Ladies what will you do if u were in this (Page 14)

Date: 18-10-2010 9:40 am (13 years ago) | Author: Blessing Edet
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.
dont get me wrong, any body could have foot the bill
but wat am saying is that d dude shouldnt ve pop up a surprise at the counter
by buying his ticket and asking her to buy hers too

am sure u wouldnt do that
How about this. when you go to the movies with a dude, pull out your wallet and try to pay for your own. I bet you he will ask you not to worry, that he got it. Do not expect him to pay because you might get disappointed. Foot your bills and if he want s to be a gentleman, he will tell you to put your wallet back in your purse.

Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:40 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:34 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:31 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.


That is not what she meant . Read the topic very well and u will understand the situation  Grin Grin Grin Grin

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


So what exactly does this mean?


Heheheheheeeeeeeeeeeeee !!! so Glad you have seen the light ..................even without removing your glasses  Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
I got you on this one.

Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 20-10-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:34 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:31 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.


That is not what she meant . Read the topic very well and u will understand the situation  Grin Grin Grin Grin

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


So what exactly does this mean?
it means women are suppose to be cared for, pampered, love and the likes
bcos men are the head of women and as christ is the head of the church
ok

Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- FlyMamacita at 20-10-2010 12:47 PM (13 years ago)
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TM84, i like wht u said there ' if he want to b a gentleman he will pay or it'

and tht is true... not wen ur standin there like toothless goat untill he pays for u
Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:47 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- onyin at 20-10-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago)
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@Blessedme.When he's married to you,he's your head and you are his responsibilities.Smiley
Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 20-10-2010 12:58 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:43 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.
dont get me wrong, any body could have foot the bill
but wat am saying is that d dude shouldnt ve pop up a surprise at the counter
by buying his ticket and asking her to buy hers too

am sure u wouldnt do that
How about this. when you go to the movies with a dude, pull out your wallet and try to pay for your own. I bet you he will ask you not to worry, that he got it. Do not expect him to pay because you might get disappointed. Foot your bills and if he want s to be a gentleman, he will tell you to put your wallet back in your purse.
It is a thing of choice typical
maybe she wasnt even interested in d movies afterall
the guy persuaded her to go there just for the fun of it

mind you no body wants to spend unnecessary mony
if she wanted to watch d movie maybe d invitation could have come from her
or probably she will go to the movies alone and spend her money for some fun
not spending on outing she never budgeted for
Posted: at 20-10-2010 12:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 01:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:45 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:34 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:31 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.


That is not what she meant . Read the topic very well and u will understand the situation  Grin Grin Grin Grin

What is really happening? where is the love and care professed by guys
where is d shield a guy is suppose to provide for his girl


So what exactly does this mean?
it means women are suppose to be cared for, pampered, love and the likes
bcos men are the head of women and as christ is the head of the church
ok


until he is married to you, then we shall talk about that one.

Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 01:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:58 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:43 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.
dont get me wrong, any body could have foot the bill
but wat am saying is that d dude shouldnt ve pop up a surprise at the counter
by buying his ticket and asking her to buy hers too

am sure u wouldnt do that
How about this. when you go to the movies with a dude, pull out your wallet and try to pay for your own. I bet you he will ask you not to worry, that he got it. Do not expect him to pay because you might get disappointed. Foot your bills and if he want s to be a gentleman, he will tell you to put your wallet back in your purse.
It is a thing of choice typical
maybe she wasnt even interested in d movies afterall
the guy persuaded her to go there just for the fun of it

mind you no body wants to spend unnecessary mony
if she wanted to watch d movie maybe d invitation could have come from her
or probably she will go to the movies alone and spend her money for some fun
not spending on outing she never budgeted for
Well next time tell her she has the option to decline the invite and if she accepts the invite, she should have some money in her purse because the guy never agreed he will pay for her ticket.

Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:04 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 20-10-2010 01:06 PM (13 years ago)
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u just brought d issue of husband and wife
d wife summitting and d likes
am talkin as per that
Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:43 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.
dont get me wrong, any body could have foot the bill
but wat am saying is that d dude shouldnt ve pop up a surprise at the counter
by buying his ticket and asking her to buy hers too

am sure u wouldnt do that
How about this. when you go to the movies with a dude, pull out your wallet and try to pay for your own. I bet you he will ask you not to worry, that he got it. Do not expect him to pay because you might get disappointed. Foot your bills and if he want s to be a gentleman, he will tell you to put your wallet back in your purse.

