-- Smartwayne (m) at 7-02-2012 01:24PM
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IF U TRUELY LOVE HIM U'LL ACCEPT HIM THE WAY HE IS....AND NOT LEAVING OR CHANGING HIM COS U DNT KNW WAT 2MORROW'LL BE..REMEMBER LIFE S ALL ABOUT CHANGES...GUDLUCK..!!!!
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-- przystojny (m) at 7-02-2012 01:31PM
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No way because no one can change. Anybody either in or outside love except its accidentally.. Love can do many things if its real,i mean 100% but except chaging of 2nd person. And nowadays its hardly to get a true love,even a man or woman without cheating or flirting outside marriage or relationship although there are good ones but its hardly to find. The best thing is if you love a man or woman then he or she should love the person the way its,if not its better not to go deep cuz nothing its gona change except the person want to change which will take divine inervention from God Almighty.
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-- mimibaby_5 (f) at 7-02-2012 01:35PM
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you cannot change him so if u r not happy with him. leave now not later.
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-- 50scent (m) at 7-02-2012 01:38PM
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

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-- sophiebaby (f) at 7-02-2012 01:38PM
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Quote from: Smartwayne on  7-02-2012 01:24PM
IF U TRUELY LOVE HIM U'LL ACCEPT HIM THE WAY HE IS....AND NOT LEAVING OR CHANGING HIM COS U DNT KNW WAT 2MORROW'LL BE..REMEMBER LIFE S ALL ABOUT CHANGES...GUDLUCK..!!!!

 Cheesy

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-- wallas (m) at 7-02-2012 01:42PM
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kiss me na  Wink
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-- wandepope (m) at 7-02-2012 01:43PM
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To a great extent you cannot change any man...but the love you feel for eachother can make him change.The problem is that the world already have the wrong definition of love,whether or not you are alive to witness the change of that man you showed love to is another point.Love does not stop loving whether in life or in death but while alive love makes a lasting impression  that speaks steadily to the emotions and spirit of the living.
There is almost no end to the time that love can wait for a change(but your biological clock is ticking).If you love the man does not mean you cannot leave him but still love him to see the change occur.
 If you can,accept him and though the change tarries it would come.But if you cannot accept him just find your way.
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-- petmanuel4loura (m) at 7-02-2012 01:49PM
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Better accept him husband are too expensive
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-- sophiebaby (f) at 7-02-2012 01:50PM
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked   Grin Grin Grin

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-- bittersweet (f) at 7-02-2012 01:53PM
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Quote from: petmanuel4loura on  7-02-2012 01:49PM
Better accept him husband are too expensive

Expensive? Neeeeeeh!I know a place where they sell a dozen for 15 cents!  Grin

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-- Lekan22 (m) at 7-02-2012 01:56PM
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Use your instincts.
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-- 50scent (m) at 7-02-2012 02:13PM
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Quote from: bittersweet on  7-02-2012 01:53PM
Expensive? Neeeeeeh!I know a place where they sell a dozen for 15 cents!  Grin

Accept him the way he is  Sad

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