Should I accept him the way he is, should I change him or just leave ?

How many times in your life did you find yourself facing the question: Should I accept him the way he is, should I try to change him, or should I just leave?

What are some of the factors to consider when making this decision? Do we always have to know at first sight that he is "The Right Man for you” or you can allow yourselves to ponder on it for a while?

Many women look back at their past relationships and say: “I can’t believe I stayed for so long after everything he did to me. I don’t know what I was waiting for.” Just as many confess that they didn’t take the guy seriously because he had flaws, but later regretted letting him go: “He really cared about me. I don’t know what I was looking for.”

The Question is, If there is any unusual attitude in your Man that you dislike, will you just accept him the way he is, try to change him or Just let him be and find another guy?

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 10:05 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

u cannot change anybody..

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 11:39 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Bia I want you to change me 

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:04 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

 

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:08 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

why the face, dont u knw the meaning of change  

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:15 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

yes oh, dats d mistake most gurls make, "i will change him"
Late Bimbo Odukoya said, "dont marry a man with the hope of changing him, if you cant live with an attitude he has, then dont marry him".


sis u dey talk my mind wella

Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:20 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

u ar what??

Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:26 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

U cant change human being except God wants him/her to change.  Ask questions, make enquiries b4 attempting to go into the relationship in the first place

Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:33 PM (12 years ago) | Hero

jus leave him if u cant accept him the way he is others  will.......  dnt ever hav d mindset of changin anyone cos u urself cant even change som tins bout urself...

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Remaining in a relationship with the hope that you will change the other person is the biggest mistake one can do!
That will not happen, and you'll waste your time and energy! It's not worth it!
Analyze well the person, and if there are things you can't stand, you better quit the relationship!

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Posted: at 7-02-2012 12:48 PM (12 years ago) | Hero