Correct !! anybody can settle the bills . Its not a gender thing but i am just talking of this particular situation.......................the guy's action was too bad

Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- blessedme at 20-10-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago)
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thats y i said its a thing of choice
she could have decline if she wanted to
Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 01:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 01:04 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:58 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:43 PM
Quote from: blessedme on 20-10-2010 12:38 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:27 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:25 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:21 PM
Quote from: onyiis on 20-10-2010 12:14 PM
Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 12:06 PM
let me also clarify that a man paying for the woman's movie ticket is not part of the African Culture.

[b]Mind you that "going to see a movie with a lady" is not an african culture[/b] .So if u want to borrow another man's culture then do it to the full .

Where going to see a movie with a woman is a culture ,The person that sends out the invitation pays the bills

No... So if it is not an african culture, why would she expect the man to pay. Your last statement is inaccurate. What culture is that you speak of because over here in the states, everyone foot their movie ticket bills.. man or woman.

Where i am , it is the same culture , anybody can foot the bills depending on a mutual agreement . mind you this is a case of "two love birds"
Like i said the norm is the he who invited the other should pay the bills and if he is not in a situation to do that financially ,he should tell the other before hand anaut it and not "standing her " at the counter to pay her bills
Gbam... that was what I said... and then i said it is not the responsibility of the man to pay for the movie ticket for the woman. the poster is under the impression that when a man and a woman goes to a movie theater, the man should foot the bill because he is a man.
dont get me wrong, any body could have foot the bill
but wat am saying is that d dude shouldnt ve pop up a surprise at the counter
by buying his ticket and asking her to buy hers too

am sure u wouldnt do that
How about this. when you go to the movies with a dude, pull out your wallet and try to pay for your own. I bet you he will ask you not to worry, that he got it. Do not expect him to pay because you might get disappointed. Foot your bills and if he want s to be a gentleman, he will tell you to put your wallet back in your purse.
It is a thing of choice typical
maybe she wasnt even interested in d movies afterall
the guy persuaded her to go there just for the fun of it

mind you no body wants to spend unnecessary mony
if she wanted to watch d movie maybe d invitation could have come from her
or probably she will go to the movies alone and spend her money for some fun
not spending on outing she never budgeted for
Well next time tell her she has the option to decline the invite and if she accepts the invite, she should have some money in her purse because the guy never agreed he will pay for her ticket.


As for declinning , you know some guys could be soo persuasive and just to make him feel good and enjoy your company for that evening, u accepted...............heheheheheheeeeeeeeeeeeee

Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:11 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- typicalman84 at 20-10-2010 01:17 PM (13 years ago)
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Stop being so defensive.... She expected so much and she got disappointed. point Blank.

Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- AbbyAjax at 20-10-2010 01:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Its not a big deal if she's a working class,  idnt see anything wrong in it but then arrangements might have been made earlier before moving, but then who knows, if this guy is probably tryin to get her into a vexing mood then surprise her....some guys are like that..you never can tell...
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- AbbyAjax at 20-10-2010 01:25 PM (13 years ago)
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Its not a big deal if she's a working class,  idnt see anything wrong in it but then arrangements might have been made earlier before moving, but then who knows, if this guy is probably tryin to get her into a vexing mood then surprise her....some guys are like that..you never can tell...
Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:25 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- eddybabs at 20-10-2010 01:26 PM (13 years ago)
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Not interested
Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 20-10-2010 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: typicalman84 on 20-10-2010 01:17 PM
Stop being so defensive.... She expected so much and she got disappointed. point Blank.


i am not , am just beeing realistic  Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- do4sure at 20-10-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago)
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Many always fail simple test.
Posted: at 20-10-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FEISTYFELLA at 20-10-2010 04:52 PM (13 years ago)
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love is not only when you pay transport. do you know if he was broke?
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- kethey at 20-10-2010 05:32 PM (13 years ago)
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@poster said he brought out from his pocket, rolls of money and paid 4 his own then told the lady to pay 4 hers
Posted: at 20-10-2010 05:32 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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