CAN THIS BE REAL OR NOT. (Page 2)

Date: 23-08-2010 12:02 pm (14 years ago) | Author: Oyindamola betty Aroguma
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- FlyMamacita at 23-08-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 23-08-2010 01:42 PM
Relationships in reality are usually a whole lot different from relationships online.

Even relationships that start on the net and end up working out like a fairy tale still need to re-start when the people meet in reality. There is an awkwardness at the first real meeting that needs to be handled right and some "realities" that need to be reconciled, otherwise it most likely aint going to happen.
mmm yes i follow tht
Posted: at 23-08-2010 01:55 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- enc4life at 23-08-2010 02:14 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 23-08-2010 01:03 PM
Quote from: oyindabty on 23-08-2010 12:55 PM
Quote from: tessybj on 23-08-2010 12:19 PM
girl at this moment you need divine wisdom from above.

yes i need divine wisdom now

u'v said it ALL
Posted: at 23-08-2010 02:14 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 02:49 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 23-08-2010 01:05 PM
He has visited you only once.........and you havent visited him.......why not get to his place so that you can see things for yourself?......you really need the real life thing to be sure....dont accept for now!

yes he has but i could not make it becos of my tight schedule
Posted: at 23-08-2010 02:49 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- qunodinga at 23-08-2010 02:53 PM (14 years ago)
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then plan that ASAP!
Posted: at 23-08-2010 02:53 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 02:55 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: onchedu on 23-08-2010 12:31 PM
Bave U should take Bittersweet's advice. If U say yes now when do u think the wedding ceremony would be? Don't go and marry cos someone suggested U give him a chances o. He's not asking U to date him. This is marriage.


No i have not am  still going tru all what you guys have said here i just t have to be care.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 02:55 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 23-08-2010 02:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: oyindabty on 23-08-2010 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 23-08-2010 01:05 PM
He has visited you only once.........and you havent visited him.......why not get to his place so that you can see things for yourself?......you really need the real life thing to be sure....dont accept for now!

yes he has but i could not make it becos of my tight schedule

Hey dear, device any means and visit him yourself. This is marriage we are talking about here not just a mere relationship.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 02:57 PM (14 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 02:59 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 23-08-2010 12:34 PM
u really need to spend time with him just like BS has said
if u like try find out a little about him and his background physically
and not online

hmmm doing that presently thanks
Posted: at 23-08-2010 02:59 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: abdulk on 23-08-2010 01:20 PM
u need to know him more on a physical level, in terms of what he thinks about ur mannerisms etc, its a huge commitment don't make it based on just a visit


yes
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:01 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: akanniowon on 23-08-2010 01:38 PM
Quote from: qunodinga on 23-08-2010 12:07 PM
Well, i think you should give him a chance...it might be real...
Undecided

are you happy about it or what?
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:04 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: qunodinga on 23-08-2010 02:53 PM
then plan that ASAP!

 Grin Grin Grin Grin yes i will
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:09 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: SAmyrocko on 23-08-2010 02:57 PM
Quote from: oyindabty on 23-08-2010 02:49 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 23-08-2010 01:05 PM
He has visited you only once.........and you havent visited him.......why not get to his place so that you can see things for yourself?......you really need the real life thing to be sure....dont accept for now!

yes he has but i could not make it becos of my tight schedule

Hey dear, device any means and visit him yourself. This is marriage we are talking about here not just a mere relationship.

yea am workin on that presently. tanx
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tyabo at 23-08-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago)
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u need 2 know him more berra dan jst online or on phone talkin..lyk u said he came 2 visit u in lagos nd left dat same day..1 day or 6months is nt enof 4 u 2 study who u wanna spend d rest of ur life wid.. nd remeber marriage is nt lyk rlationship dat u can jst walk away frm if it doesn't work out..pray 2 ur God 4 direction nd guide nd get 2 spend more time wid him..peace b on u..
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Thomax at 23-08-2010 03:44 PM (14 years ago)
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marriage is sweet bt at the same time, cud be a trap. i will advice you do these or consider these:

  • try visit him & live with him for few days. you cn discuss spending at least 4days in a month together with him. this option is a most bt note tht living doesn't mean you shud have sex. after all, control is wht makes us diff frm animals. living wit some1 brings out the true color of who he/she is. hiding cnt last tht long if u ar smart enough to study som1's character
  • consider the distance i.e Enugu & Lagos. are u prepared to dump Lagos for Enugu or same wit him?
  • is he making enuf financially that u ar content with?
  • try find out wht u love abt him & wht he loves abt u. love is really nt enuf for a lasting married life
  • try knw wht his ideal home looks like. his ideal home might be diff frm urs
  • NEVER marry someone b4 trying to find attraction. u must be attracted to him b4 marriage.
  • if u are okay with all these, bring him home & introduce him to ur family & see if they like him.
  • make him take u to his family and see if they like u. some nice people have terrible families so u have to check if his family cn be easily coped wit bcos u ar also marrying them.
  • Lastly, sex is very important in marriage. be free to discuss this with him & make sure u find out all he knows abt love making. full sex discussion wit him is necessary if u dnt want sex b4 marriage. some very healthy & good looking guys are lazy so be careful. also, u might be one of those chics who only blives tht sex is for making babies while he differs. so try to see if u guys are on the same sex line

Marriage is nt a ten year relationship... its life sentence with someone. leave whtever is taking ur time for now & do your research carefully.
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:44 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
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- esonu at 23-08-2010 03:47 PM (14 years ago)
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no idea
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
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- jukkiebukwes at 23-08-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago)
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prayers gurl, and study him mor physically...
Posted: at 23-08-2010 03:52 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 04:11 PM (14 years ago)
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@Thomax i think i like what you said up there and they are all good ideas thanks
Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:11 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago)
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@esonu why no idea you want me to accept?
Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:17 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- oyindabty at 23-08-2010 04:43 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: tyabo on 23-08-2010 03:28 PM
u need 2 know him more berra dan jst online or on phone talkin..lyk u said he came 2 visit u in lagos nd left dat same day..1 day or 6months is nt enof 4 u 2 study who u wanna spend d rest of ur life wid.. nd remeber marriage is nt lyk rlationship dat u can jst walk away frm if it doesn't work out..pray 2 ur God 4 direction nd guide nd get 2 spend more time wid him..peace b on u..


good one
Posted: at 23-08-2010 04:43 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jennyjo at 23-08-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago)
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spend more time with physically..not online..to know if he is real....mmmmmmm...pls be wise babe...
Posted: at 23-08-2010 05:29 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
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- enc4life at 23-08-2010 09:57 PM (14 years ago)
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Quote from: jennyjo on 23-08-2010 05:29 PM
spend more time with physically..not online..to know if he is real....mmmmmmm...pls be wise babe...

datz it
Posted: at 23-08-2010 09:57 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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