![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 23-08-2010 10:53 PM (13 years ago)  (m) I met this guy online since last 2yrs now and we hav been in good terms even since then and he has be very good to me we talk almost every nite for hours.he's been very nice to me in fact i can't find the words to qualify him he is just too nice and he has always been there for me. he correct me when am wrong and when am hungry he try to talk me down,he has really studied me person to the extend that when an happy he knows and when am not he will also notice and ask wht that problem is.We met once last year becos he say he wanted to see me so he traveled down from Enugu to see me in Lagos in my office and went back that same day which was last year and since then we hav been together some time we querral and after some days we settle and bet together again.he knows me so mush that there notin we both hind from each other.
Why i need your opinion now is that he has asked me to marry him (sincerely speaking) but i have not said any-tin to that be-cos am still very confused abt wht to say to him. can dis be real and sometin else? We love each other that i no very well but is this real?
pls i need serious and matured minded pple to comment here am serious here i need your advice can i go ahead to accept his proposal or not.
Yu don't expect us 2 Decide such a serious issue for yu, do yu?
Well it doesn't make Sense 2 Marry from a Distance
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 23-08-2010 10:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sa-fire") sa-fire at 23-08-2010 11:34 PM (13 years ago) (f) lmao!
 Love Always Shines Every time Remember to Smile we r LASERS not losers | Posted: at 23-08-2010 11:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "oyindabty") oyindabty at 25-08-2010 08:57 AM (13 years ago) (f) but i think i love this guy so wht do i do | Posted: at 25-08-2010 08:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "faithaina") faithaina at 25-08-2010 09:34 AM (13 years ago) (f) pray to God first blf u take any step.ask God to direct and lead u he may be the right person for u and he may not be. | Posted: at 25-08-2010 09:34 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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my dear, u ave to be sincere wit urself, Marriage is more than a frindshp oo.. put love aside dis time, u ned to spend some times wit him, try to know wat is own definition of life, his he accomodative?how is his family members?try to know his reaction towards matters. can he pray? do u share d same blve? try to know all dis plus advice from thomax too. am speaking from experience o, i dated sum1 recently and is abt to end in marriage all for me to no dat dis guy is Hot temper and dnt want to associate wit family even his family doesnt move closer to him and he wants d same thing for me but i came from a loving and friendly family where u hardly knows who is who but reverse is His case. there are sumtins u ned to know and compare cos once u entered i cant advice u for divorce o. MAARIAGE IS NOT SLAVERY OOOOOOOOOOOOO. | Posted: at 25-08-2010 11:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "daywalkerX") daywalkerX at 25-08-2010 01:36 PM (13 years ago) (m) seriously if you have had it wt him then he may be real if not ,maybe he just wants to lure you into his trap.all in all na you sabi | Posted: at 25-08-2010 01:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "oyindabty") oyindabty at 25-08-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) (f) @daywalkerx you sound like you are not happy about it. so wht do you want me to do now? | Posted: at 25-08-2010 04:29 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Kennee") Kennee at 25-08-2010 09:10 PM (13 years ago) (m) but i think i love this guy so wht do i do
It's not Love, Sorry
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE | Posted: at 25-08-2010 09:10 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "akjasper") akjasper at 26-08-2010 04:23 AM (13 years ago) (m) I met this guy online since last 2yrs now and we hav been in good terms even since then and he has be very good to me we talk almost every nite for hours.he's been very nice to me in fact i can't find the words to qualify him he is just too nice and he has always been there for me. he correct me when am wrong and when am hungry he try to talk me down,he has really studied me person to the extend that when an happy he knows and when am not he will also notice and ask wht that problem is.We met once last year becos he say he wanted to see me so he traveled down from Enugu to see me in Lagos in my office and went back that same day which was last year and since then we hav been together some time we querral and after some days we settle and bet together again.he knows me so mush that there notin we both hind from each other.
Why i need your opinion now is that he has asked me to marry him (sincerely speaking) but i have not said any-tin to that be-cos am still very confused abt wht to say to him. can dis be real and sometin else? We love each other that i no very well but is this real?
pls i need serious and matured minded pple to comment here am serious here i need your advice can i go ahead to accept his proposal or not.
U neva wan marry??? | Posted: at 26-08-2010 04:23 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "oyindabty") oyindabty at 26-08-2010 07:57 AM (13 years ago) (f) i want to but am so confused about this one don't know what to tell him.pls advice me more | Posted: at 26-08-2010 07:57 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "oyindabty") oyindabty at 26-08-2010 08:00 AM (13 years ago) (f) @kennee i like dis ur cap ooo but why did you say this is not Love then wht is it? | Posted: at 26-08-2010 08:00 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 26-08-2010 08:11 AM (13 years ago) (m) @esonu why no idea you want me to accept?
sweetie...i've gone through de advice ur honorable pals gave u....they've just spoken well....in support of what they've all said, i think u should make out time, even if it means abandoning ur work, try to meet him in his house, sit down, talk with him, no him more cos some guys met on net can be fake sometimes..know his background, know if he is de kind of man dat u will love spending de rest of ur life with, know de kind of business he does, don't marry someone whom tomorrow u will start running halter scepter cos of one illegal business he did, know if he can make u happy cos happiness is de most important thing in marriage, try to know if he is real or he is de type dat will promise nkechi dat he will marry her and at de same time propose to marry..in fact ascertain everything about him....wish u de best of lucks...but dont forget to send ur weeding card to me if de whole stuff works..heheheheeheh
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 26-08-2010 08:11 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "bafyguy") bafyguy at 26-08-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) (m) My dear b4 you say yes you need to spend more time 2gether in real life not online. You know marriage is 4 better 4 worse, once u say i do there is no going back. So spend more time with him to know him better, i mean physicaly not in the virtual world. Most importantly pray 4 God's guidiance. | Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 26-08-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) (m) peeped
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 26-08-2010 10:57 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "oyindabty") oyindabty at 26-08-2010 12:19 PM (13 years ago) (f) @esonu your reply up dey was a bomb you lifted my spirit.tanx darling | Posted: at 26-08-2010 12:19 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "peaceben") peaceben at 26-08-2010 12:54 PM (13 years ago) (f) i think you should travel to where he is, try to meet his pple and ask him to also meet your pple, cos marriage is a life time thing and on line can be funny and when you see the out come finnally, then you will conclude to say yes or not. be careful with him and make sure you have a pastor that can stand by you in prayers, pray about this guy. | Posted: at 26-08-2010 12:54 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "tessybj") tessybj at 26-08-2010 01:16 PM (13 years ago) (f) i think you should pray like wht peaceben has said " pray about him" | Posted: at 26-08-2010 01:16 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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my dear at this point i think you need Godly counsel. Marriage is not something you jump in and jump out. seek God's face and don't be carried away by what you see today. 95% of online relationships always end up in regret. be wise | Posted: at 26-08-2010 01:20 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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be wise gurl | Posted: at 26-08-2010 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "esonu") esonu at 26-08-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago) (m) @esonu your reply up dey was a bomb you lifted my spirit.tanx darling
u are welcome sweetie
CHILDREN ARE BORN BUT MEN ARE MADE;THE GOLD THAT WILL BE REFINED MUST PASS THROUGH THE FURNACE.WORDS | Posted: at 26-08-2010 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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