Yes or No: Should traditions be discarded for the sake Love?

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at 03:41 PM, 21/06/2012 (6 years ago)
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In Nigeria and Yoruba tribe to be specific during the generations of the great-elders of the land, man gets a wife through the intervention of his friend and friend of his wife. This means has been practiced for years by great elders and fore fathers in Yoruba tribe. It is also known that the idea of a woman to express her feelings towards a man is very rare or not even practiced then.

My question is if a woman has a strong feelings for a man and this man seems not to have noticed her body language or her feelings towards him, should such woman ignored tradition and express her feelings towards the man?

All advise are strongly welcome...

Doncastle25 at 03:46 PM, 21/06/2012 (6 years ago)
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TRADITION IS CULTURE and Culture is the way of life of people (Community) Lips Sealed
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sophiebaby at 03:50 PM, 21/06/2012 (6 years ago)
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no comment.. am modernized  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

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aliaaz at 04:39 PM, 21/06/2012 (6 years ago)
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k

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50scent at 05:16 PM, 21/06/2012 (6 years ago)
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 Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

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BendelArmedRobb at 07:28 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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una too much!!!coffee wey I dey drink for hia comot for my nose as I read this.
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bittersweet at 08:01 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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TRADITION!TRADITION!TRADITION!Some so called "traditions" are absurd!
Personally I need to find the logic in things,otherwise......dismissed!

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chicco77 at 08:03 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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hmmmmmmmmmm
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mizcollins1 at 08:12 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 08:01 PM, 21/06/2012
TRADITION!TRADITION!TRADITION!Some so called "traditions" are absurd!
Personally I need to find the logic in things,otherwise......dismissed!

wisely said  Grin Grin
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franel at 08:18 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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I C

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proly at 09:31 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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ok
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BendelArmedRobb at 10:00 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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Ajanni and Kebella dis place Naijapals na una BEDROOM    Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes    una  too much!!!coffee wey I dey drink for hia comot for my nose as I read this.
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necessity12345 at 10:17 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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This has killed many real Love in most family, all in the name of tradition, some say we can''t change tradition, if two of them agree to be come one family why not aloud them to be.. Not all the old life style or tradition is working in our generation today while because things has change... And the wast part of it is that, the right person from them will come and destroy the Home, there have studied them self fro a long time, which there will be hope for peace in that family, and traditional matter will come and destroy the peace in the family.... i urge the traditional controller to aloud this if there is no other reasons for it...
Thanks.     
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Senegal at 10:51 PM, 21/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
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denmal at 12:03 AM, 22/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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tradition no matter
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1daful at 12:11 AM, 22/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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It's high time for some traditions to be broken.

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jeromchis at 01:58 AM, 22/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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Split Nigeria,Disintegrate Nigeria,Divide Nigeria...the Us and UK has used us a lot in the name of one Nigeria,this is modern slavery and manipulation in highest order...God will punish you folks,when you take one of ours,dozens of yours will be taken and more plague n doom will be your morning hug.             
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malvin2525 at 04:17 AM, 22/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
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spekay at 05:15 AM, 22/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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Times change  and we follow Lots have changed since last 50 years or so .. . well . So if you have feelings for someone and its not the wrong person to have feelings for (not married or strongly committed) better let him or her know through your feelings you can only try . Chances are things might click if they are meant to and if they do , If you water the vegetable bed stuff will grow ..

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spekay at 05:17 AM, 22/06/2012 (5 years ago)
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Quote from: jeromchis on 01:58 AM, 22/06/2012
Split Nigeria,Disintegrate Nigeria,Divide Nigeria...the Us and UK has used us a lot in the name of one Nigeria,this is modern slavery and manipulation in highest order...God will punish you folks,when you take one of ours,dozens of yours will be taken and more plague n doom will be your morning hug.             

Are we safe Huh??    why not carry placard to State house in Aso Rock

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