I met this guy online since last 2yrs now and we hav been in good terms even since then and he has be very good to me we talk almost every nite for hours.he's been very nice to me in fact i can't find the words to qualify him he is just too nice and he has always been there for me. he correct me when am wrong and when am hungry he try to talk me down,he has really studied me person to the extend that when an happy he knows and when am not he will also notice and ask wht that problem is.We met once last year becos he say he wanted to see me so he traveled down from Enugu to see me in Lagos in my office and went back that same day which was last year and since then we hav been together some time we querral and after some days we settle and bet together again.he knows me so mush that there notin we both hind from each other.
Why i need your opinion now is that he has asked me to marry him (sincerely speaking) but i have not said any-tin to that be-cos am still very confused abt wht to say to him. can dis be real and sometin else? We love each other that i no very well but is this real?
pls i need serious and matured minded pple to comment here am serious here i need your advice can i go ahead to accept his proposal or not.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:02 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
qunodinga at 23-08-2010 12:07 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Well, i think you should give him a chance...it might be real...
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:07 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Obviously "Nice" isn't what U feel U need at the moment. U want fun and excitement shey and Ur relationship with him feels more like brother sister than guy girl?
Just asking.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 23-08-2010 12:18 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Before giving him an answer, you need to spend more time together! But together in real life, not online! And, I don't know, think well if you really want him!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Before giving him an answer, you need to spend more time together! But together in real life, not online! And, I don't know, think well if you really want him!
I concur.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:23 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Bave U should take Bittersweet's advice. If U say yes now when do u think the wedding ceremony would be? Don't go and marry cos someone suggested U give him a chances o. He's not asking U to date him. This is marriage.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
oyindabty at 23-08-2010 12:42 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: onchedu on 23-08-2010 12:16 PM
Obviously "Nice" isn't what U feel U need at the moment. U want fun and excitement shey and Ur relationship with him feels more like brother sister than guy girl?
Just asking.
no we are in a relationsh.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Obviously "Nice" isn't what U feel U need at the moment. U want fun and excitement shey and Ur relationship with him feels more like brother sister than guy girl?
Just asking.
no we are in a relationsh.
But U aren't as excited about the relationship as U had imagined U should be about someone U would readily say yes to? Help me understand Ur concerns better then I'll see what advice would suit best.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
Micheall at 23-08-2010 01:01 PM (13 years ago) (m)
i see a gurl here, so scared of reality....if this dude of urs fail to be serious to this extent, many gurls will decline the relationship...grow up and learn dat serious affection, true love en such attraction he has 4 u leads to something more serious which is marriage...remainber u took ur time to say a lot about him and u never said he is a bad person think deeply about it en follow ur heart.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 01:01 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 23-08-2010 01:05 PM (13 years ago) (f)
He has visited you only once.........and you havent visited him.......why not get to his place so that you can see things for yourself?......you really need the real life thing to be sure....dont accept for now!
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 23-08-2010 01:05 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
u need to know him more on a physical level, in terms of what he thinks about ur mannerisms etc, its a huge commitment don't make it based on just a visit
Posted: at 23-08-2010 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
Relationships in reality are usually a whole lot different from relationships online.
Even relationships that start on the net and end up working out like a fairy tale still need to re-start when the people meet in reality. There is an awkwardness at the first real meeting that needs to be handled right and some "realities" that need to be reconciled, otherwise it most likely aint going to happen.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 01:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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