How Do You Cope With A Female Colleague At The Office? (Page 3)

Date: 10-02-2012 9:13 am (12 years ago) | Author: Vivian Johnson
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:05 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 10:28 AM
is it thyphoid & malaria?  Grin
All join together.   Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:05 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:08 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 10-02-2012 11:04 AM
The true fact is that, you can't please everyone 'in live in general'..some people will just dislike you for no tangible reason(s). i sense jealousy in her attitude(from what i read so far tho!)..So 2cents would be,you should do your thing and always try n apply ignore button whenever she comes up with her overbearing behavior..like someone above said.."women are funny" at times and also have funny ways of showing their grievances..
I agree with you. The right word is IGNORE.
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:08 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 10-02-2012 11:10 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 11:03 AM
omo i wida o..like one wen them employ new..wenever we dey meeting..na so he go dey look me..wen i catch am..en go pretend..na wa oo..i no no sey i fyn o  Grin bcos na me wor wor pass for my houx  Grin

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me no dey send males oh, if dem dey beef me, it means dey want me, if dey eye , it means dey are interested
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:10 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:11 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 11:02 AM
Sophie, i can not overeact bc there is different roles assign to us, remember that we are in different departments, but remember also that there is no perfect being.  I have the best relationship with others bc we understand ourselves.  Many times she ask some colleagues why should  they relate with me. She is just difficult.

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try to involve others then..involving others doesnt mean you are escalating the issue...Prepare to talk with your boss. Take notes and address the issues, not as interpersonal problems, but as issues affecting you..that you dont like, the work and your progress on projects(that is ..if its affecting u badly at ur place of work). Tell your boss exactly what the difficult person does.

if that one no do...Go wait am for junction..make two of una Qwater am for bustop  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin so that she go no how far  Grin Grin  IGNORE HER JARE...HER WEIGHT NO REACH  Cool Cheesy

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:11 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:13 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 10-02-2012 11:04 AM
The true fact is that, you can't please everyone 'in live in general'..some people will just dislike you for no tangible reason(s). i sense jealousy in her attitude(from what i read so far tho!)..So 2cents would be,you should do your thing and always try n apply ignore button whenever she comes up with her overbearing behavior..like someone above said.."women are funny" at times and also have funny ways of showing their grievances..

She dey jealousy her sey ur kenery bbeta pass her own  Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:13 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:14 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 10-02-2012 10:39 AM

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked me or u from them  Grin
Ur head no correct, abi u be witch?  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:14 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:17 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 11:03 AM
omo i wida o..like one wen them employ new..wenever we dey meeting..na so he go dey look me..wen i catch am..en go pretend..na wa oo..i no no sey i fyn o  Grin bcos na me wor wor pass for my houx  Grin
Na who tell sey you wor wor,  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin. You knw say monkey no fine but the mama like am.  Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:17 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 11:17 AM
Na who tell sey you wor wor,  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin. You knw say monkey no fine but the mama like am.  Grin Grin

even me sef..i knw sey i wor wor naaaaaa...every morning..my mama dey remind me sey i wor wor.. Grin e nor easy to wor wor na

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- verah at 10-02-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago)
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not only  female even some males do it................... so jus bhav as if u dnt knw she exist

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:23 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:27 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 11:11 AM
Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked  

try to involve others then..involving others doesnt mean you are escalating the issue...Prepare to talk with your boss. Take notes and address the issues, not as interpersonal problems, but as issues affecting you..that you dont like, the work and your progress on projects(that is ..if its affecting u badly at ur place of work). Tell your boss exactly what the difficult person does.

if that one no do...Go wait am for junction..make two of una Qwater am for bustop  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin so that she go no how far  Grin Grin  IGNORE HER JARE...HER WEIGHT NO REACH  Cool Cheesy
One incident played in front of my boss and you knw what he said, pls don't fight her bc she have to be jealous of me but i don't have to be jealous of her bc am higher in everything. Involving other means bringing down one self to her stupid thinking.
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:27 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:29 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 11:23 AM
even me sef..i knw sey i wor wor naaaaaa...every morning..my mama dey remind me sey i wor wor.. Grin e nor easy to wor wor na
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:29 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:31 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Treasure2 on 10-02-2012 11:27 AM
One incident played in front of my boss and you knw what he said, pls don't fight her bc she have to be jealous of me but i don't have to be jealous of her bc am higher in everything. Involving other means bringing down one self to her stupid thinking.

then worry no more..she go tire

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:31 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 10-02-2012 11:32 AM (12 years ago)
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pls bone d gurl, she no reach to giv u headache
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:32 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Treasure2 at 10-02-2012 11:34 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: verah on 10-02-2012 11:23 AM
not only  female even some males do it................... so jus bhav as if u dnt knw she exist
I hv the best relationship with male in my office. Am more comfortable with them then female.
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:34 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 10-02-2012 11:36 AM (12 years ago)
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its alwz like dat. am d only female in my department and i soooooooooo luv it Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:36 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 10-02-2012 11:36 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 10-02-2012 11:13 AM
She dey jealousy her sey ur kenery bbeta pass her own  Grin Grin Grin

which wan come be kenery again kwa Huh? Grin pusspen u don carry come again

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:36 AM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:38 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 10-02-2012 11:36 AM
which wan come be kenery again kwa Huh? Grin pusspen u don carry come again

hehehe...i get plenty prenty new words now..na new yr na... Grin

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:38 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 10-02-2012 11:39 AM (12 years ago)
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kenery means Ikebe!  Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:39 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:40 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 10-02-2012 11:36 AM
its alwz like dat. am d only female in my department and i soooooooooo luv it Cheesy Cheesy

pls pass me some..me na just one..we dey cope wella..gist wella..but na M man Grin i nid a virgin  :opls  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:40 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 10-02-2012 11:41 AM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: jukkiebukwes on 10-02-2012 11:39 AM
kenery means Ikebe!  Grin Grin Grin

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Chie.!!!

Posted: at 10-02-2012 11:41 AM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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