Helper or Patner

Date: 03-05-2009 9:41 am (15 years ago) | Author: King Samuel O Dguy
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- at 3-05-2009 09:41 AM (15 years ago)
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Its obviously not right for a woman to be just be a house wife, its alot bigger now when ladies should be more involved with activities in the relationship.

However is a man supposed to make the final decision in the family? -- even if the wife has different view?

Ok there cant be 2 captains on a ship, how do we go about this?

I think women should only marry a man that they can trust his judgement at first...


Posted: at 3-05-2009 09:41 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- mazi at 3-05-2009 09:56 AM (15 years ago)
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who said d woman can't be part of d decision making concerning d family....?
u r talking abt somebody who has stake in same family...
i don't i will want a 'dundee united' for a wife....ma wife will be part of every decision in d house...
Posted: at 3-05-2009 09:56 AM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 3-05-2009 10:06 AM (15 years ago)
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Thank yu Mazi

Posted: at 3-05-2009 10:06 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 3-05-2009 12:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  3-05-2009 09:56 AM
who said d woman can't be part of d decision making concerning d family....?
u r talking abt somebody who has stake in same family...
i don't i will want a 'dundee united' for a wife....ma wife will be part of every decision in d house...
true tlk.
Posted: at 3-05-2009 12:51 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- digitalman at 3-05-2009 12:55 PM (15 years ago)
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Elder Mazi, teach them more!, if they'll hear and learn.
Posted: at 3-05-2009 12:55 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- welli at 3-05-2009 01:50 PM (15 years ago)
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A woman is both a Partner and a helper!!
The man is the head and the woman the neck...My Point is, One cannot function without the other.
Both parties are to take part in decision making but mostly at the end of the day...The Man's decision stands.
God help him if his decision finally leads us to trouble...He is dead!! Grin Angry


Posted: at 3-05-2009 01:50 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 3-05-2009 01:58 PM (15 years ago)
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 I mean if things were the way it used to be those days, during our parents dayz, then that could be true but these days man especially when you are in a country like USA, I tell you she gots to be bringing some papers home too, and ofcourse we can sit down and make the best out of making a decision which is going to benefit the family not just one person.

Posted: at 3-05-2009 01:58 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- herdeysohjy at 3-05-2009 03:12 PM (15 years ago)
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both
Posted: at 3-05-2009 03:12 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 09:36 AM (15 years ago)
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I disagree with you on that. Women are suppose to be part of the family, not only house wife, but also partner in decision making that will better the entire family.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 09:36 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 4-05-2009 09:39 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  3-05-2009 09:41 AM
Its obviously not right for a woman to be just be a house wife, its alot bigger now when ladies should be more involved with activities in the relationship.

However is a man supposed to make the final decision in the family? -- even if the wife has different view?

Ok there cant be 2 captains on a ship, how do we go about this?

I think women should only marry a man that they can trust his judgement at first...


lol......i think women and men should share views....sometimes ur wife's views can help solve certain issues.....but of course,we don't dind much of this in the nigerian culture as men always ask women to stay out of their business

Posted: at 4-05-2009 09:39 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- SAmyrocko at 4-05-2009 10:23 AM (15 years ago)
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......Such ideas, is really changing.

Posted: at 4-05-2009 10:23 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- myragonza at 5-05-2009 06:33 AM (14 years ago)
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its time to bring in the Oracle to the picture then................ Grin

Posted: at 5-05-2009 06:33 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Beauti4 at 5-05-2009 06:56 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  3-05-2009 09:41 AM
Its obviously not right for a woman to be just be a house wife, its alot bigger now when ladies should be more involved with activities in the relationship.

However is a man supposed to make the final decision in the family? -- even if the wife has different view?

Ok there cant be 2 captains on a ship, how do we go about this?

I think women should only marry a man that they can trust his judgement at first...

d man is d captain of d fam and d woman is d assistant cap of d fam thats y she was  created to b his backbone...for instance, if some1 come to ask u for family car...apart from your personal one...wouldnt u inform your wife???
Posted: at 5-05-2009 06:56 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 5-05-2009 07:14 AM (14 years ago)
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true talk gal....

Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:14 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 5-05-2009 07:18 AM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  3-05-2009 09:41 AM
Its obviously not right for a woman to be just be a house wife, its alot bigger now when ladies should be more involved with activities in the relationship.

However is a man supposed to make the final decision in the family? -- even if the wife has different view?

Ok there cant be 2 captains on a ship, how do we go about this?

I think women should only marry a man that they can trust his judgement at first...

Helper, partner, nad the same thing. esp in the context of marriage.
Even though the final decision is the man's to make, he still needs to consult with his wife and kides if they are of age and the issue can affect the family as a whole.
It's thesame way a general consults with his subordinates but gives the final order and the President (is supposed to) consult with the senate but takes the final decision.
Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:18 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 5-05-2009 07:20 AM (14 years ago)
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females can make final decisions too

Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:20 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 5-05-2009 07:26 AM (14 years ago)
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It didnt say they couldnt, in the absence of their husbands yes or when he is incapacitated.
Trust me the wife that goes taking final decisions contrary to her husbands decision or without his consent is brewing up confusion for herself.
Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:26 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 5-05-2009 07:28 AM (14 years ago)
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 Tongue Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:28 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onchedu at 5-05-2009 07:34 AM (14 years ago)
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U r giving me the tongue? *Pun intended* lol!
Now I'm gonna go brag and tell the world queen Myra of NP gave me the tongue 3times... lol!
Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:34 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- myragonza at 5-05-2009 07:35 AM (14 years ago)
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i''ll wait for the headlines on tomorrow's newspaper... Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 5-05-2009 07:35 AM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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