Women say they want a nice guy, yet usually end up dating bad boys. Here’s why. Not real: Nice guys are too nice. No one can always be that nice unless they’re a saint. They are busy being nice instead of being real and women instinctually don’t trust that. Bad boys “keep it real”. Nice guys don’t want to upset the apple cart.
Respect: No one respects a doormat. Nice guys don’t set boundaries or make any real demands. A bad boy doesn’t let a woman walk all over him or control him. Women can’t respect a man they can control. No respect = No attraction.
Predictable: Most people lead boring, predictable lives, so they’re attracted to people who are exciting and a bit unpredictable. Bad boys are always a challenge. Nice guys are never a challenge. Predictable + No excitement + No challenge = I prefer a bad boy.
Mother Nature: Women are designed to nurture. However, instead of doing this with children, they often end up doing it with bad boys. They think that will save them. Nice guys rarely need to be saved.
Fixer-Upper: Nice guys don’t usually need to be fixed. Bad boys usually do, so they become a project. Women think if they can “create” the perfect man, he will never leave them. Also, if they’re busy fixing someone else, they don’t have to look at what needs to be fixed in their own lives.
Sperm wars: Women are designed to procreate with the strongest possible genes. Bad boys are sending an unconscious message that they have great genes, so they’re not afraid of losing the woman by misbehaving. Nice guys are sending a message that they don’t think their genes are good enough, so they won’t misbehave.
Fear of intimacy: If a woman is afraid of intimacy, she subconsciously knows she can avoid it with a bad boy, since she can never get close enough to him to have to go there. A nice guy will eventually want a commitment, and that’s scary.
Low self-esteem: We don’t feel comfortable with people who treat us better than we treat ourselves. If you don’t think much of yourself, the bad boy is simply reinforcing your negative belief. A nice guy is treating you in a way you’re not familiar with.
Sex: Women feel a nice guy won’t be good in bed. They sometimes like to be manhandled and think a nice guy won’t be able to take control and get the job done. A bad boy comes across as being able to deliver, even though that may not always be the case.
Hot: Have you ever seen a bad boy who wasn’t hot? I’m sure there are a few, but they wouldn’t be able to get away with half the stuff they did if they didn’t look so good. Meanwhile, when a woman describes someone as a nice guy, she means, “He’s not hot”.
Posted: at 26-10-2012 12:40 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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ghanalove at 26-10-2012 02:40 AM (11 years ago) (f)
nice guys are for grown women, and bad boys are for small teenage girls. Don't listen to this BS. i'd rather have a nice guy that treat me and our children than a bad boy who never grows up and cheats 24/7.
Posted: at 26-10-2012 02:40 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
donklass at 26-10-2012 04:18 AM (11 years ago) (m)
in a way nice guys doe'nt just balance the equation,'oppossing force' attraction of bad guys to women, could be tressed to their ability to compliment the opposite side of feminish nature, nice guys seem to poses more of what could be seen as femal tract,wnm do prtend to prefer these but is not true to some estend,,an varage wnm is strictly jealous of that feminsh tract no matter her status in life.
Posted: at 26-10-2012 04:18 AM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
Sophyrocks at 26-10-2012 08:38 AM (11 years ago) (f)
Quote from: ghanalove on 26-10-2012 02:40 AM
nice guys are for grown women, and bad boys are for small teenage girls. Don't listen to this BS. i'd rather have a nice guy that treat me and our children than a bad boy who never grows up and cheats 24/7.
God bless u my sister. U spoke well. Tnk God im nt among d ice fish brain girls who luv bad boys. Yet dey kip complainin of one tin or oda abt such guys. I believe such girls hav no self respect n inferiority complex so dey a bad guy 2 trample on dem lyk a mat.Mr nice guy has d only key 2 my heart. Bad guys r only gud 2 be used n dumped.
Life is damn too short to be sitting around miserable.
Posted: at 26-10-2012 08:38 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
crusifixo at 26-10-2012 09:28 AM (11 years ago) (m)
Quote from: ghanalove on 26-10-2012 02:40 AM
nice guys are for grown women, and bad boys are for small teenage girls. Don't listen to this BS. i'd rather have a nice guy that treat me and our children than a bad boy who never grows up and cheats 24/7.
At the end when the nice guy last only 1 minute in bed,you will come for we the bad guys that last 3, 4 hour abi?
Posted: at 26-10-2012 09:28 AM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
nice guys are for grown women, and bad boys are for small teenage girls. Don't listen to this BS. i'd rather have a nice guy that treat me and our children than a bad boy who never grows up and cheats 24/7.
noted!!!
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dickdonski at 26-10-2012 09:47 AM (11 years ago) (m)
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